Hi all. DH and I (both in early 40s) have had a dreadful row and I don’t know how to fix it. Been married for 7 years. I’ve had instagram for slightly longer but rarely post. Total of about 15 pictures on there - mainly of buildings / pretty tourist spots when we have been on holiday. Only 2/3 photos of us together or with our 3 kids.
last week, I decided I didn’t want any personal pictures on there. No reason why except I didn’t want pictures or something private on there. Something I thought about for a while but should have discussed with him. Didn’t think a big deal but I deleted the “people” pictures ie of me and him. The kids pictures also deleted. Only ones left are the touristy ones. Well, he found out and went mental. He’s usually fairly calm but now he isn’t speaking to me. Accused me of acting like I’m single and want traces of him deleted although I only have close family and friends on my list anyway. He hasn’t been speaking to me for 3 days and when he does, it’s one word answers.
He is usually pretty calm and we don’t argue that often but when we do, he does give the silent treatment but that’s usually for a day or two. It’s never been as long as this. I’m at my wits end.
Was I in the wrong here? I didn’t think a big deal but I deleted in bed, at night, impulsively and he discovered the same night before I could even tell him and now I feel I’ve done something wrong.