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Is it that unusual to be in your 60s and not on medication?

349 replies

Mumblechum0 · 11/12/2025 20:26

This is just something that made me think this week; 3 separate groups of friends and family, all late 50s or early 60s.

im finding increasingly that a lot of conversations turn to various ailments etc. I find these very dull.

amyway, in all 3 groups (I know how bizarre this sounds), they talked about what medications they’re on, and were surprised that I don’t take anything, not even vitamins, hrt etc.

i had cancer over 20 yrs ago but have been to the GP twice in 10 years. If I get ill, I tend to just wait for it to pass.

anyway, I wondered idly whether I just hang out with a lot of very unlucky people in terms of health, or is it usual to be on 3 or 4 meds?

(one friend had an alarm going off on her phone all day to remind her to take her tablets which led to today’s conversation)

OP posts:
Whatsthatsheila · 11/12/2025 21:03

snackatack · 11/12/2025 20:51

It improves bone health (makes your bones stronger and less likely to fracture)
It improves cardio vascular health reducing your risk of stroke
It improves your skin and hair

It is beneficial to women

benefits but also why take it if it’s not needed - plus for some women it’s not suitable. OP already said that she was fine so didn’t need it but depending on her cancer she may not have been suitable anyway

DustyMaiden · 11/12/2025 21:04

62 no meds. 63 4 different meds for high blood pressure. Shot up wouldn’t go down. Only thing I did was get older.

BunnyLake · 11/12/2025 21:05

I take things like headache tablets but I’m not on any prescribed meds regime (also had cancer 27 yrs ago). I definitely can feel some signs of getting older though, I can’t be walking round town for hours then going out in the evening like I used to. Once I get home after an hour or two I’m done for the rest of the day.

SeaAndStars · 11/12/2025 21:05

cardibach · 11/12/2025 21:01

But HRT improves them. Why take several other things instead?

I wasn't thinking of other medication. I was thinking of exercise, eating well, resting, reducing stress, reducing alcohol, not smoking. Just generally living really healthily.

BinNightTonight · 11/12/2025 21:06

I have a family member who is in his 80s and is on nothing at all, never has been!

Barney16 · 11/12/2025 21:07

I'm 60 and don't take anything other than HRT. I would be outraged, irrationally I know, if someone suggested I did 🙂.

soupyspoon · 11/12/2025 21:07

PlasticTr33s · 11/12/2025 21:03

Guess we’ll ignore the cancer and DVTrisk from HRT then.🤔

As I posted above there are pros and cons but reading the research appears to tell me that some cancer risk increases are not significant neither is DVT risk, compared to the benefits

Not having HRT also increases risk to you, so you pays your money etc etc

TheNameWasOnceChosen · 11/12/2025 21:11

Pah, I take loads but then I am unwell.

jetlag92 · 11/12/2025 21:12

Yes! As an optometrist we ask people aboit meds as they can affect the eyes and it's unusual for people to be med-free in their 60's.

It sometimes means that you've made good life choices.
Sometimes if means you're fucking stubborn and won't take prescribed meds

PlasticTr33s · 11/12/2025 21:13

soupyspoon · 11/12/2025 21:07

As I posted above there are pros and cons but reading the research appears to tell me that some cancer risk increases are not significant neither is DVT risk, compared to the benefits

Not having HRT also increases risk to you, so you pays your money etc etc

There is no risk from not having HRT if you are healthy and haven’t had an early menopause.

Women aren’t ordered to have HRT, far from it.

BunnyLake · 11/12/2025 21:14

Laska2Meryls · 11/12/2025 20:55

I was like you a couple of years ago in mid sixties, then went to the doctor a year or so ago after a long time not going for a routine thing and discovered that my blood pressure was pretty much off the scale.. They were talking of admitting me straight away because it was so dangerously high ,it was so high but I felt perfectly fine. Was put on blood pressure meds straight away and will be now on them for life ..I wasn't overweight, nor ate a bad diet , was rarely ill and pretty fit but even so, and high blood pressure can be a silent and sudden killer..
Am now also on statins ..
Its definitely worth getting regular checks even if you think you are well

Edited

I wonder what caused it? I’m in my early 60s and a few month’s ago had my blood pressure done and she said I had perfect blood pressure (she took it again to double check) and to keep doing whatever it is I’m doing. But I’m not doing anything? I’ve always had a tendency to have normal to slightly low but I don’t really know what any of it means. I don’t work out, I eat chocolate, I’m slightly overweight 🤷‍♀️

TwistedWonder · 11/12/2025 21:16

I’m 60 in a few weeks and don’t take any medication at all. I’ve not even taken a paracetamol in a decade.

Im not aware whether most of my friends are on anything as it’s not a subject we’ve ever discussed. The only friend I know who takes daily medication is diabetic - not lifestyle related, just an inefficient pancreas

TeaBiscuitsNaptime · 11/12/2025 21:17

No, it's fantastic really. As long as you are getting the odd health check to back it up and bloods being taken. Well done for beating Cancer. You must be doing something right!!

BluntAzureDreamer · 11/12/2025 21:19

My mum is 70 and won't even take a paracetamol. She's in amazing health, she eats very little and definitely never ever any sugar, and she walks miles every day and does yoga regularly. That's it.

I'm on HRT but apart from that I want to be the same as my mum .... I work in the pharmaceutical industry and I don't like or trust pharmaceuticals! I would rather maintain my health than turn to a pill to 'fix' something (I now feel I have to put in the obvious disclaimer before all the captain 'whatabouts' come at me! For a serious illness I would obviously follow the advice of a doctor)

RaininSummer · 11/12/2025 21:20

63 no meds. I'm sure a large part of it is luck genetically. Looking after yourself with good diet must help and general avoidance of doctors unless something serious means they can't bung you on statins etc.

Pamspeople · 11/12/2025 21:21

People have different lifestyles, different genetic inheritance, different levels of affluence and also different attitudes to medication and seeking healthcare. Some people like the OP are happy to wait for symptoms or illnesses to go away on their own, others are more keen to have things checked and treated.

Upbringing, luck, access to a healthy lifestyle, attitudes and beliefs are all part of it surely.

Sounds like a bit of a stealth brag, tbh.

Delphiniumandlupins · 11/12/2025 21:28

I am late 60s and only take medication for Parkinson's. So I have one permanent condition but nothing else. Only other long term medication has been contraceptive pills. I frequently feel I am the healthiest person in any group of a similar age.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 11/12/2025 21:36

ocool · 11/12/2025 20:36

You are very lucky, but maybe just maybe you might need SOME meds aswell, if you haven't been for checks regularly. You might feel ok, but that's not necessarily what's going on inside! Happy for you though that you survived the cancer and seem to be doing great. Tell us your secret!

My circle is the same, everyone on multiple meds for this and that. We are all in our late 60s and everyone seems to be on either statins, blood pressure meds, metformin, blood thinners, bisphosphonates for osteoporosis, anti inflammatories for arthritis, Vitamin D, Thyroid meds and so on. They're all doing well.

I am prescribed a beta blocker for Afib (I don't need blood thinner), and PPI for gastritis - the result of successfully treated H Pylori. That's it. Not too bad I reckon as things go.

I've just taken antibiotics for H Pylori. Why are you still on PPIs if it was successfully treated?

gogomomo2 · 11/12/2025 21:38

My dad is 77 and on zero meds. I have a friend who is 86 on zero meds, rare but happens

Londonrach1 · 11/12/2025 21:38

Not unusual. I have a lot of patients in their 90s on nothing. I also have patients in their 40s on lots of medication. It's just if you lucky or not healthy wise.

Sorty · 11/12/2025 21:38

NormasArse · 11/12/2025 20:43

Lucky you to find it ‘dull’.

Agreed. Is it some kind of stealth boast? Because being on no drugs means you are enormously lucky to have good health.
Someone will say that's because they live a healthy life, eat well and stay fit, as though to blame those who aren't well.
I can tell you that you can do everything right and still end up with a catalogue of health conditions.
Drugs do have side effects but on the whole people put up with side effects because the consequences of not taking the medication is much worse.
I'm on three drugs for rheumatoid arthritis. Without them I would struggle to walk and be in pain 24/7. With them I can live my life, go walking, go to the gym each day, dancing and enjoying life.

soupyspoon · 11/12/2025 21:41

IMustDoMoreExercise · 11/12/2025 21:36

I've just taken antibiotics for H Pylori. Why are you still on PPIs if it was successfully treated?

She said why, she has gastritis.

My dad is on PPIs for life for similar reasons.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 11/12/2025 21:43

soupyspoon · 11/12/2025 21:41

She said why, she has gastritis.

My dad is on PPIs for life for similar reasons.

Thanks, so did the treatment for H Pylori cause the gastritis?

surprisebaby12 · 11/12/2025 21:43

health is a bit of luck, a bit lifestyle and a bit of genetics. Some people never need medicine. My grandma was 97 without any meds.

Vivisays · 11/12/2025 21:43

MIL is 82 and doesn’t take a single thing. Fab. Her parents were the same and lived to late 90’s.

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