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Is it that unusual to be in your 60s and not on medication?

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Mumblechum0 · 11/12/2025 20:26

This is just something that made me think this week; 3 separate groups of friends and family, all late 50s or early 60s.

im finding increasingly that a lot of conversations turn to various ailments etc. I find these very dull.

amyway, in all 3 groups (I know how bizarre this sounds), they talked about what medications they’re on, and were surprised that I don’t take anything, not even vitamins, hrt etc.

i had cancer over 20 yrs ago but have been to the GP twice in 10 years. If I get ill, I tend to just wait for it to pass.

anyway, I wondered idly whether I just hang out with a lot of very unlucky people in terms of health, or is it usual to be on 3 or 4 meds?

(one friend had an alarm going off on her phone all day to remind her to take her tablets which led to today’s conversation)

OP posts:
Crikeyalmighty · 11/12/2025 23:12

@Cynic17 until 2022 when I had a load of neuro issues post Covid I hadn’t seen a doctor for 22 years apart from a few smear tests ( when I didn’t see the doctor) - the doctor in 2022 had to double check with me if that was correct .

Crikeyalmighty · 11/12/2025 23:13

RaininSummer · 11/12/2025 22:50

I am around three stone overweight. I know I should lose it but find it so difficult. I hope when I retire, the fact I am not desk bound any more may help.

I’m about 2 and a half stone over- but I was 5 - when I did get my post Covid issues I was indeed also at my heaviest

Beekman · 11/12/2025 23:13

I find it hard to believe there are people in their sixties walking around not having had bloods done or a BP check for decades. No wonder you’re not on any medication- why would you be?

BootMaker · 11/12/2025 23:18

You sound like my mother.

She loves it so hard when people have got the 'death'.

She would obviously never say it, but she fucking loves it.

PyongyangKipperbang · 11/12/2025 23:21

Mumblechum0 · 11/12/2025 20:26

This is just something that made me think this week; 3 separate groups of friends and family, all late 50s or early 60s.

im finding increasingly that a lot of conversations turn to various ailments etc. I find these very dull.

amyway, in all 3 groups (I know how bizarre this sounds), they talked about what medications they’re on, and were surprised that I don’t take anything, not even vitamins, hrt etc.

i had cancer over 20 yrs ago but have been to the GP twice in 10 years. If I get ill, I tend to just wait for it to pass.

anyway, I wondered idly whether I just hang out with a lot of very unlucky people in terms of health, or is it usual to be on 3 or 4 meds?

(one friend had an alarm going off on her phone all day to remind her to take her tablets which led to today’s conversation)

I think it depends on personality type. A member of my family is a complete hypochonriac and attention seeker. If their spouse has any new treatment or medication for the genuine issues the spouse has, within a few days a new "symptom" appears that means that they need all the attention. Foolish enabler spouse goes along with it.

Some people are very health anxious and will jump on any new symptom with an insistence that it needs seeing and dealing with ASAP, even if time will often sort it out.

Some people are into self help (my sister is very much like this) so makes sure that she takes all the age/sex appropriate vitamins or supplements that may help see off issues later.

I am more like you so I am not very sympathetic with the first two, one is just a drama queen and the other seems like borrowing trouble. The third I think is actually sensible but I am too lazy to keep up a routine with it!

GentleSheep · 11/12/2025 23:28

I needed to start taking thyroid meds at 60, was on painkillers for a few years but off those now.

Crikeyalmighty · 11/12/2025 23:31

Beekman · 11/12/2025 23:13

I find it hard to believe there are people in their sixties walking around not having had bloods done or a BP check for decades. No wonder you’re not on any medication- why would you be?

In my defence here I did pay myself every couple of years for a full bloods check up at a private clinic ( about £180) and I have a BP monitor at home . I just didn’t see a GP

echt · 11/12/2025 23:31

Some people are into self help (my sister is very much like this) so makes sure that she takes all the age/sex appropriate vitamins or supplements that may help see off issues later

A blood test and recommendations by the GP is best. Unintended overdosing on B6 is a real issue as it's a carrier for a number of other supplements and results in nerve damage.

lostatsea999 · 11/12/2025 23:36

Mum is heading for 70 and proudly takes nothing!

Got up after a hysterectomy after a one night stay in mid 50’s and was like home james.

my Mum smokes and has a gin daily, my Nan her mum was as sharp right until the end but suffered with mental health, had electric shock treatment in the past but never suffered dementia/Alzheimer’s.

PyongyangKipperbang · 11/12/2025 23:38

echt · 11/12/2025 23:31

Some people are into self help (my sister is very much like this) so makes sure that she takes all the age/sex appropriate vitamins or supplements that may help see off issues later

A blood test and recommendations by the GP is best. Unintended overdosing on B6 is a real issue as it's a carrier for a number of other supplements and results in nerve damage.

I didnt say she did it instead of medical advice. She does it alongside medical treatment and advice she has for a couple of other issues. She isnt stupid, far from it.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/12/2025 23:40

Had cancer/mastectomy in 2016. 61 now, no conditions or meds. My mum is 85, has dementia but no medicated conditions. Down to luck/genes.

BethBynnag86 · 11/12/2025 23:48

I'm 68 and not on any meds.I take vitamins,but that's it

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 11/12/2025 23:53

jetlag92 · 11/12/2025 21:12

Yes! As an optometrist we ask people aboit meds as they can affect the eyes and it's unusual for people to be med-free in their 60's.

It sometimes means that you've made good life choices.
Sometimes if means you're fucking stubborn and won't take prescribed meds

You have reminded me that I was asked this question by my optician and they were surprised that I wasn’t on any regular medication. I was surprised that this was deemed unusual, although I do have friends in their late 50s/early 60s who are on a lot of medication and in some cases, struggling to walk. And my husband takes meds for cholesterol and high blood pressure.

I was previously on vaginal oestrogen but was advised to stop when diagnosed with breast cancer. I take painkillers quite frequently when I get little niggles and aches, also vitamin c, and I’ve just started some omega 3/cod liver oil and vitamin D capsules for my knees.

Ariela · 11/12/2025 23:57

No idea, but DH had a TIA and is on statins, I am not on anything. mid 60s.

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 11/12/2025 23:58

Hmmmnmmn · 11/12/2025 21:58

Certain blood types apparently can make you more likely to be ill. It seems type AB blood has an 83% higher risk of stroke. People with type A blood are more likely to get stomach cancer etc

That’s interesting. I’ve no idea what mine is.

Joeninety · 12/12/2025 00:01

Please. I hate these sorts of threads that conflate 60's plus with impending death. I'm nearly 70 and still get taken as a 25 year old. It's all in the jeans, as someone else wrote !

Enigma54 · 12/12/2025 00:03

TeaBiscuitsNaptime · 11/12/2025 21:17

No, it's fantastic really. As long as you are getting the odd health check to back it up and bloods being taken. Well done for beating Cancer. You must be doing something right!!

You don’t “ beat” cancer I’m afraid.
Eirher treatment ( in whatever form that may take) is successful, or it isn’t.

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/12/2025 00:04

Joeninety · 12/12/2025 00:01

Please. I hate these sorts of threads that conflate 60's plus with impending death. I'm nearly 70 and still get taken as a 25 year old. It's all in the jeans, as someone else wrote !

No you don’t. They’re being very kind 😁

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 12/12/2025 00:06

Mokeytree · 11/12/2025 22:20

At what age do people start going in for check ups just to get on the safe side?
I've never been except if there was an issue. I'm 45 so last time I was at doctors I was 30 and there because of pregnancy monitoring. Am I supposed to start going just for check ups at some point?
I'm not sure my surgery would even allow it.

I think my surgery offers them every 5 years after 40. I get a text inviting me now but originally they sent me a letter.

PyongyangKipperbang · 12/12/2025 00:06

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/12/2025 00:04

No you don’t. They’re being very kind 😁

I think it was sarcasm. Or at least I hope it was!

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 12/12/2025 00:12

Kendodd · 11/12/2025 22:22

All those not on any medication, are any of you very overweight? I have the impression weight is a real big factor.

I’ve a BMI 27.5 and I would estimate that my two closest friends and DH are similar, they are on regular meds but I’m not. Then again I have had breast cancer.

ThatJollyGreySquid · 12/12/2025 00:14

My Mum is 88 and on no meds at all. My father took no meds until 86. When people find out they’re always surprised.

bonesandbooth2025 · 12/12/2025 00:17

It’s just luck really
personally - 4 antihistamines a day since I was 12 plus now a biologic injection for hives
GCSF injections for neutropenia since mid thirties
levo for hashimotos since mid thirties

I collect autoimmune conditions so nothing to do with actual health as such or caused by anything I’ve done

ABeerInTheSunshineMakesMeHappy · 12/12/2025 00:18

Thechaseison71 · 11/12/2025 22:54

Bloody hell its nigh on impossible to get a doctors appointment if you are actually ill never mind rocking up for all these tests

Health check appointments are with a nurse .

Puffthemagicdragongoestobed · 12/12/2025 00:22

I am 47 and was just put on blood pressure meds. Never used to check my blood pressure, never get sick or go to the doctors. Exercise regularly. Took my BP by chance a couple of weeks ago, found it was way too high, so much so that the GP sent me to A&E! Got diagnosed with hypertension the next day!
like someone said upthread, things can get undetected if you are not doing regular checks.

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