Thank you all so much. That is so reassuring. I'm thinking....obviously lipstick is out, but I will be sure to moisturise my lips (providing I find a moisturiser I'm good with). I've got some No 7 moisturisers in the cupboard, that I have not tried out yet and a serum. I think hydrating my face will make it less irritated, as I've been stupidly using cleanser as a moisturiser as I started to become scared of reacting to things, and then I wondered if I was reacting to the cleanser as sometimes it stings a bit (however it's winter, I'm perimenopausal so could just be that my skin is a bit sensitive and stripped of all moisture at the moment).
With the foundation....the one I used is actually quite a heavy product, and I don't even like it....makes my skin look like I've painted it beige and quite a dull matte look, so to be honest I don't want to use it anymore even if I am not allergic as it's horrible and really quite drying which is the last thing I need, so maybe I just used a nasty product that didn't agree with me, after being more sensitised by what happened with my lipstick. It happened after I switched to this product after panicking that I might be reacting to the other one (when looking back I'm not sure I was, I think my lips were still just tingling from the original lipstick reaction). The one I was using before was nicer.
I want to find a foundation that's a bit lighter and go for that more dewy look, so maybe a tinted moisturiser or tinted serum....I've had a look at bare minerals and Clinique so I might try their products next, patch testing on my arm first (my GP advised me to do this before putting anything on my face, particularly near my lips). I'm hoping it was just that the product I was using was just a bad one for me and I'm hoping that I am able to find lighter and friendlier products I can use.
Concealer I was using a cheap Rimmel one, so I may try a bare minerals or Clinique one instead and only apply as and when needed.
I think as long as I can moisturise my face and find something like a tinted serum/moisturiser I can use I will be happy with that and hopefully forget about this whole saga (that has stressed me out so much).
Eye make-up I seem to be alright with so will continue with the same eyeshadows, eyeliner and mascara. I also have a No 7 cream blusher that I have yet to try out, instead of the powder one I've been using, which is a cheap brand.
As for bronzer....I have been using this Laura Geller foundation, that is a powder....if I use a foundation I'd rather use a moisturising cream one not a powder and I thought this may also have been making my face burn and feel uncomfortable....I always used to use a Rimmel bronzer that I never had a problem with before.....so I may switch back to that if I'm looking a bit pale.
Lips I won't bother with, just keep them hydrated I think. I may try a hypo-allergenic gloss one day?
As long as I can use some kind of tinted moisturiser, make my eyes up and a bit of blusher, that's all I need. So fingers crossed I can find some products that work well for me.
I think maybe it's just time to review my make-up as I don't think what I've been using is great at all, I think I've been using it out of habit and I want to go for that more glossy, dewy kind of look rather than a matte powdery look.
Fingers crossed that I haven't become allergic to every product under the sun (which is what I fear). The fact I have developed allergies really scares and bothers me though, after worrying about allergies for so long and then this happens.