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If someone sent you a (nicely) handmade Christmas card, would you think…

238 replies

FestiveFruitloop · 20/12/2025 14:27

YABU: that they couldn’t afford to buy ‘real’ cards?
YANBU: that they just liked making Christmas cards?

Assuming the card has clearly been made by an adult and not a child. Context to follow, just curious. (Regular member, not a journo. 😄)

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FourSeasonsTotalLandscaping · 20/12/2025 14:29

I would assume they just liked making them. Making your own cards is unlikely to be cheaper than buying a pack at the supermarket.

Glittertwins · 20/12/2025 14:29

And a lot more effort has gone into homemade too

yeesh · 20/12/2025 14:29

Surely making a card is more expensive than buying one

JennyForeigner · 20/12/2025 14:29

Definitely that they had made it as a lovely gesture. The cost is way more.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 20/12/2025 14:30

I do get a handmade card from someone every year I think it’s lovely.

Rodneynotdave · 20/12/2025 14:30

I would just think they like making christmas cards! I get a few handmade cards most years.

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/12/2025 14:30

Keep meaning to make some, never get round to it. I’d be pleased.

ScrambledEggs12 · 20/12/2025 14:30

I love a homemade card, shop bought cards are really cheap. I love all cards, but if I had time would love to make them!

JudgeBread · 20/12/2025 14:31

I know how expensive craft supplies are so I definitely wouldn't think they were skint!

I might privately be lightly envious of the amount of free time and/or motivation you have to have to hand make Christmas cards, but I'd love it and be very flattered that someone went to the trouble for me!

CurbsideProphet · 20/12/2025 14:32

My friend makes lovely Christmas and birthday cards. She has done for years now. It's her hobby and she likes choosing different colours / themes for everyone. It's obviously time consuming and clearly not the cheaper option.

EchoedSilence · 20/12/2025 14:33

I would think they liked crafting. I like hand made cards.

BurntBroccoli · 20/12/2025 14:33

I love handmade cards. MUCH nicer than bought.

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 20/12/2025 14:33

Handmade Christmas cards are lovely. I received one this morning, from a friend whose adult DD is a talented artist. It's a little watercolour of their cat (who I love) next to the Christmas tree. I will definitely keep it once the others come down.

HolidayHattie · 20/12/2025 14:36

I used to spend ages making cards. Most people appreciated them but I did once hear the "too tight to buy them" comment. That person never received another handmade card.

I love to receive them. I've got a beautiful hand-painted card from a friend this year.

OilyRoundTheCogs · 20/12/2025 14:37

My OH makes, writes and sends our cards every year. Usually 40 - 50 or so. They are all individual.

It absolutely isn't because we can't afford to buy them (and it definitely isn't cheaper). He does it because he enjoys doing it.

Buscobel · 20/12/2025 14:38

I have two hand made cards. I appreciate the effort that has gone into them.

MYOB12 · 20/12/2025 14:39

Handmade cards are more expensive! I made my own for years, sadly don’t have the time nowadays.

Flowerslamp · 20/12/2025 14:40

I'd think they liked making cards and maybe that they had a lot of time on their hands!

evtheria · 20/12/2025 14:40

I make a lot of my cards but only for people I really like and that I know will ‘get’ it. Even though I often use art materials I already own, sometimes recycle ribbons or use dried foliage, it costs more than buying a pack from Card Factory. I would be touched to get a handmade one off somebody, at the very least it means they’ve taken time out to make it!

Cosyblankets · 20/12/2025 14:40

HolidayHattie · 20/12/2025 14:36

I used to spend ages making cards. Most people appreciated them but I did once hear the "too tight to buy them" comment. That person never received another handmade card.

I love to receive them. I've got a beautiful hand-painted card from a friend this year.

That person wouldn't have received another card full stop

Pranksters · 20/12/2025 14:41

My DM makes her Christmas cards every year.

Localfriend · 20/12/2025 14:41

depends entirely who from.

Neighbour 3 doors down that I have only ever said hello to….. I’d think “odd” and “lots of time on her hands”

Close family (female) relative… I’d think “lovely.

Male relative I’d think “that’s a surprise!”

my child? I’d be over the moon

Blades2 · 20/12/2025 14:42

I would think they enjoy crafting and I would also think how lovely they thought so highly of me to actually make me a nice card.

why?

your post sounds a little judgy,

Newsenmum · 20/12/2025 14:42

That they are creative and they like me a lot to handmake it! Handmaking would cost more than buying imo.

twiddleit · 20/12/2025 14:43

This is interesting, I used to make them, not just Christmas cards but all sorts, but even trying to sell them for £1 each I had very little success. They were good (if I say so myself) but most people seem to want a box of 20 boring ones for £1, not a single card. I’ve given up now and concentrate on scrapbooking.

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