IRememberWhenThisWasAllFieldsAndCakePunching ·
10/12/2025 23:20
It’s a very niche question, I know, but if anyone can help me, it’s the mumsnet collective.
long story short - my partner (male, if it’s relevant) was harassed via text, email, WhatsApp and video messages over a period of time, culminating in the culprit finding our street name, traveling with a weapon to our street, knocking on doors until they found our home, then smashed our camera on our house and tried to gain entry while we were eating dinner. Fortunately, my partner was able to stop him, but it was very scary, very upsetting for all concerned and I and my young child have been very disturbed since.
he was arrested and initially charged with stalking , harrassment and assault. We have all the screenshots and messages etc as evidence and he has admitted it. The police say he’s denied the assault, even though we do have all the footage from an additional camera, they are not pursuing anything other than the stalking and harrassment.
we are now at the stage where the police have given us a choice, effectively. We can pursue and send it to the CPS or we can agree to community resolution, which I think is basically a letter of apology.
I don’t want this. A letter of apology means nothing to me. He has greatly affected my life and that of my child. My partner is concerned that the CPS won’t take the case despite meeting the evidential criteria. Can anyone advise as to how the CPS decide whether to take cases?