Wondering If anyone could tell me if I aibu.
Husband works for major financial company. Has had the year from hell with a very difficult boss. Lost 12k in weight in a few months from being unable to eat, wasn’t sleeping, was really in quite a pit of dispair about work. Didn’t speak up because he’s incredibly dutiful to a point and refused to ‘rock the boat’ as he sees that as unprofessional. So work remain unaware of that aspect. He was going in and doing his job , and then falling apart at home.
It obviously impacted on us all as a family but the main thing was we needed to get him out of the job because he felt there was no other way he could live day to day like this. He didn’t see any option to continue because he’s simply not the type to complain or voice discontent in the workplace.
good news is that he found a new position at another company, accepted the job and handed in notice to current manager. When he did this, she was uncharacteristically lovely, telling him he’s been underpaid and over stressed for some time and she appreciates all he has done for the team.
two weeks later, he’s found out that the entire team is to be made redundant. Now in a corp that size, I imagine this means that when she took his notice, she KNEW that he was about to made redundant anyway, and chose not to tell him. Meaning his circumstances would have always been leaving the job…. It’s just that now they don’t have to pay out 20k in redundancy.
Originaly I assumed it was just really awful luck. But a quick google suggests that she may have been obliged to inform him rather than accept his notice that day. I’m not legally well versed so am unsure if this is the case. But google and ChatGPT suggest that if she knew of information that would have made him choose NOT to give notice, she was obliged to disclose it.
does anyone better versed than me know whether this is something we shouldn’t just accept as hard luck?
I think that because of how awful his mental health was because of her, I feel more aggrieved about the fact she ma have screwed him over at the end too.