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Channel 4 "Hunting Britain's Parcel thieves." Why should I feel sorry for people who don't stay in to receive their parcels or don't bother to pick them up?

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YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 20:24

My New Year's Resolution is not to take in any more parcels for neighbours as they wait a week or more to collect them, if that. When you eventually find them in and take the parcel round they don't even say thank you and look at you like you're annoying them. If they get them stolen off their doorsteps, serves them right for not making proper arrangements.

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YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 21:42

Can't say I've had a problem with Amazon. If I order a package I arrange to stay in the day they deliver. If I order a package and I am not going to be in, I designate a safe space. What I most certainly not do is not leave my parcel with a neighbour and then put on a shit face because the neighbour has had the cheek to do them a favour. This no longer flies round my way as from 2026.

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OhMaria2 · 19/12/2025 21:44

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 20:24

My New Year's Resolution is not to take in any more parcels for neighbours as they wait a week or more to collect them, if that. When you eventually find them in and take the parcel round they don't even say thank you and look at you like you're annoying them. If they get them stolen off their doorsteps, serves them right for not making proper arrangements.

Im in when they dump them on the doorstop and dont knock. And imagine calling yourself a delivery person in the modern era its considered acceptable to do this.

Itsmetheflamingo · 19/12/2025 21:47

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 20:35

I have taken in parcels regularly for neighbours. They know I have the parcel but don't bother to come round and pick it up. It's there up to 2 weeks until I go round and knock on their door. That's it. I'm done. The local shop takes in parcels and the owner says he sends them back as nobody picks them up!

The owner will send a very small number back 😂 it’s not like it’s normal for people not to pick up their parcels 😂

only some couriers leave on the doorstep. Royal Mail and DPd aren’t supposed to.

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2025 21:49

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 21:42

Can't say I've had a problem with Amazon. If I order a package I arrange to stay in the day they deliver. If I order a package and I am not going to be in, I designate a safe space. What I most certainly not do is not leave my parcel with a neighbour and then put on a shit face because the neighbour has had the cheek to do them a favour. This no longer flies round my way as from 2026.

My parcel had a safe space. It was not delivered to the safe space.
When I purchased the item it said delivery Wednesday. Whilst I was out on Sunday I recieved a revised delivery time I did not want. I could not make it home in time for this slot.

DH works from home. I am in usually five or six nights a week.

Why couldn't amazon do what it was supposed to do?

Kingscallops · 19/12/2025 21:49

Lockers are their friend.

XWKD · 19/12/2025 21:49

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 21:42

Can't say I've had a problem with Amazon. If I order a package I arrange to stay in the day they deliver. If I order a package and I am not going to be in, I designate a safe space. What I most certainly not do is not leave my parcel with a neighbour and then put on a shit face because the neighbour has had the cheek to do them a favour. This no longer flies round my way as from 2026.

My neighbours are always grateful when I take in a parcel -which happens very rarely. I had an Amazon order left outside the door. They didn't even knock. This is not unusual.

Misscoffee · 19/12/2025 21:52

Where do i start with this.
My most recent parcel 2 days ago said it was out for delivery, ok cool said it was delivered no one came to the door.
Hours later 9.30pm got an email and pic it was outside in my neighbours doorway tucked round the corner.
Parcel my sister orders just a book it had been left out near the bin all night she got an email 2 days later to say it arrived, we had a storm.
Parcel delvered to my bin again, it gets better, the fucker put it in the bin sent me a pic of its been delivered.
My neighbour received my parcels and my downstars neighbours parcels she lives in the other block, how these delvery men and women dont see the name and numer baffels me.
Parcel in october delivery driver throw it over the fence in the garden hand over the fence with his phone takes pic and fucks off.
One lady in our part was waiting days for her parcel to arrive, it was delivered but not to her.
Sent her a pic of it near some paint, she posted it online it was found a week latter it was behind someones shed, that had been on holiday it was wet through.
Oh yes and plenty more.
Its not us not being in or not helping neighbours out.
Its the bloody driver that wont read the street names or numbers or knocks.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 19/12/2025 21:55

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 21:42

Can't say I've had a problem with Amazon. If I order a package I arrange to stay in the day they deliver. If I order a package and I am not going to be in, I designate a safe space. What I most certainly not do is not leave my parcel with a neighbour and then put on a shit face because the neighbour has had the cheek to do them a favour. This no longer flies round my way as from 2026.

A month ago I spotted the Amazon driver wandering around aimlessly nearby, with parcel in hand, and then got back into his van and drove off before I could get out the door to point him in the right direction. Two weeks ago for a different delivery I saw the driver get within a couple of hundred yards, and for whom I was scheduled as the next stop, who then presumably decided he/she couldn't be arsed and so turned around and went back home. I've also had numerous instances where I've, eg, booked the delivery for a Wednesday and then they do an attempted delivery on the Tuesday or Thursday.

You're lucky.

Misscoffee · 19/12/2025 21:57

RedToothBrush · 19/12/2025 21:24

I've had parcels in the past delivered - in the bin.

My delivery instructions have a safe space listed, which are completely ignored.

WHY???

This the bin droppers a £400 laptop sitting in the bin,not on the bin in the bin on bin day.
I got lucky that day our bin collection was cancelled due to strikes.
My friend didnt her ipad went to the tip, that was a faff to sort out.

WinterWooliesBaa · 19/12/2025 21:57

BettysRoasties · 19/12/2025 20:40

Are you sure they are being told where their parcels are being left? I had a neighbour after a week I took a parcel round to. She had claimed a refund as it hadn’t arrived the postie hadn’t carded her.

I’ve had Amazon hide my parcels in my garden yet mark handed to resident and I wasn’t in.

I have them 'handed to resident' when they've not even knocked on the door ! Just dumped it on the doorstep.

Or I have them 'left in porch'

they can build me one anytime they like. Lying bastards.

my Nextdoor' is FULL if miss delivered parcels,

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 19/12/2025 21:57

Kingscallops · 19/12/2025 21:49

Lockers are their friend.

If you're buying from Amazon Marketplace it's quite common to find that they won't deliver to a locker. Depending on size/shape of the item, or how busy the locker is, even Amazon often won't deliver to a locker for the stuff they've got in their own warehouse.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 22:01

I took a parcel round a couple of weeks ago and the guy gave me a blank stare, took the parcel off me and slammed the door in my face.

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WinterWooliesBaa · 19/12/2025 22:01

SparklyGlitterballs · 19/12/2025 20:53

It's lucky if you know when they're coming. Sometimes it's "we'll deliver between Wednesday 11th and Friday 13th". People can't take 3 days off work as a catch all.

most of my delivery people are good and will leave stuff out of sight (I'm on a main road and have a bus stop outside) but Amazon are another story. They just fling it on the doorstep and run. I'm thinking of getting one of those parcel boxes to have near the front door,

You can try, but my friend is driven demented by it being completely ignored & parcels left on the open doorstep

not sure if the drivers can't read (read English?)

BettysRoasties · 19/12/2025 22:04

WinterWooliesBaa · 19/12/2025 21:57

I have them 'handed to resident' when they've not even knocked on the door ! Just dumped it on the doorstep.

Or I have them 'left in porch'

they can build me one anytime they like. Lying bastards.

my Nextdoor' is FULL if miss delivered parcels,

Yes lots of does anyone recognise this door? This gas cupboard?

Best I had was

put in shed… bin got an upgrade

handed to reception… plant pot

😅

They normally put handed to resident on mine when they mean popped in letter box.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/12/2025 22:06

TappyGilmore · 19/12/2025 20:38

Wtf are you on about? Waiting in to receive parcels? Gosh, I’d love to, but I have to go to work like the vast majority of the adult population. It is absolutely not unreasonable for me to expect that a parcel can be left on my doorstep and it will still be there when I get home from work at 6pm, rather than being stolen.

I have never had a neighbour take in a parcel for me, my neighbours and I might have the odd package which is delivered to the wrong house so then we’d take it around to the correct house, but we do not intentionally get each other’s parcels.

If you regularly aren't going to be in though and have no safe place to leave them, why not use lockers or collection from a local shop? If it isn't stolen, surely it would be drenched?

BettysRoasties · 19/12/2025 22:08

DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/12/2025 22:06

If you regularly aren't going to be in though and have no safe place to leave them, why not use lockers or collection from a local shop? If it isn't stolen, surely it would be drenched?

I’ve tried using lockers when away and most of the time I hit the

”this item cannot be delivered to a locker” be it a foldable tent pole or a pair of Shoes.

WinterWooliesBaa · 19/12/2025 22:11

YourAmplePlumPoster · 19/12/2025 22:01

I took a parcel round a couple of weeks ago and the guy gave me a blank stare, took the parcel off me and slammed the door in my face.

Where do you live ???

Eaglemom · 19/12/2025 22:46

I envisage in the near future we are all going to have our own versions of those safe locker box things installed on our doors or property, where things can be left safely, this is all just a build up and not really sustainable. It will be the new version of the letter box. That's what i hope anyway.
But until then, i won't be turning neighbours packages away and hopefully vice versa.

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