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Fed up of hearing about the flu

556 replies

SpoonBaloon · 11/12/2025 16:46

I know I’m being unreasonable but am I the only one who’s getting wound up by the constant coverage of the flu on every national news outlet?

It is December. Of course the flu is going around! Every winter we hear about the NHS being overwhelmed.

I can accept minor coverage but it’s been the main story for days on end and it doesn’t seem like it’s going to stop! And I know the flu kills and people need to be aware to take precautions but surely people don’t need it to be pointed out to them that they have an increased chance of catching the cold or flu in the run up to Christmas?

I was deathly ill with it last year but luckily have managed to avoid it up to now.

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YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:50

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:48

“No but” ???…..you aren’t an immunologist and your conclusion aren’t remotely reasonable

For goodness sake. Whatever it is you want, be it lockdown, then do feel free to lock yourself away from active society and mask up. You won't be judged.

AliceMaforethought · 11/12/2025 18:51

SheinIsShite · 11/12/2025 18:34

Totally. It's like covid all over again. Hugh Pym in some random hospital taking up the time of nurses/doctors who are being filmed saying how busy they are.

The whole blame narrative again. If you are ill, it's YOUR FAULT because you didn't get a vaccine, didn't wear a mask, didn't do whatever, and now you are overwhelming the NHS, you selfish fucker.

I thought that. He looked like a pillock, asking people questions about how busy they were! I don't think they'll try to lock us down again, though. There'd be riots.

BoredZelda · 11/12/2025 18:51

I read some stuff on the BBC, and got two messages from local healthcare settings asking people to mask if they had symptoms. It encouraged me to get a flu jab for the first time ever.

This is not the same as last year. If you actually paid attention to what is being said, you’d know that.

Teleporter · 11/12/2025 18:52

DeanElderberry · 11/12/2025 18:47

People with flu or other viruses should rest until they've recovered.

The three fit healthy young adults I knew who died after flu-like illnesses (over a thirty year period, not all at once) had all decided to continue their usual running routines. Massive bacterial surge in the bloodstream, damage to heart muscles, collapse.

So don't do that. Go to bed, stay there for a few days.

He didn’t leave bed he was found with hypothermia and rushed to hospital.

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 11/12/2025 18:52

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:47

There was a comorbidity there. How does flu lead to blood poisoning?

Even in healthy people, flu can lead to sepsis. Flu can cause secondary infections such as pneumonia which can then lead to sepsis. A bad bout of flu, even in an otherwise healthy individual with no comorbidities, can cause a catastrophic outcome as it can put immense strain on the immune system.

lifeonmars100 · 11/12/2025 18:52

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:42

Did they have any other health conditions making them much more susceptible to the very worst aspects of the flu? Being overweight is a huge factor, by the way. We do have an obesity epidemic, hence loads of people are taking weightloss jabs.

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One of my friends has a lung condtion, flu would be very serious for her, she is slender. Maybe just focus on the fact that a lot of people have health conditons that mean flu is very serious for them rather than honing in on one factor

the80sweregreat · 11/12/2025 18:53

Nobody is going to do lockdown again.
I do feel that there would be a riot if anyone suggested this. I feel sorry for the staff in the hospitals.

DeanElderberry · 11/12/2025 18:53

Teleporter · 11/12/2025 18:52

He didn’t leave bed he was found with hypothermia and rushed to hospital.

That's so sad. It's an illness to be taken seriously.

PaisleyGilmourStreet · 11/12/2025 18:54

The trajectory is the same as last season, the only difference is that the season has started earlier (something which isn't unheard of).
The media is whipping up hysteria, click bait if you like. It's irresponsible, because we're already seeing restrictions akin to covid restrictions - visiting being suspended in hospitals, two localities in Scotland have reintroduced online learning. Vaccine stocks are running low too, because people for whom it's not deemed necessary are hoovering it up. The scare mongering will hit retail and hospitality.
I don't think it's a coincidence either that the government is making big on flu at a time when they're desperate to influence public opinion on the doctors strikes.

You are not being unreasonable.

AInightingale · 11/12/2025 18:55

Cherryblossom99 · 11/12/2025 17:14

All Boots around here are out and here in NI we don’t have pharmacies in Tesco or Asda. I rang a pharmacy earlier to try and get one and they are only doing them for those eligible on NHS

Do you know what the criteria are for receiving an NHS jab in a pharmacy in NI? If you are a carer/ in receipt of Carer's Allowance does this count? Because we've got FA chance of getting through to the GP, tbh.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:56

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 11/12/2025 18:52

Even in healthy people, flu can lead to sepsis. Flu can cause secondary infections such as pneumonia which can then lead to sepsis. A bad bout of flu, even in an otherwise healthy individual with no comorbidities, can cause a catastrophic outcome as it can put immense strain on the immune system.

Ah so that's the how. Sepsis is a secondary problem. That's how flu can lead to organ failure and limb amputations, right, now it makes sense. Thanks for not belittling me.

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:57

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:48

“No but” ???…..you aren’t an immunologist and your conclusion aren’t remotely reasonable

Of course they are. Obesity rates have risen. In 2020 35k children had teeth removed at hospital. In 2025 that was 47k. More people than ever are on prescription medications. Mental health has tanked. It all points to a generally more unhealthy society.

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:57

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 18:50

I have to say I’m with you OP and I’m not usually like this.

I was getting worried about it until the news said the “crisis” is c2000 patients in hospital with flu. Last year it was 800.

from the dramatic coverage I was expecting at least 200,000 😱

Where do you thing 1,200 extra beds to treat those people come from? What does their loss of availability affect?

It’s not complicated ..how many beds does your local hospital have? The NHS have said the equivalent of THREE full NHS hospitals are occupied by flu inpatients…the result of that is delays in A&E….which leads to …preventable deaths, cancelled planned surgeries which leads to delays and deaths…

A child could understand this is a problem

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:58

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:57

Where do you thing 1,200 extra beds to treat those people come from? What does their loss of availability affect?

It’s not complicated ..how many beds does your local hospital have? The NHS have said the equivalent of THREE full NHS hospitals are occupied by flu inpatients…the result of that is delays in A&E….which leads to …preventable deaths, cancelled planned surgeries which leads to delays and deaths…

A child could understand this is a problem

Yes it’s a problem for the hospitals. It’s not something that’s going to kill us all.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:59

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 18:57

Where do you thing 1,200 extra beds to treat those people come from? What does their loss of availability affect?

It’s not complicated ..how many beds does your local hospital have? The NHS have said the equivalent of THREE full NHS hospitals are occupied by flu inpatients…the result of that is delays in A&E….which leads to …preventable deaths, cancelled planned surgeries which leads to delays and deaths…

A child could understand this is a problem

The NHS is heavily rationed healthcare with a box-ticking culture, which then leads to bed-blocking and lengthy handovers. Combine that with people clogging up A&E because their GP fobbed them off.

notatinydancer · 11/12/2025 18:59

howtoprotect · 11/12/2025 17:02

I’ve read in various places that this strain has mutated and although the vaccine offers some protection it’s not as good as it could be ? I can’t remember where but I’ve read this in a few places

The vaccines never cover all strains.

BoredZelda · 11/12/2025 19:00

Bambamhoohoo · 11/12/2025 18:50

I have to say I’m with you OP and I’m not usually like this.

I was getting worried about it until the news said the “crisis” is c2000 patients in hospital with flu. Last year it was 800.

from the dramatic coverage I was expecting at least 200,000 😱

There are an estimated 5000 critical care beds in the U.K. If half of them are taken up with flu patients, that’s a problem. It not only impacts on emergent patients, it means routine surgeries are cancelled as there has to be critical care beds available for post operative patients. This means the already massive waiting lists will grow ever longer. Add to that a shortage of staff due to illness, and the fact those cases won’t be spread across the country, but will be where there are major outbreaks, that makes a threefold increase in hospitalisations a crisis.

smallglassbottle · 11/12/2025 19:00

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 11/12/2025 17:54

I'm not a vaccine sceptic - got mine ages ago and have finally convinced my husband to let me take our son.

But I do think that unfortunately, the "the Nhs is on it's knees" line has been played one too many times to work in public messaging.

The NHS is on its knees permanently and people can't access help for even serious illness, so what's the difference? You either die or you don't, but it's all a lottery regardless.

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:00

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:57

Of course they are. Obesity rates have risen. In 2020 35k children had teeth removed at hospital. In 2025 that was 47k. More people than ever are on prescription medications. Mental health has tanked. It all points to a generally more unhealthy society.

You’ve stopped musing about your pretend qualifications as an immunologist and now you are a public health expert…the biggest threat to obese people is weight stigma which you add to. Children’s teeth?!! 🤦‍♀️

BoredZelda · 11/12/2025 19:00

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 18:58

Yes it’s a problem for the hospitals. It’s not something that’s going to kill us all.

Unless you need hospital care tonight.

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:01

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 18:59

The NHS is heavily rationed healthcare with a box-ticking culture, which then leads to bed-blocking and lengthy handovers. Combine that with people clogging up A&E because their GP fobbed them off.

Are you starting a new thread? The topic was flu and media coverage

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 11/12/2025 19:02

I've just heard the news on the radio "An EXPLOSION of flu cases TEARING through hospitals." You have language like this being used in flu season and people wonder why there's so much hysteria. It's absolutely f'king pathetic,

notfeelinggoodatm · 11/12/2025 19:03

Anyahyacinth · 11/12/2025 19:00

You’ve stopped musing about your pretend qualifications as an immunologist and now you are a public health expert…the biggest threat to obese people is weight stigma which you add to. Children’s teeth?!! 🤦‍♀️

I am obese. I am aware of how bad it is for my health. I am also not blind to what is happening in society.

newbluesofa · 11/12/2025 19:03

I'm fed up of hearing people talk about how they're not getting themselves or their children vaccinated. Maybe we wouldn't be hearing about the flu so much if people actually got vaccinated.

Xmasdemon · 11/12/2025 19:04

The vaccine isn't working

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