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People saying they’ve never had flu?

434 replies

Cumbrianlassie · 17/12/2025 18:00

I find this incredibly strange. I’ve had flu several times in my life and I’m 36, I mean the ‘proper’ flu - body aches, fever, skin pain, headache, cough, no appetite, fatigue for several weeks and weakness.

I had it in January, as did my DS and DP.
Havent had this new strain yet but feels inevitable!

Are some people just immune?

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TheonlywayIcoulddothatwasifyouwantedmetoo · 17/12/2025 18:45

Never had it and lucky enough never to have been bedridden by an illness. Touches wood

MyDogHumpsThings · 17/12/2025 18:46

I think the issue is that people say “you cannot get out of bed with the flu”, etc.

Whilst it’s awful and you certainly wouldn’t want to get out of bed if you had any choice, but you usually can. I’ve had flu several times and just had to get on with it, despite feeling like death.

isitmytime · 17/12/2025 18:46

I’ve never had it (43)…well discounting COVID in the height of the pandemic, that was bad enough a d I wasn’t even massively unwell. I’ve occasionally had the flu jag but not regularly and I haven’t for a few years.
My poor DP is currently struck down with it and I’m ok (hope I’ve not jinxed myself) and looking after him.
i think I have a pretty good immune system, I get the occasional sniffle but nothing seems to progress into anything too bad.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 17/12/2025 18:47

chickenfucker · 17/12/2025 18:23

Obviously now I will get it immediately

😂

TofuEater · 17/12/2025 18:48

I was born in the 1960s and, apart from colds, I've had no illnrsses since chicken pox when i was in single figures. I cant be unique

5128gap · 17/12/2025 18:49

56 and never had it, despite all my family having it at some point, including recently. I don't know how I've avoided it given repeated close contact, including nursing DC with it. I tend to get achey joints and a bit of a headache when I'm around flu, which could be how it effects me, but just as likely to be psychosomatic tbh.

MoiraRoseVibes · 17/12/2025 18:49

I’ve had Covid twice but never had the flu. My youngest daughter has had flu but my eldest hasn’t.

Utini · 17/12/2025 18:49

You've all almost certainly been infected, and just been asymptomatic or mildly ill. Nearly 1 in 5 are infected each year according to this study, which measured antibodies before and after the flu season and monitored for symptoms, but most didn't report illness.

https://www.cidrap.umn.edu/h1n1-2009-pandemic-influenza/uk-flu-study-many-are-infected-few-are-sick

I suspect some people must fight it off much more easily than others, sadly I'm not one of them. I've had what I strongly suspect is flu several times in my life and it always floors me - high fever, zero appetite and can't get out of bed for the first few days, and usually 2-3 weeks before I'm fully well again. Always have the jab now!

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 17/12/2025 18:49

SkipAd · 17/12/2025 18:38

How do you know?
I have been extremely unwell with some kind of virus but as I wasn’t tested I don’t know if I had it. Likewise had bad colds which maybe were flu but again never tested. I keep reading on here that some people can have it and not be too unwell, so unless you are tested which certainly isn’t the norm as far as I know, how on earth would you know?

You can buy tests for flu A & B

dannyufcfan · 17/12/2025 18:53

I've been bed ridden one time in my life with a virus. That was about 25 years ago. I presume that was the flu.

Touch wood, but I appear to have a grade A immune system. Any time I can feel a cold coming on it just seems to bounce off me in a couple of days with minimal symptoms.

SkipAd · 17/12/2025 18:54

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 17/12/2025 18:49

You can buy tests for flu A & B

But isn’t that a new thing? People who said they had it 20/30 years ago, how do they know?

Miranda65 · 17/12/2025 18:55

I'm 60. I'm pretty confident I've never had flu. It's not that unusual. Lots of people have bad colds and think they've got flu, tbh.

ExperiencedTeacher · 17/12/2025 18:56

40, never had it. Only had flu jab once.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 17/12/2025 18:56

I'm 50 and have never been ill with flu either.

Leftsidefacing · 17/12/2025 18:56

I think what really talking about here is the severity of illness rather than the technicalities of which virus we’ve had, because really, how do we know without testing?

So I’m going to change my answer to ‘I’ve never been significantly unwell with a cold or flu like virus”.

Doesn’t change my view on why or the fact that my Mum and grandparents could have said the same even though they lived through many 20th century flu epidemics including the one in 1918.

couldthisbe2501 · 17/12/2025 18:56

42 and have never had the flu. I never had covid either.

TheaBrandt1 · 17/12/2025 18:59

51 had it once at 32. Omg it was bad. I genuinely could not care for my baby and had to give her to a family member for a few days. Wiped out for weeks after it.

Ted27 · 17/12/2025 19:01

Im 60. Never had proper full blown flu or Covid.
I am a bit prone to bronchitis though and have had a couple of very rough episodes

PyongyangKipperbang · 17/12/2025 19:01

The way flu is described and how I have seen other people with it, no I dont think I have ever had it. I am 52.

I dont tend to get much in the way of colds either but I have do seem to have a weakness when it comes to tonisilitis. Any sore throat inevitably ends with really bad tonsilitis.

TheaBrandt1 · 17/12/2025 19:02

I think if you’ve had proper flu you certainly know about it! It’s not like a heavy cold.

BashfulClam · 17/12/2025 19:03

I’ve had flu had it bad twice, I have had ‘flu like’ viruses. DH had never had flu till last year where he was floored for 3 weeks with it.

LemaxObsessive · 17/12/2025 19:03

41 and have never had what you describe. I’ve had the body aches, fever, skin pale, cold sweats, cough and sickness for a few days but no, I’ve never had anything for more than 2 days.
However I do have Parkinson’s. I’ll happily swap you 1/2 bouts of flu per year for this hell.

Going back to flu though, I’ve always sworn that me being a heavy milk drinker has helped my good immune system. I drink 4 pints a day and have done for the last 25 years. I never got covid and the last time I was ill with any cold or flu symptoms was 2017

IndolentCat · 17/12/2025 19:07

I’ve had bad colds and I’ve had covid; I’ve never had flu. Touch wood! I’m 47.

i have been pretty lucky, mind. Covid is the only named illness I’ve had since I was about 9 (I had them all as a kid, including mumps and whooping cough) and I have even avoided vomiting bugs (touch wood!) since my teens.

Lots of people say they have flu when they mean they’ve got a cold. Similar to the way people say they have a migraine when they mean a headache.

Crushed23 · 17/12/2025 19:07

I’ve never had flu for ‘several weeks’ but I have had flu. I’m sure I get it after every festival I go to. Usually lasts a week.

Zero2ten · 17/12/2025 19:08

50 and never had flu. Also never had vaccination as don’t qualify. i do get coughs and colds etc as much as the next person.
This year seems higher than usual but think you’re fairly unlucky to have had actual real flu (as opposed to bad cold) as often as you have