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To feel completely overwhelmed with a UC review

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Itsmeeee888 · 08/12/2025 22:14

I’m really really in a state of panic . Basically UC have asked for 3 years of bank statements from me by next week ! I have 4 children and life is stressful enough especially before Xmas . It seems they have info I had “inherited “ money from my mother when she died ( almost three years ago ) I did have money off my mum while she was dying as she was worried my step father would take it (10k) with this I bought a car . My mother died within a week of us finding out she had cancer, I was heavily pregnant , moving in to a council house and dealing with a very abusive partner . I spent most of my money on a car , carpets , furniture, white goods etc admittedly also a holiday . My brother has also been helping me over the few years financially ( one large amount towards items I needed then drips and drabs ) I’ve checked and yes a few months I may have gone over the 6k but once was from the money off mum and once off my insurance when my car got written off a year after I bought it . I know I should have declared it and I regret it now but I genuinely was in such a bad place . I suffer from severe panic disorder and anxiety and the thought of this call Monday is making me extremely anxious . Am i going to jail ? Will they cut my payments ? I can’t feed my kids etc . And it’s ruined my Xmas I can’t stop crying 😭 I can barely afford to live on the amount I get now without help from my dad and brother every month let alone lose lots of money on top of it ! And does it sound like I’ve been reported ? My ex always threats to report me

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NorwayTruce · 10/12/2025 10:35

Name Changed for this. I know it’s easy to say but try not to think the worst. A lot of this comes down to what your intentions were at the time. They know if you genuinely didn’t understand the rules or intended to try and deprive yourself of capital. I had a very similar situation years ago. I genuinely didn’t understand the rules. I thought I could have up to £16k in savings, and you can. But what I didn’t understand was that anything above the first £6k is considered income regardless if it generates an income.

When I first claimed I had just received a settlement from a tribunal and because it was under £10k I thought it was below the threshold. After losing my mum I was left in almost £18k of debt and after a decade of struggling with repayments every month I used the settlement to make an offer which the creditor accepted in order to wipe the debt clean. This was picked up on my credit report and the next thing I knew I was being investigated for benefit fraud.

keep in mind I had only just started claiming UC at the time and a decision maker who frankly should have been sacked decided I owed over £25k that I hadn’t even claimed. I was terrified. I thought I was going to prison for something I knew was not even true. I was so distressed that a staff member at the job centre sent the police to my house because they thought I was going to harm myself. The whole situation was horrific.

They were actually going to set up a payment plan for this imaginary £25k when I insisted on a mandatory reconsideration because it just didn’t make sense. Yes I had received a settlement, but I hadn’t even claimed the amount they were demanding back. A second investigation found out that all I actually owed was £720. Less than a months money at the time. And they were going to make me pay back over £25k I didn’t even owe.

I’ve never had any formal apology for the hell their first decision maker put me through but the upshot was that the law says you can use any capital you have to reduce debt and it is not considered depriving yourself of capital because you are not gaining from it. I hadn’t even done anything wrong by using the settlement to clear my debts in the first place because the law says you can use any capital you have to reduce debts if you are on benefits.

I thought the worst. I was terrified I was going to prison for something I knew I had not done but it turned out I didn’t even owe what they originally claimed, and even then they were still going to arrange a repayment plan so as scary as it is being investigated try not to think the worst. Just be honest about how you got the money, what was going on in your life at the time and why it was given to you.

Offer to repay any over payment and just be honest and explain what was happening at the time and why the money was passed to you. Few people have found themselves in the mess I got in but even that wasn’t the end of the world. They are more interested in career fraudsters rinsing hundreds of thousands out of the system than people making genuine mistakes who want to put it right.

NorwayTruce · 10/12/2025 10:42

Oh and at the time they wanted statements from bank accounts that were closed over a decade ago to make sure I wasn’t hiding anything. They said you can just ask the bank. You can’t. It doesn’t work like that. This only heaped even more stress on me because I didn’t even know the account number from an account that was closed more than a decade before. All I could get was confirmation from the bank in question that they didn’t have any accounts for me.

Anyway, don’t let it spoil your run up to Christmas and please do let us know how you get on x

Bubsymama67 · 10/12/2025 11:06

In a similar situation, please let us know how you get on!!
Hoping it goes well for you. I know it's easy to say don't worry too much but still try and enjoy Christmas with your children. x

Bex4567 · 06/02/2026 23:57

Itsmeeee888 · 08/12/2025 23:16

Aw no I was just going to print them off first for myself to go over and make notes ready for any questions they ask 😀

How did u get on op

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