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GP surgeries are broken

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grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 10:40

Put in an e consult to my GPs surgery this morning for suspected anaemia or hypothyroidism. Okay not life threatening but unpleasant to live with and impacting my mental health and day to day life.

I get a text three hours later to say this isn’t urgent and I’m on a list to be called NEXT YEAR! The date isn’t certain and can be subject to change, but I should expect a call in the week commencing 5th January.

In the meantime my life will get worse, I’ll feel worse and I can’t get any help. Yet an immigrant arriving on a boat has onsite GPs there ready and waiting at all hours of the day.

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Anonymousemouses · 12/12/2025 11:26

It is frustrating to wait.

I had bloods taken at the hospital last week (pre-op), and the phlebotomist realised the GP also wanted some done.

The results are back. I have several abnormalities in my FBC, also abnormal kidney, liver and sugar. The GP wrote a whole list of things that need action and asked admin to make an appointment, but I've heard nothing.

I hope I'm not fobbed off like last time (liver was also abnormal before, but tested a month later and it had come down a bit, so they wrote it off as a blip but getting lower, however now it is double the first result they were concerned about.

The fact that no one has contacted me reassures me that none of the abnormalities are significant.

TeatimeForTheSoul · 12/12/2025 11:26

NEWSFLASH - NHS staff get flu too, and they can sometimes get a few days off over Christmas.

Its great to hear you GP practice has offered you an appointment in 3 weeks - considering the season that’s more like in 2 working weeks.

Thank goodness we still have GPs, both British and from abroad, willing to work in our health service after we lost so many staff to Brexit and anti-expat (aka immigrant) sentiments

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 12/12/2025 11:27

grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 10:45

I’d say it deserves to be seen more urgently than four weeks away

@grumpyandfedup , what are your qualifications for making that judgement?

grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 11:27

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 12/12/2025 11:25

@grumpyandfedup , next year is less than a month away; I think we need to accept at the moment that waiting a month for a non urgent appointment is par for the course. I assume it is you who suspects anaemia or hypothyroidism but it will have been a doctor who triaged your request and they have used their clinical judgment and assessed that it is not urgent that you are seen. Other people will have more pressing and urgent need of their attention, why should they see you instead of someone whose condition requires their immediate attention?
If you really can’t wait go and see a private GP. Going forward I suggest you manage your expectations.
I agree with you that it doesn’t seem fair that those who have effectively broken into our country have access to same day GP appointments but you are conflating two separate issues.

What I’ve found though is if you’re over 18, but under 65, nothing is ever seen as normal. My dad had these same symptoms last year and was seen same day.

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Lemonandlimefizzywater · 12/12/2025 11:27

grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 11:27

What I’ve found though is if you’re over 18, but under 65, nothing is ever seen as normal. My dad had these same symptoms last year and was seen same day.

I’m over 18 and under 65. I’m being see today.

randomchap · 12/12/2025 11:28

GordonBrownwhenherealisedhismicwasstillon · 12/12/2025 11:25

You might find your apparent need to compartmentalise somewhat limits your capacity for comprehension

Thanks I needed the laugh

TY78910 · 12/12/2025 11:28

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It absolutely is immigrant bashing when you decide to put immigration as the root cause of the NHS being unsatisfactory.

Because, of course, it can’t be that we are the only country where the NHS is completely free which means that more people use it than in other countries, it’s mismanaged which means they’re haemorrhaging money, doctors are leaving for private practices in other parts of the world because the pay and benefits package is bigger.

But yes, it’s the immigrants fault actually.

TheLemonLemur · 12/12/2025 11:29

If your gp surgery is so awful you can also leave? I think people have limited sympathy as you are exagerrating implying you are waiting a year and it takes 7 people to sign off on a blood test....

StitchHappens · 12/12/2025 11:29

randomchap · 12/12/2025 11:17

Move surgery then

I don't agree with the op, (it has a touch of throwing toys out the pram about it) but why do you think this is an option?
There's only 1 gp I can be registered with, and plenty of other people are in the same situation.

Theroadt · 12/12/2025 11:29

RaininSummer · 12/12/2025 10:43

I agree there are issues but this is only a few weeks away and obviously covers peak leave times for Christmas so I don't think that is too unreasonable.

Whilst I can understand the holiday break can be 1-2weeks everything seems to shut down pretty much for a month which is unfit for purpose. GPs can still accept appointments up to 24/12 and start up again on 27/12 surely?

FairKoala · 12/12/2025 11:30

Rizzz · 12/12/2025 10:57

And who suspects anaemia or hypothyroidism?

You?

I have quite severe hypothyroidism and probably had it at least 2 years before diagnosis due to lockdowns and a couple of other things.

It's fine, you can wait a few weeks.

I think this thread just shows how out of touch with reality people are.

How many of you have been dreadfully ill and just gone to work every single day.
Not everyone can afford to take time off. Not everyone is in employment where if you have a day off you still get paid the same amount at the end of the month
If I had a couple of weeks off work I would be seeing £1500-£2000 less in my pay

There is something very broken in the NHS

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Catpuss66 · 12/12/2025 11:30

randomchap · 12/12/2025 10:44

So is this nhs bashing or immigrant bashing?

Both

Theroadt · 12/12/2025 11:31

Lemonandlimefizzywater · 12/12/2025 11:27

I’m over 18 and under 65. I’m being see today.

I think that’s her point

Thatcannotberight · 12/12/2025 11:31

OP , can you afford private blood tests? Super drug do them for under £100, other places too. NHS will only test TSH and free T4, which doesn't give the full picture. Private will test t3 and antibodies. I'd start there. You can find this information on line.

JudgeJ · 12/12/2025 11:32

CandiedPrincess · 12/12/2025 10:55

YABU. This is your experience.

Mine is fantastic and does an amazing job.

Mine too, when I rang a few weeks ago I waited 2 minutes for my call to be answered and was asked, Can you get here in the next half hour to see the Doctor? I have called this morning re the same problem and the need for another prescription, again a minute or so waiting and the medication will be ready to collect this afternoon. It's a poor show for many people but we don't hear enough about the good ones.

ilovesooty · 12/12/2025 11:32

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Oh here we go. The country's problems are far more complex than that. An ageing population might just have some relevance for a start.

grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 11:33

FairKoala · 12/12/2025 11:30

I think this thread just shows how out of touch with reality people are.

How many of you have been dreadfully ill and just gone to work every single day.
Not everyone can afford to take time off. Not everyone is in employment where if you have a day off you still get paid the same amount at the end of the month
If I had a couple of weeks off work I would be seeing £1500-£2000 less in my pay

There is something very broken in the NHS

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Exactly. I can’t take long term sick. All I can do is muddle through, feeling like shit and completely hopeless.

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grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 11:33

Thatcannotberight · 12/12/2025 11:31

OP , can you afford private blood tests? Super drug do them for under £100, other places too. NHS will only test TSH and free T4, which doesn't give the full picture. Private will test t3 and antibodies. I'd start there. You can find this information on line.

Not at the moment. I might look into an interest free credit card for them though

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Anyahyacinth · 12/12/2025 11:33

grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 10:40

Put in an e consult to my GPs surgery this morning for suspected anaemia or hypothyroidism. Okay not life threatening but unpleasant to live with and impacting my mental health and day to day life.

I get a text three hours later to say this isn’t urgent and I’m on a list to be called NEXT YEAR! The date isn’t certain and can be subject to change, but I should expect a call in the week commencing 5th January.

In the meantime my life will get worse, I’ll feel worse and I can’t get any help. Yet an immigrant arriving on a boat has onsite GPs there ready and waiting at all hours of the day.

A 2/3 week wait for non urgent issues ...is not unsafe and is to be expected after years of austerity. Peak flu and respiratory health and staff illness.
The details about the boats is just unpleasant nonsense

TryingtryingTryingfivetimes · 12/12/2025 11:34

Can you use the see nurse option? Nurse can either fast track if needed. Or order a blood test for you. My gp nurse has sent me to get lots of blood tests. But if she believes something is above her, she says wait till a doctor calls you later today.

The gp pharmacist has also sent me to do few blood tests. They do the whole medication review thing, which they sometimes need fresh blood test for. They mostly call, but last month. They reduced my thyroxine dose without informing me. I had done a blood test and I guess it was decided then, but even a text message informing me would have been ideal.

Mildorado · 12/12/2025 11:35

grumpyandfedup · 12/12/2025 11:01

Me and a nurse at work who was the one who suggested I contact my doctor. I’m at the point where I genuinely don’t see the point in carrying on. I can only go to work, I get home and I’m so exhausted I get in bed. I spend the weekends sleeping and trying to get some energy back. I’m 26 and cannot do anything. The doctor just doesn’t care.

The doctor doesn't care? What did she/he say that makes you say that?

Rizzz · 12/12/2025 11:36

FairKoala · 12/12/2025 11:30

I think this thread just shows how out of touch with reality people are.

How many of you have been dreadfully ill and just gone to work every single day.
Not everyone can afford to take time off. Not everyone is in employment where if you have a day off you still get paid the same amount at the end of the month
If I had a couple of weeks off work I would be seeing £1500-£2000 less in my pay

There is something very broken in the NHS

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The OP has been feeling like shit for years, and then decided 10 working days before Christmas was a cracking time to try and make an appointment.

And despite moaning about being kept on hold for 15 minutes when trying to book an appointment, she's been posting on this thread for almost an hour.

No matter what state the NHS is in, patients need to take responsibility rather than complaining when they're not really helping themselves.

Lathrahams · 12/12/2025 11:36

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Grammarnut · 12/12/2025 11:36

randomchap · 12/12/2025 10:44

So is this nhs bashing or immigrant bashing?

Both.

Rosealea · 12/12/2025 11:36

Depends where you are. You'll always get a same or next day appointment at my doctors