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That prayer to Jesus is inappropriate at a company party?

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Kate8889 · 06/12/2025 12:06

I went with my husband to a company Christmas party and before we started to eat a woman came to the microphone and said a short prayer in the name of Jesus as thanks/blessings for the food. Everyone was expected to bow their head.

This is the first time I've been witness to something like this, it is a secular company with many Jewish, Muslim and agnostic people. We have been going to this Christmas party for 7 years and it's never been like this.

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TJk86 · 08/12/2025 14:43

Hoppinggreen · 08/12/2025 14:41

If I walk past a mosque or a Christian church and hear praying then why would that bother me at all?
Its out of place at an office party though

why does it have to be broadcasted to everyone in the vicinity through the speaker though?

TJk86 · 08/12/2025 14:44

MySilentLions · 08/12/2025 14:23

People of other faiths Ive met tend to be much nicer and far more resilient actually, it’s always the Christians who do the “boo hoo tears, woe is me, I’m so persecuted, you must let me do whatever I want and listen to me harp on and on and on” crap.

Yeah, I dislike fervent Christians. I don’t care if you don’t like that. Can’t stand their proselytism crap.

Just look at all the right wing trad wife, remove rights to abortion, deny women education and jobs, shite that is coming from the fundamental Christians in the US as well. They pick and choose their Bible quotes to keep women down. Horrible people with horrible views.

Oh yeah because other religions are so much better when it comes to womens rights lol (see: Islam).

KimberleyClark · 08/12/2025 14:52

TJk86 · 08/12/2025 14:43

why does it have to be broadcasted to everyone in the vicinity through the speaker though?

Why do church bells have to be rung all over the place on Sundays?

Hoppinggreen · 08/12/2025 14:53

TJk86 · 08/12/2025 14:43

why does it have to be broadcasted to everyone in the vicinity through the speaker though?

In Islam its the call to prayer, no idea how it would ruin your day though any more than church bells would

Bumblebee72 · 08/12/2025 15:09

I think it highly inappropriate to bring religion into the work place. Christmas parties are for getting pissed and hoping Sue from dispatch doesn't photocopy her boobs again.

Poetnojo · 08/12/2025 15:13

MySilentLions · 08/12/2025 13:50

You’re really reaching now. Sad.

So it's reaching to say that drinking alcohol is not usually ok in a workplace setting? Really? Hahaha
And with regards to your later posts, calm down love, nobody here 'prayed at you'
You're starting to sound a bit hysterical now, almost frothing about your hatred towards someone because of their protected characteristics. You think Christians have the worst track record with regards women's rights?
It would almost be funny if it want so wrong.

Yamahahaha · 08/12/2025 15:18

TJk86 · 06/12/2025 17:17

No other religion would allow this. Imagine Muslim/jewish holiday where people are not allowed to pray. It would cause an outrage. Or a non Muslim person celebrating Ramadan just for the fun of it would be seen as cultural appropriation.

I don't know about not being allowed to pray, but I do know that there are plenty of people who would describe themselves as culturally Jewish.

Poetnojo · 08/12/2025 15:19

Bumblebee72 · 08/12/2025 15:09

I think it highly inappropriate to bring religion into the work place. Christmas parties are for getting pissed and hoping Sue from dispatch doesn't photocopy her boobs again.

And yet, noone would probably bat an eyelid if Sue did just that, mention Jesus though.....

Bumblebee72 · 08/12/2025 15:32

Yamahahaha · 08/12/2025 15:18

I don't know about not being allowed to pray, but I do know that there are plenty of people who would describe themselves as culturally Jewish.

Of course people are allowed to pray. Just do it quietly without compelling everyone else to take part. I've never been in a work place where everyone has been forced to take part in Muslim prayers.

Bumblebee72 · 08/12/2025 15:34

Poetnojo · 08/12/2025 15:19

And yet, noone would probably bat an eyelid if Sue did just that, mention Jesus though.....

Sue is real, Jesus isn't.... Although most of us would welcome Jesus to the party if he did the water into wine trick.

Poetnojo · 08/12/2025 15:41

Bumblebee72 · 08/12/2025 15:34

Sue is real, Jesus isn't.... Although most of us would welcome Jesus to the party if he did the water into wine trick.

Jesus was actually a real man, more real than the hypothetical 'Sue' lol

HMBB · 08/12/2025 15:42

I am not religious but am surprised at how many people are saying Christmas is nothing to do with Jesus/Christianity!

Hoppinggreen · 08/12/2025 15:58

Poetnojo · 08/12/2025 15:41

Jesus was actually a real man, more real than the hypothetical 'Sue' lol

There was probably A man called Jesus living in Judea around 20000 years ago, maybe even more than one.
No evidence he was anything other than a man though any more than there is that Sue is the daughter of Satan (until she gets a few sambuccas in her)

RedTagAlan · 08/12/2025 16:16

MySilentLions · 08/12/2025 14:23

People of other faiths Ive met tend to be much nicer and far more resilient actually, it’s always the Christians who do the “boo hoo tears, woe is me, I’m so persecuted, you must let me do whatever I want and listen to me harp on and on and on” crap.

Yeah, I dislike fervent Christians. I don’t care if you don’t like that. Can’t stand their proselytism crap.

Just look at all the right wing trad wife, remove rights to abortion, deny women education and jobs, shite that is coming from the fundamental Christians in the US as well. They pick and choose their Bible quotes to keep women down. Horrible people with horrible views.

Quote: " it’s always the Christians who do the “boo hoo tears, woe is me..."

Agree. and the reason is right there in the Bible.

Mat 5:10 -12 "Blessed those persecuted for righteousness' sake because theirs is the kingdom of the heavens. Blessed are you whenever they may reproach you, and may persecute, and may say any evil thing against you falsely for My sake rejoice and be glad, because your reward [is] great in the heavens, for thus they persecuted the prophets who were before you." (LSV)

They literarily have to be persecuted to be good Christians. It's a paradox I think.

If they are not being persecuted and thrown to the lions, then they are not Christian enough and won't go to heaven.

I mean this in terms of the fundies of course, not the casual cultural Christians.

Edit: formatting.

Poetnojo · 08/12/2025 17:14

Hoppinggreen · 08/12/2025 15:58

There was probably A man called Jesus living in Judea around 20000 years ago, maybe even more than one.
No evidence he was anything other than a man though any more than there is that Sue is the daughter of Satan (until she gets a few sambuccas in her)

I never said he was anything more than a man, I was replying to someone who said 'sue', that hypothetical 'sue' was 'real' and that Jesus was not.

gogomomo2 · 08/12/2025 17:28

I’m been at many dinners where Grace was said, it’s not compulsory to say Amen, don’t overthink it. Christmas is a religious festival remember. We always say grace at ours but it’s a religious organisation

Genevieva · 08/12/2025 17:31

Snugglemonkey · 08/12/2025 13:40

Anyone imposing proseltising at a party is not being thoughtful at all. I would be personally offended, yes.

I see it as someone saying "fuck you and your beliefs, mine are more important. So I will hijack this fun occassion and make it uncomfortable so I can feel like a superior religious person."

I really don’t. I love having the privilege of being able to participate in other cultures and religious practices.

Grace before a meal can be a little cringeworthy if you aren’t used to it; my husband’s aunt converted to Christian Science and always asked a guest to say it, which could leave you stumped. But aside from that, my view is ‘no offence intended, no offence taken.’ Suggesting a Christian hijacked a Christmas celebration by saying a brief Christmas themed blessing is absurd.

ByGoldBalonz · 08/12/2025 17:35

I'm a Hindu. I would have bowed my head as well in respect. I wouldn't have created a fuss over nothing.

Parker231 · 08/12/2025 17:50

gogomomo2 · 08/12/2025 17:28

I’m been at many dinners where Grace was said, it’s not compulsory to say Amen, don’t overthink it. Christmas is a religious festival remember. We always say grace at ours but it’s a religious organisation

At a religious event - yes but not at a work’s Christmas Do.

NoKidsSendDogs · 08/12/2025 18:24

Gmary20 · 08/12/2025 10:07

I mean, was it a Christmas party? This is a Christian country btw, would you complain if you went to a petty in Iran and then said a prayer to Allah before a dinner?

Not a Christian country by majority, thankfully.

heartsinvisiblefury · 08/12/2025 18:27

I have never once attended a Christmas party and given one single thought to Jesus.

Snugglemonkey · 08/12/2025 19:41

TJk86 · 08/12/2025 14:39

Maybe Mosques should be banner then because if you’re ever in east London around prayer time you’ll hear it loud and clear with no choice of whether or not you want to listen to it. But no one would ever say anything as it’s only PC to be offended by Christanity and no other religions.

I would happily ban mosques from broadcasting prayers. As I say, I believe faith is a private matter and should not be shoved in anyones face. Doesn't matter what the religion is.

Snugglemonkey · 08/12/2025 19:43

KimberleyClark · 08/12/2025 14:52

Why do church bells have to be rung all over the place on Sundays?

I would ban those too.

Snugglemonkey · 08/12/2025 19:46

Genevieva · 08/12/2025 17:31

I really don’t. I love having the privilege of being able to participate in other cultures and religious practices.

Grace before a meal can be a little cringeworthy if you aren’t used to it; my husband’s aunt converted to Christian Science and always asked a guest to say it, which could leave you stumped. But aside from that, my view is ‘no offence intended, no offence taken.’ Suggesting a Christian hijacked a Christmas celebration by saying a brief Christmas themed blessing is absurd.

It was not xmas themed. It was a prayer. Totally inappropriate.

NeedToKnow101 · 08/12/2025 19:55

MySilentLions · 08/12/2025 14:23

People of other faiths Ive met tend to be much nicer and far more resilient actually, it’s always the Christians who do the “boo hoo tears, woe is me, I’m so persecuted, you must let me do whatever I want and listen to me harp on and on and on” crap.

Yeah, I dislike fervent Christians. I don’t care if you don’t like that. Can’t stand their proselytism crap.

Just look at all the right wing trad wife, remove rights to abortion, deny women education and jobs, shite that is coming from the fundamental Christians in the US as well. They pick and choose their Bible quotes to keep women down. Horrible people with horrible views.

Are you having a laugh?! Have you checked out who is massacring Christians in Nigeria? Have you seen any Christian ‘honour’ kill their own daughter? Have you seen any Christian brutally murder someone lately because they caused ‘offence?’ Remind me which religion lacks resilience? Crikey! The agenda some people are spouting on this thread is insane.

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