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To wonder how we survived without constantly drinking water while working in previous decades?

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Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 20:50

A bit lighthearted but also a serious question!

Looking back at all the jobs I've had from age 16, working while at university and career after, it wasn't commonplace to have a Stanley or filled bottle nearby. We had breaks and mostly had a quick coffee and a food, same at lunchtime. No one took bottles of water, hot drinks or cans, that was it! At school also, juice at break and lunch then drink water at home.

A) On the one hand I feel the obsession with keeping hydrated has been propelled by the manufacturers of drinking vessels, especially with the imprinted quantities for times of the day, insulated to keep cool and so on. From this POV it seems OTT when people are walking around a supermarket with their bottles with the fear their bodies may shrivel up. In schools, having them on their desks, the bottle flipping, guzzling down a litre of juice from home in the first 10 mins of a lesson then desperate for the toilet, stating it's a human right to drink til you busrt! In addition the sales of plastic bottles of water to continue to carry around, you should see the bins overflowing with them in every classroom, so much for encouraging environmental values.

B) I've also realised yes it is important to keep hydrated during the day and we need more than a few cups of coffee as fluid to keep us sustained. I was one of the few, as a teacher, who would bring in a small carton of juice to sip at (days before reusable were used for anyrhing than to clip on your bike) as I got thirsty! I was however told off, that I shouldn't be drinking those few sips during lessons, yes truth. It was only a bit as drinking more would mean I would need to go to the loo, which I knew was impossible at break times when on duty or lunch when I had meetings, detentions, extra tuition. To walk to the staff toilets meant 2 blocks away outside, flights of stairs and a queue, so it was a scheduled comfort.

Back to the point...

AIBR Drinking during breaks and lunch is perfectly adequate, no need for constant sipping, especially in schools where it can cause so much disruption by those who take the mick.

AIBU We need to consistently sip to help us with talking, feeling well and focus.

As an adult I now value being able to have a bottle nearby at work, in the car on long journeys, but not a constant need everywhere I go. Xxx

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Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 21:44

I've never worked in an office environment, all my jobs have been active and standing up so guess I'm not used to this.

Yes absolutely the same privilege for our younger generation at school but within reason. As I said, some take it as an allowance to down a bottle of water in a few minutes then demand to go to the toilet, all for show and to provoke, others throw them at each other, others pour it a over the tables and claim it was accidental. It really is an extra task to supervise behaviour for simply because they have access to a plastic bottle in their hands to choose to cause disruption.

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Fuckoffeasypeelers · 07/12/2025 21:45

QwertyAtThirty · 07/12/2025 21:17

Wait, what? Aren't your kidneys designed to deal with drinking water? Unless someone is downing 5l a day, I thought it was good for your kidneys (and the rest of the system - bladder, bowel etc) to be well hydrated.

Agree

Drinking 8 250 ml glasses daily reduces your risk of bowel cancer.

Such a sneery thread about an important health issue that can actually save lives.

Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 21:46

ThisChirpyLemonUser · 07/12/2025 21:23

Your memory is lying to you really badly everyone drunk water we've had office water machines since the 50s diet coke breaks anyone ?? water fountains everywhere plastic water bottles and good posh mineral water glass bottles on every restaurant table in the 80s. and they have straw cleaners for Stanley's I'm not using your random water supply in an office kitchen sink or bathroom people are animals.

Are you from the UK?

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EconomyClassRockstar · 07/12/2025 21:49

I'm kind of glad that water has become such a thing. My teeth and my dentist will agree that the copious amounts of squash I drank as a kid was definitely not a good thing! It always makes me laugh that my mum was 100% anti fizzy drinks but squash? Absolutely fine.

NerrSnerr · 07/12/2025 21:49

I remember being really thirsty when I got home from school in the 80s and 90s. I don’t why someone would care whether people are deciding to drink water in a way that suits them.

I had a load of UTIs as a teen and it took ages to realise that I needed to drink more. It’ll also help people in later years when UTIs are common if drinking water is embedded. Would reduce falls, hospital admissions etc.

toastofthetown · 07/12/2025 21:50

NotrialNodeal · 07/12/2025 20:55

Yanbu. I agree completely lol but suspect we will be in the minority. I was working today and noticed the amount of colleagues who own massive 2l plastic bottles with straws and I don't know why but they are so fucking huge I find them quite ridiculous. Also quite disgusting. There's no way you can clean those straws properly.

But why do you care? If you don’t want a water bottle then don’t get one but why does it bother you other people have and like them? Drinking more water is harmless and doesn’t affect anyone other than the person drinking the water. And it’s very easy to clean a straw.

StruggleFlourish · 07/12/2025 21:51

Although his entirely possible that as a society we are all more dehydrated than we realize, which leads us to have all kinds of issues (including overeating because we think we're hungry when really we're thirsty) But all the years that I was in school, primary, secondary, college, university, training schools, all the years that I was working, and every level of job at every stage of the way, NOBODY carried a water bottle or other type of drinking vessel, the ONLY time that you drank was when you were on a break or lunch And as far as I know, we all survived this. I can't understand why except for the fact that it's just become a fad and then a habit and then nobody really thought about why they're carrying it along with them, we as a society apparently can't survive without constant hydration. It's really quite baffling.

QuizzlyBears · 07/12/2025 21:51

I can’t bring myself to be worried about what other people are or aren’t drinking, and it’s beyond me why anyone would care what I am consuming. I have a Stanley cup that sits on my desk (and own straw cleaners for anyone concerned about that!) and drink about 3l of water a day plus a couple of coffees. The Stanley reminds me to drink and the size means I’m not getting up from my desk to keep filling a small cup. You do you and I’ll do me, bigger things in the world to worry about!

Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 21:52

Are you from the UK?

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Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 21:56

littlegreydevil · 07/12/2025 21:33

I don’t know, I remember my mum and my grandad suffering from kidney stones quite regularly and I had repeated UTIs as a teen until I started drinking more water. But I need the water within sight/reach otherwise I forget to drink. I’m happy with reusable water bottles being more common place nowadays.

I agree society wasn't aware of the need to be hydrated then, amongst so many other things. Clean water also wasn't easily accessible way back and that's regrettable. Knowing we need fluids and all the other health advice has been life changing. Xx

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Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 21:59

Fuckoffeasypeelers · 07/12/2025 21:45

Agree

Drinking 8 250 ml glasses daily reduces your risk of bowel cancer.

Such a sneery thread about an important health issue that can actually save lives.

Edited

I agree, it's been lifechanging to be aware of the importance. My post was to question how did we survive with just drinking when we did.

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ThankYouNigel · 07/12/2025 22:01

YANBU, and I am sick of them in schools, sick of them! I am sick of filling them up every morning, my eldest constantly forgetting/losing his, traipsing round to the office to enquire at lost property as I don’t want to buy another one…bring back water fountains or yes, wait until lunch time!!! 😂

Ineffable23 · 07/12/2025 22:02

grrrlatrix · 07/12/2025 21:32

SNACKING! Oh goodness yes.
At breaktime they serve cheese on toast, garlic bread, bacon buns, pizza slices etc. It’s become completely normal to eat what is essentially another meal before dinner time!

And when my mum was a teenager she used to take 6 slices of bread worth of sandwiches with her. Teenagers are hungry isn't really a headline grabber, is it?

Settings11111111 · 07/12/2025 22:03

BashfulClam · 07/12/2025 21:08

I had constant headaches at school….turns out dehydration has this effect I. Me. We weren’t allowed to drink during lessons and just before lunch or last period I’d have a banging headache. When I drank more the headaches stopped. I have a 500ml cup at my desk that I refill throughout the day,

Agreed. We were thirsty. I remember being so thirsty all the way through my school years. There were water fountains but they were disgusting.

Why is anyone upset that people are drinking water?

Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 22:06

QuizzlyBears · 07/12/2025 21:51

I can’t bring myself to be worried about what other people are or aren’t drinking, and it’s beyond me why anyone would care what I am consuming. I have a Stanley cup that sits on my desk (and own straw cleaners for anyone concerned about that!) and drink about 3l of water a day plus a couple of coffees. The Stanley reminds me to drink and the size means I’m not getting up from my desk to keep filling a small cup. You do you and I’ll do me, bigger things in the world to worry about!

That's ideal drinking that much water from a cooled stanley cup during the working day. However not all jobs are office based so you can't go the nearby toilet whenever you want. Also not practical to carry around a huge plastic cup, dangerous, impractical and not allowed.

Do you think having the same water all day is better than a fresh fill though?

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Thedogswhiskers · 07/12/2025 22:12

Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 21:30

Strangely enough we weren't! Definitely more robust and resilient. Xxx

I was a child of the 70s and I certainly snacked

Sesma · 07/12/2025 22:14

Aren't some of them hard to wash properly, they look a bit fussy

Chinsupmeloves · 07/12/2025 22:14

GooglePenguinBollardsIDareYou · 07/12/2025 21:02

I get it, it is a change over past times but change is not always bad. I have a 1L bottle (and wash the straw with a brush) of water and it helps me keep hydrated when I now WFH but also It means my timesheets show I don’t take lunches, work longer and also the video calls don’t allow the very short breaks I used to be able to take for bathroom or drink breaks and so I am working more and trying to stay healthy(alive) with water during the calls. If water drinking is such a big issue in your work days, I would say you are very lucky. There are much worse issues to deal with.

Oh so many worse issues to deal with, this was just curiosity. DH wfh and doesn't drink water, just constant cups of tea! Xx

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bodyofproof · 07/12/2025 22:19

Sesma · 07/12/2025 22:14

Aren't some of them hard to wash properly, they look a bit fussy

I just have this one but I’m not sipping through the day, it’s more a few gulps so works for that

To wonder how we survived without constantly drinking water while working in previous decades?
FrangipaniBlue · 07/12/2025 22:21

NewMe2024 · 07/12/2025 21:14

I’m mixed on this one. It’s definitely done overboard but I was a child in the 80s/90s and do recall getting thirsty and having to find water somewhere, queue for the water fountain at school and barely be able to drink more than a trickle before you had to step aside for the next child, etc. I think having a water bottle in your school bag is a step up from then, but the Stanley’s, other beverages, constant drinking is overkill. I’m a hypocrite though because I talk a lot in my job and am constantly drinking water, coffee and tea all day.

I think this is how I feel?

every job I’ve had since 2000 I’ve always had a glass of water on my desk…… but I just don’t understand the obsession with huge water bottles, or walking round supermarkets with them.

my nail tech has one of those huge 2l Stanley cups and I’m like, why? You literally work from a converted room in your house - just refill a glass between clients !

Water bottles belong in the gym/for doing sports.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 07/12/2025 22:21

Apart from schoolchildren having access to fresh, cold water in playground fountains and water in jugs at every table for lunch and adults had somebody employed specifically to clean and bring round drinks twice a day in many workplaces, maybe people didn't habitually drink as much water. I know we were never allowed a drink with a meal at home because it was believed either we wouldn't eat or that it would affect digestion.

But then people get to old age and one of the main issues in elderly care is getting people to drink, kidney stones are a common thing in late middle age, particularly in men and I think this indicates that whilst it may not have been a thing to drink as often, that wasn't necessarily because it wasn't needed.

GarlicRound · 07/12/2025 22:22

Various medics over the years have told me that:
a] Most people get enough hydration from their food;
b] Studies on people who only drink neat spirits show they're sufficiently hydrated;
c] All the same, it's better to drink some fluids;
d] Coffee and tea are as hydrating as water.

You read a load of bunkum about this, mainly that we need 2 litres of water a day and that coffee isn't hydrating because it's diuretic. If there was enough caffeine in a mug of coffee to force your kidneys to speed-expel a mug of water, it'd be prescription only!

Over-hydration does make your skin look healthier. Extreme over-hydration can wash nutrients out of your cells, though, so you could end up having to replace electrolytes and micro-nutrients while having plumped-up skin. Worst case, too much water weakens the cell walls and all kinds of weird long-term damage can result.

As you may have guessed, I drink coffee all day unless I'm actually thirsty or am drinking alcohol (I do 1/1 with water).

Endofyear · 07/12/2025 22:22

I grew up in the SE of England and the tap water was so disgusting, no-one I knew drank water - we all drank squash! I live in Wales now, the water is lovely and all my kids were happy to drink water. I do try to remember to drink a few glasses a day as well as a morning coffee and several mugs of tea! I couldn't be arsed to carry a water bottle with me everywhere though 😂

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 07/12/2025 22:23

Owly11 · 07/12/2025 21:03

All this over drinking is putting tremendous strain on the kidneys. It will be interesting to see the outcome by late middle/old age for this population.

Can you elaborate further on your medical expertise and explain how drinking water strains the kidneys?

FWIW my mother is from the 'hardly drink/drank water' generation and has stage 4 kidney disease.

FrangipaniBlue · 07/12/2025 22:25

Fuckoffeasypeelers · 07/12/2025 21:45

Agree

Drinking 8 250 ml glasses daily reduces your risk of bowel cancer.

Such a sneery thread about an important health issue that can actually save lives.

Edited

Yes but you can drink 8 glasses of water in a day without dragging a massive drinking vessel around everywhere.