I see the analogy you’re making, but I’m not sure I completely agree—partly because I’ve never been in that kind of situation with a man, and partly because a follower of Christ has a relationship with God that is deeply personal, a personal faith.
For a Christian, knowing God isn’t just knowing about Him—it’s meeting Him through Jesus. Jesus came into our world, lived and suffered, and died so that we could be reconciled to God (Romans 5:8). That wasn’t symbolic; it was a decisive intervention in human history.
Through this, we can know God personally, not just theoretically. The Holy Spirit then comes to live within believers, guiding, comforting, and transforming us. The Spirit helps us understand God’s Word, strengthens us, and allows us to experience His presence in everyday life. So a very personal relationship. I’m not sure that could be compared to someone I’ve never met online.
The hope Christians have isn’t a vague wish—it’s a certain hope, grounded in what God has already done, continues to do in our lives, and promises to ultimately do in the world. For example, Revelation speaks about him wiping away our tears. No more suffering! The Bible explains this far better than I can—it’s full of the story of God’s love, faithfulness, and ultimate restoration.
Hopefully that helps to explain the hope and the reason that Christians trust in God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, and the beautiful personal relationship that is so very different to a human relationship with someone we haven’t met.