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AIBU?

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Words, not acronyms.

38 replies

MissAW · 20/12/2025 22:58

Am I being unreasonable to expect people to write actual words rather than acronyms? I honestly read some posts that are so littered with acronyms that I can't understand what point is being made. Use your words, people.

OP posts:
malmi · 21/12/2025 00:02

They are mostly not acronyms, or abbreviations, but initialisms. Although I do pronounce AIBU as eye-boo.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 21/12/2025 00:02

MissAW · 20/12/2025 23:06

My post-menopausal memory has more important fish to fry.

Why are you frying fish? What's this thread got to do with cooking? Can't you just say what you want to say? Use your words comprehensively

MissAW · 21/12/2025 00:04

Touché!

Or is that too French?

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puffyeyewink · 21/12/2025 00:06

OchonAgusOchonOh · 20/12/2025 23:56

They are acronyms. An acronym uses the first letter of each word so AIBU from am I being unreasonable. An abbreviation is a shortened form of a word e.g. Ltd. from Limited.

TBF acronyms are when the first letters are used but then pronounced as a word. For example FOMO (Fear of Misding Out) people say FoMo not F.O.M.O, or PIN (Personal Identification Number) people say PIN number.

whereas RSPCA, you say each individual letter, so that’s not an acronym. I’d say DH is the same. They are initialisms.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 21/12/2025 00:06

OchonAgusOchonOh · 20/12/2025 23:56

They are acronyms. An acronym uses the first letter of each word so AIBU from am I being unreasonable. An abbreviation is a shortened form of a word e.g. Ltd. from Limited.

Turns out I'm wrong. I googled. Acronyms are a form of abbreviation. And most of the ones on here are, as a pp said, initialisms, not acronyms.

Mistyglade · 21/12/2025 00:11

YippeeKayayeMF · 20/12/2025 23:05

Do you not read DH as dhhhhuh? Or DSIL as deesill?

No.

ObliviousCoalmine · 21/12/2025 00:12

If anyone called their husband a “Dee aitch” out loud in real life, I dread to think how quickly I’d have to run away.

ObliviousCoalmine · 21/12/2025 00:13

YippeeKayayeMF · 20/12/2025 23:05

Do you not read DH as dhhhhuh? Or DSIL as deesill?

No that is insane?

RecordBreakers · 21/12/2025 00:19

Do you object to initialisms and shortenings everywhere? Or only on Mumsnet ?

BBC ?
NHS ?
MOT ?
GP?
Dr ?
etc ?
Mr ?
UK ?

ObliviousCoalmine · 21/12/2025 00:35

RecordBreakers · 21/12/2025 00:19

Do you object to initialisms and shortenings everywhere? Or only on Mumsnet ?

BBC ?
NHS ?
MOT ?
GP?
Dr ?
etc ?
Mr ?
UK ?

If it was “my dear GP” as “went to my DGP today about my bad back”, then yes. I would. Thankfully it isn’t.

Okiedokie123 · 21/12/2025 16:15

MissAW · 20/12/2025 23:06

My post-menopausal memory has more important fish to fry.

So MN isnt the place for you. Why do you imagine we are all going to stop using shorthand just to suit you because you cant be bothered to learn the lingo.
YABVU HTH. And if you are this sort of lazy in other ways in your life you might even be a CF!

MorrisonsPlatter · 21/12/2025 16:24

puffyeyewink · 21/12/2025 00:06

TBF acronyms are when the first letters are used but then pronounced as a word. For example FOMO (Fear of Misding Out) people say FoMo not F.O.M.O, or PIN (Personal Identification Number) people say PIN number.

whereas RSPCA, you say each individual letter, so that’s not an acronym. I’d say DH is the same. They are initialisms.

PIN number is the classic example of RAS syndrome - redundant acronym syndrome syndrome.
Like saying ATM machine.
MOT test on the other hand is correct.
HTH.

puffyeyewink · 21/12/2025 18:32

MorrisonsPlatter · 21/12/2025 16:24

PIN number is the classic example of RAS syndrome - redundant acronym syndrome syndrome.
Like saying ATM machine.
MOT test on the other hand is correct.
HTH.

Yes I did think that as I typed PIN number 😆

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