background - I am autistic and pretty set in my ways. Everyone knows this.
MIL likes to "help" when she comes to visit. I find this very difficult and everyone also knows this. Because of where she lives she visits for multiple days at a time. I have said to DH I can only cope for max 5 days!
She arrived yesterday and announced she will be staying until the New Year!!!!!
I said to DH did he know this, and he said yes, but she will go to other relatives for a few days. He hadn't explained this to me before so it was a shock.
Today MIL has "helped" by taking my washing out of the machine for me and leaving it (folded up) wet, in the basket.
AIBU to not want MIL going through my washing - which includes underwear?
I'm already set on edge now and she's only been here a matter of hours.