Hi
I haven’t posted in a very long time but I wanted some advise. I have lots of family and close friends, friends I have had for over 20 years but for some reason I can’t speak to them. My family would be upset if they knew I felt this way and I feel embarrassed to admit my marriage is failing. I have 2 little daughters, 1 and 5 and having 2 kids has put allot of tension in our marriage. So these are my issues. Where my husband is not abusive of violent or a cheater he’s just not very nice to me. The outside world see him and a loving, caring amazing person but to me he’s just a little cold or distant. These are the things im upset about. Anything I have an issue of and overwhelmed he practically just ignores my complaining and basically tells me to get on with it. I do allot of the child care and work but he doesn’t want to listen when I’m upset or stressed about our set up. He never plans any dates, compliments me or shows me any affection other than when he wants you know what. Most things that go wrong somehow are my fault. I’m just sick of living like this but can’t leave for obvious reasons. Am I being over the top.