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Fed up of hearing about the flu

556 replies

SpoonBaloon · 11/12/2025 16:46

I know I’m being unreasonable but am I the only one who’s getting wound up by the constant coverage of the flu on every national news outlet?

It is December. Of course the flu is going around! Every winter we hear about the NHS being overwhelmed.

I can accept minor coverage but it’s been the main story for days on end and it doesn’t seem like it’s going to stop! And I know the flu kills and people need to be aware to take precautions but surely people don’t need it to be pointed out to them that they have an increased chance of catching the cold or flu in the run up to Christmas?

I was deathly ill with it last year but luckily have managed to avoid it up to now.

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HoneyParsnipSoup · 12/12/2025 10:34

PandoraSocks · 12/12/2025 09:38

What is a side effect of ignoring over-population?

Isn’t it obvious? More people, more transmission? Why do you think the worst faring areas during Covid were densely populated?

smallglassbottle · 12/12/2025 10:47

Oh well, just been trying to book a private flu jab for the past couple of hours, but nothing to be had. Me and dh will just have to take our chances 🤷‍♀️

justasking111 · 12/12/2025 10:55

HoneyParsnipSoup · 12/12/2025 10:34

Isn’t it obvious? More people, more transmission? Why do you think the worst faring areas during Covid were densely populated?

I am in Wales I recall the death rate in one Welsh Town was incredibly high. One block of flats three generations of a family in separate accommodation died. There was a similar result in a block of flats in Tower Hamlets. DS at University said it was the same in the halls in Leeds.

Look at intensive farming of birds chicken, turkey. They can infect each other in hours.

We get a lot of day trippers from the cities who bring their unvaccinated dogs. A vet friend says there's a surge of diseases every summer because of this. She advises walking your pets in areas the tourists don't frequent

PandoraSocks · 12/12/2025 10:59

HoneyParsnipSoup · 12/12/2025 10:34

Isn’t it obvious? More people, more transmission? Why do you think the worst faring areas during Covid were densely populated?

I wasn't sure if that is what you meant or whether you were talking about strain on NHS etc.

The flu and other viruses will always do a good job of transmitting themselves, regardless of whether we are "over-populated". Look at 1918.

MargaretThursday · 12/12/2025 11:09

justasking111 · 12/12/2025 10:55

I am in Wales I recall the death rate in one Welsh Town was incredibly high. One block of flats three generations of a family in separate accommodation died. There was a similar result in a block of flats in Tower Hamlets. DS at University said it was the same in the halls in Leeds.

Look at intensive farming of birds chicken, turkey. They can infect each other in hours.

We get a lot of day trippers from the cities who bring their unvaccinated dogs. A vet friend says there's a surge of diseases every summer because of this. She advises walking your pets in areas the tourists don't frequent

In a random distribution you may get, for an unknown - or sometimes known, reason, a cluster.
It could be that that Welsh town was unlucky.
It could be that they had an older population or a population that had a mindset of "carry on" and tended to leave it too late. A proportion of the town related and had a genetic susceptibility. A mutation which caused worse symptoms. A low vaccine uptake. Local medics giving bad, or now outdated advice etc. Lots of potential reasons why there might be a cluster.
In our area I know of 4 nursing homes. Two got hit very badly at the start of covid. One got hit in the second wave. The other managed to escape almost unscathed. They all had similar restrictions, similar residents etc. No obvious reason.

But if you are looking at the population and the number of people who caught covid, you will get clusters.
A good statistician will take account of other factors when looking at clusters, and there may be some just simply because it was random.

Think of holding a hand of nuts. Throw them in the air and let them land. You won't have a neat one per every square. There'll be points with 6 on top of each other, places that one is entirely on their own etc. You might be able to say "there's lots there because that's where my hand was when I through them upwards." "There's not many there because it's further out". But there will also be ones that appear to have no reason why there's a little pile etc.

I remember when norovirus went through the kids' school. 20 classes, and 18 of them had days of being in single figure attendance. One of the other two got down to about 15, the other had hardly an absence. No obvious reason - there were several siblings who had it, they hadn't been kept separate from other classes, no obvious reason.
You can get these odd anomalies, especially in things like medicine which is an inexact science as the human body is an individual.

Crunchymum · 12/12/2025 11:12

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 11/12/2025 17:23

Yes, one of the flu strains this year has mutated since this year's vaccines were created. It mutated over the Summer. HOWEVER, it is still absolutely worth getting the flu vaccine. It will still offer some protection: it still reduces the likelihood of very serious illness, and it reduces the chances of added complications and the need for hospitalisation should you come into contact with it. The flu strains from year to year are different.

This year's flu vaccine was made early in 2025. The World Health Organisation has the tricky task of trying to figure out which variations of the flu the populations need protection from, and then the vaccine has to be created, tested, and all before it's distributed in time for Winter.

Flu vaccines NEVER guarantee that any recipient will have 100% protection. The goal is to reduce the severity of illness, reduce the duration of illness, and in doing so, this in turn also helps reduce the spread.

Flu can also be asymptomatic in some people, and also present to varying degrees of mildness in others, leading folks to think that they actually just have a cold virus.

Although a flu virus can be mild in one person, the next person whom they pass it on to could end up in a catastrophic situation, particularly if they have a compromised immune system, or unfortunately, in some cases, otherwise healthy people are just very, very unlucky.

It takes up to 14 days for the flu vaccine to become as effective as it ever will be in the human body. If you get a vaccine and feel ill shortly after, it is likely you had already contracted the flu virus before the vaccine.

In short, it is absolutely worth getting the flu vaccine to give yourself and everyone you come into contact with the best chance of being as well as you could possibly be, should you come into contact with one of the flu strains.

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Thanks for the explanation (I asked all the way back on page one what the point of the vaccination was if it doesn't actually protect against the problematic strain).

I'm by no means an anti vaxxer but I now consider myself skeptical (and very jaded!!) after Covid. I just don't feel the same level of trust.

I wonder if this sort of feeling - on a greater scale - is why flu vaccine uptake has been lower over the past few years? We no longer trust the people telling us to vaccinate and we no longer trust the stats the media pump out?

Oneearringlost · 12/12/2025 11:39

Crunchymum · 12/12/2025 11:12

Thanks for the explanation (I asked all the way back on page one what the point of the vaccination was if it doesn't actually protect against the problematic strain).

I'm by no means an anti vaxxer but I now consider myself skeptical (and very jaded!!) after Covid. I just don't feel the same level of trust.

I wonder if this sort of feeling - on a greater scale - is why flu vaccine uptake has been lower over the past few years? We no longer trust the people telling us to vaccinate and we no longer trust the stats the media pump out?

Why, I'm interested why you hold that level of mistrust and scepticism? I worry about how and why we are developing such cynicism.
@Pigeonsandgiraffees was a very good post and very balanced.
I worry that some people are accessing their information from unreliable sources and sometimes that information in absolutely wrong.

KeepPumping · 12/12/2025 13:28

LoveItaly · 12/12/2025 00:23

Indian MoD 2.99m
US DoD 2.93m
Chinese PLA 2.55m
Walmart 2.3m
Amazon 1.61m
PetroChina1.45m

So the first three are defence, something that successive UK governments have been happily underfunding. What a mess this country is in.

Very interesting thanks, scary how big Walmart and Amazon are, I know Walmart has been around a long time though, wonder who number 8 is, Birmingham council?

KeepPumping · 12/12/2025 13:29

Oneearringlost · 12/12/2025 11:39

Why, I'm interested why you hold that level of mistrust and scepticism? I worry about how and why we are developing such cynicism.
@Pigeonsandgiraffees was a very good post and very balanced.
I worry that some people are accessing their information from unreliable sources and sometimes that information in absolutely wrong.

Am I right or wrong to say that the vaccine doesn"t stop you spreading it to others?

Xmasdemon · 12/12/2025 13:46

The vaccine doesn't stop you getting it or spreading it

Badbadbunny · 12/12/2025 13:54

YABU because it's not just people with flu who are affected. What do you think will happen if you get seriously ill with something else or have an accident? You'll probably spend hours stuck in an ambulance (or waiting for one) then a few days stuck on a chair in A&E being ignored whilst they deal with dozens of other patients before you. It IS a massive problem because it's taking a lot of NHS resources away from other patients/treatments. Hospitals are cancelling non urgent appointments/treatments due to lack of staff (not just staff off with flu doing those appointments, but also staff being re-allocated to other departments). We ALL need to take it seriously, especially taking better personal hygiene precautions.

the80sweregreat · 12/12/2025 15:33

Every time I’ve been near an A and E department ( last time was end of October ) it’s been an absolute nightmare , so goodness knows what it is like now :(
Fighting fire with fire most of the time it seems.
it’s so sad it’s like this now.

Umidontknow · 12/12/2025 15:38

A couple of years after a "pandemic" the hospitals shouldn't be overwhelmed. Also thousands die from flu every year. Levels haven't really changed much. Its scaremongering.

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 12/12/2025 15:45

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

Ahhh, the old cryptic ‘I’m so enlightened’ which usually comes before the person falls prey to their own stupidity.

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:10

I sympathise. I am vulnerable and do is my DH. It’s important to get the message out but the click /fear/rage bait of the internet has changed mainstream news. Everything, including the weather, is now scary.

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:11

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

Oooh what’s going to happen to me now I’ve had my vax? Should I be looking out for a thing in particular?

MsVisual · 12/12/2025 16:12

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

The mortality rate in sheep is much reduced when they are vaccinated.

gamerchick · 12/12/2025 16:12

FlyingFox · 12/12/2025 15:41

Jeez this site is full of sheep, run along now, get your flu jab everyone, heaven forbid you should miss out on it. Maybe try and open your eyes instead of what's going on.

It's sheeple! Do better!

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:20

TheFirstMrsDV · 12/12/2025 16:11

Oooh what’s going to happen to me now I’ve had my vax? Should I be looking out for a thing in particular?

My hair instantly went curly and sort of woolly and I felt compelled to get out of a taxi in Hyde Park and munch some grass. You might want to keep any eye out for similar.

ifitsallthesametoyouilltakethesoup · 12/12/2025 16:23

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:20

My hair instantly went curly and sort of woolly and I felt compelled to get out of a taxi in Hyde Park and munch some grass. You might want to keep any eye out for similar.

Oh that sounds baad.

payslipverity · 12/12/2025 16:28

ifitsallthesametoyouilltakethesoup · 12/12/2025 16:23

Oh that sounds baad.

😂

Actually, I'm just pleased to fit in with the flock.

GlomOfNit · 12/12/2025 16:28

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 12/12/2025 05:41

@GlomOfNit I know you have one now but did you try small private pharmacies ?

Actually I don't have one! Bloody Boots either balls'd up with their availability or realised they didn't have enough vaccine to fulfil new orders and they sent us a 'thank you for cancelling your appointment' email, which was somewhat bewildering as we hadn't!

Anyway, I'm chasing up our small local pharmacy - they said they were trying to source some today and I should ring on Monday morning. Fingers crossed...

bonesandbooth2025 · 12/12/2025 16:29

morrisons said they have plenty of flu vaccines
asked just now

Fed up of hearing about the flu
the80sweregreat · 12/12/2025 16:33

I wish I’d gone to Morrisons ! I paid 22 for my one yesterday.