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To wonder how we survived without constantly drinking water while working in previous decades?

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Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 20:50

A bit lighthearted but also a serious question!

Looking back at all the jobs I've had from age 16, working while at university and career after, it wasn't commonplace to have a Stanley or filled bottle nearby. We had breaks and mostly had a quick coffee and a food, same at lunchtime. No one took bottles of water, hot drinks or cans, that was it! At school also, juice at break and lunch then drink water at home.

A) On the one hand I feel the obsession with keeping hydrated has been propelled by the manufacturers of drinking vessels, especially with the imprinted quantities for times of the day, insulated to keep cool and so on. From this POV it seems OTT when people are walking around a supermarket with their bottles with the fear their bodies may shrivel up. In schools, having them on their desks, the bottle flipping, guzzling down a litre of juice from home in the first 10 mins of a lesson then desperate for the toilet, stating it's a human right to drink til you busrt! In addition the sales of plastic bottles of water to continue to carry around, you should see the bins overflowing with them in every classroom, so much for encouraging environmental values.

B) I've also realised yes it is important to keep hydrated during the day and we need more than a few cups of coffee as fluid to keep us sustained. I was one of the few, as a teacher, who would bring in a small carton of juice to sip at (days before reusable were used for anyrhing than to clip on your bike) as I got thirsty! I was however told off, that I shouldn't be drinking those few sips during lessons, yes truth. It was only a bit as drinking more would mean I would need to go to the loo, which I knew was impossible at break times when on duty or lunch when I had meetings, detentions, extra tuition. To walk to the staff toilets meant 2 blocks away outside, flights of stairs and a queue, so it was a scheduled comfort.

Back to the point...

AIBR Drinking during breaks and lunch is perfectly adequate, no need for constant sipping, especially in schools where it can cause so much disruption by those who take the mick.

AIBU We need to consistently sip to help us with talking, feeling well and focus.

As an adult I now value being able to have a bottle nearby at work, in the car on long journeys, but not a constant need everywhere I go. Xxx

OP posts:
ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 08/12/2025 08:09

CaptainMyCaptain · 08/12/2025 08:03

You obviously know more than the people who actually remember it then . 🙄

You also lose credibility points for using 'Boomers' in a derogatory fashion.

Working class people did have access to chocolate in the 60s and 70s - Mars bars, Kit Kats etc were about twice the size they are now. I even remember the adverts 'Maltesers - the sweet you can eat between meals', 'a Mars a day helps you work, rest and play', 'Have a break have a Kit Kat'.

Edited

A finger of fudge is just enough until it’s time to eat!

PlazaAthenee · 08/12/2025 08:11

A couple of colleagues still don't drink much / any water and wonder why they have headaches in the middle of the day.
My grandparents used to drink way too much tea. It didn't do them any good as they'd have UTI's. Water would have been better.

ResusciAnnie · 08/12/2025 08:11

MyIvyGrows · 07/12/2025 21:03

Can’t be any worse than the prolific UTIs in the current elderly population

This!

I don’t understand the people who have a problem with other people drinking 😂 I just can’t imagine myself ever caring how much anyone else drinks (other than being concerned my 95yo grandmother getting recurrent UTIs for example).

If you don’t want a drink then don’t have one. People have different bodies and different requirements in life. Literally couldn’t be more basic.

EleanorReally · 08/12/2025 08:11

we definitely wouldnt have been eating a mars bar every day!

HoppityBun · 08/12/2025 08:12

Lazygardener · 08/12/2025 06:47

It’s nonsense. If you are on a diet and look at chat forums you will see plenty of people solemnly pronouncing that you ‘need’ to drink 2 - 3 litres of water a day, o Nobody ever cites any scientific evidence for this or qualifies it with the recognition that quite a lot of hydration comes from food. I presume all this water aids weight loss because you are in the toilet so often where you can’t eat.

But research is easy to find eg…

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7966133/

https://www.thelancet.com/campaigns/kidney/updates/can-water-intake-prevent-ckd

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1279770724004147

oviraptor21 · 08/12/2025 08:13

PigeonsandSquirrels · 08/12/2025 07:51

By being dehydrated or drinking an insane amount of tea/coffee. Pick your option.

People need 8 glasses of fluid a day. That includes all drinks except alcohol. But some people need more to feel on top form. And that’s perfectly OK, you really shouldn’t be irritated by something as banal as humans drinking water… it’s quite pathetic really.

There is plenty of research which says that drinking to thirst is all that is needed and that fluid replenishment can come from many sources including food.
https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24464774 is just one of many articles discussing why.
Don't forget that the explosion in advice to drink 8 glasses of water a day (or more) came with the introduction of bottled water.

Drinking bottled water at Wimbledon

Do you really need to drink eight cups of water a day?

Drinking eight cups or two litres of water a day is longstanding advice. But is there any scientific basis for it?

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24464774

lljkk · 08/12/2025 08:13

I could see xMIL starting this thread.
She literally drinks 8 mugs of tea a day, but would see that as "normal" and not the same thing at all, oh no...

tamade · 08/12/2025 08:17

Tutorpuzzle · 07/12/2025 21:02

I agree. I think a lot of schools have reached a tipping point (often literally) and most classes I’ve worked in now have them together in a box where children can go and take the occasional swig.

But yes, I’ve often seen 5 year olds sent in with huge bottles they can barely hold up!

(I’ve sometimes been tempted to pre-load my reusable coffee cup with a dash of Kahlua before I leave home 😜)

This is what they do at my son's school. The box idea, not the liqueur

EleanorReally · 08/12/2025 08:17

coffee, tea, alcohol, fizzy drinks, orange juice - they can all irritate the bladder

EBearhug · 08/12/2025 08:19

We had a water fountain at school - next to the outside loos, I suppose because that's where the plumbing was. We were only meant to use the loos at breaktimes/lunchtimes, unless an emergency. We did have indoor loos in the more modern extension of the school. Sometime in the '80s, though small squarish flasks became fashionable, which I think usually had squash in. It was a step up from the warm squash in a Tupperware beaker that family picnics all seemed to have.

My father was a farmer and would take a flask of water or squash in the summer. Once the '80s came,he mostly reused 2l PET bottles which had had Coke or lemonade in, which could be frozen overnight in the freezer, then melted over the day. On a hot day of harvest, he did need rehydration quite frequently. In winter, he sometimes took a flask of coffee, but would be more likely to have the time to pop into the house for a fresh one.

These days, I have a glass of water at my desk, which I refill as needed. Colleagues mostly have tea or coffee, but I've never drunk either. At least that's not seen as weird these days as it was when I was younger.

Frenchfrychic · 08/12/2025 08:20

I don’t really get your issue, no one is forcing you to drink constantly and why would it remotely bother you if others do.

no one said if you don’t you will die, so I really don’t understand why you’re asking how people survived either,

EleanorReally · 08/12/2025 08:22

you should consume 1.5 to 2 litres,
4 to 6 mug sizes a day
for the sake of your bladder

RampantIvy · 08/12/2025 08:23

PlazaAthenee · 08/12/2025 08:11

A couple of colleagues still don't drink much / any water and wonder why they have headaches in the middle of the day.
My grandparents used to drink way too much tea. It didn't do them any good as they'd have UTI's. Water would have been better.

Tea drinking doesn't cause UTIs, especially if you drink decaffeinated tea.

Worralorra · 08/12/2025 08:24

Tea. It was tea! Coffee dehydrates, but tea doesn’t (unless you put too much milk in it).

I rarely drink water except for a pint overnight, but I will drink at least 8 cups of tea per working day - sometimes more. When I’m out on my bike, exercising, is the only time I carry a water bottle (2 actually), but them I need it. Not while working at a computer!

I’ve been doing this for over 40 years now, and most people my age at work do the same…

EleanorReally · 08/12/2025 08:25

tea can irritate the bladder, it is a diuretic

RampantIvy · 08/12/2025 08:29

EleanorReally · 08/12/2025 08:25

tea can irritate the bladder, it is a diuretic

It can, true. It still hydrates you though. You don't have a net loss of fluid by drinking tea. I am well hydrated because my urine is pale and I don't get headachey.

I do drink water, but when I am at work in a cold air conditioned office the last thing I fancy is a cold drink, so I drink tea.

Raggededges · 08/12/2025 08:30

Drinking tea from a cup or water from a glass isn't going to leaves billions of plastic bottles littering the world. The massive ones are ridiculous and are just not needed in the workplace. You're not going on a hike in 30c.
8 glasses is recommended in a day but you don't have to drink your entire days quota at work! They're just more landfill.

ArcticGrass · 08/12/2025 08:36

We use to take flasks with (weak milky disgusting) tea out as a family or bottles of squash. And had a carton of juice with lunch at school and there were plastic awful water jugs too that always had sticky handles. When I started work in the 90s there was still a tea trolley that came round 6 times a day.

Lifestooshort71 · 08/12/2025 08:39

EleanorReally · 08/12/2025 08:22

you should consume 1.5 to 2 litres,
4 to 6 mug sizes a day
for the sake of your bladder

Edited

'For the sake of your bladder' you should drink enough so your pee is the right colour (not too dark, not too pale).

WaryCrow · 08/12/2025 08:43

You lose credibility points for using 'Boomers' in a derogatory fashion.

Awww diddums try living since then. A boomer tried to tell me last week that the idea they are living longer than previous generations was a myth.

Obviously lifestyles can be very different depending on time and location and wealth but I was brought up poor in the 70s/ 80s - which you didn’t bother to read - surviving on porridge made with hot water, no milk, and hand me down clothing, and we only had chocolate as Christmas presents. However there were half a dozen sweet shops and we used those more regularly than once a year.

Starlight7080 · 08/12/2025 08:45

Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 22:25

Lol 😆

I'm secondary so while the ones who goadingly stare at you while downing it and telling them to stop, which is all you can do, they continue. Subsequent show of needing a wee because they've drank so much water, got a toilet pass, disappear for half an hour roaming the school causing havoc. Parents informed, followed wirh vitrolic abuse of of course their DC needs to drink more and be allowed out. No medical condition, just another parent controlled by their child and enabled. Sadly this is prevalent but academies where support is good they will be escorted, unfortunately not enough staff available in most. Xxx

But these children would find a way to be disruptive even without drinking water. Thats always been the way with some teens.

Owly11 · 08/12/2025 08:48

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 08/12/2025 08:00

2 litres is a myth.

A myth? Care to elaborate or do you prefer to keep us guessing?

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 08/12/2025 08:48

Raggededges · 08/12/2025 08:30

Drinking tea from a cup or water from a glass isn't going to leaves billions of plastic bottles littering the world. The massive ones are ridiculous and are just not needed in the workplace. You're not going on a hike in 30c.
8 glasses is recommended in a day but you don't have to drink your entire days quota at work! They're just more landfill.

But most of water bottles being talked about aren’t single use, people use the same water bottles for years. (And metal bottles are increasingly common).

DuchessofStaffordshire · 08/12/2025 08:53

Completely agree. In average weather conditions (unless we're experiencing particularly hot weather) I never go out on a run of up to 10K with any water and manage to keep myself perfectly well hydrated despite sweating.

ResusciAnnie · 08/12/2025 08:59

TheMrsCampbellBlack · 08/12/2025 01:13

Tea and coffee are really dehydrating and bad for you. No one should be drinking 12 cups of either a day!
I get that there's an element of commercialism to the bottles etc but it started way back with the 80s supermodels carrying those big bottles of evian etc and saying their skin and bodies were all down to drinking litres of water a day. This isn't something new just the vessels have changed now we are more conscious of the environment and micro plastics.

Tea and coffee aren’t dehydrating - they’re diuretics so will make you wee more but you’ll still be net positive hydrated.

Eg Drink 100ml water - wee out 50ml.
Drink 100ml tea - wee out 60ml. Still 40ml up. Obviously not the actual figures!

Alcohol is actually dehydrating. Meaning you lose more than you take in.