I have relations in Ireland and I was on the phone to a cousin. We were chatting about Christmas and plans, etc just having a catch up. Her daughter is in university and she’s excited about her coming home as she hasn’t seen her in a few weeks. (they seem to go home and all that over there!) anyway we were talking about university costs and it turns out her daughter gets a grant. Now I know my cousin is very well off. She is very aware that she is well off and she doesn’t hide that . She lives with her partner and they both earn well, as she is separated from her daughter’s dad. So I was surprised to hear that her daughter gets a grant, it turns out she gets the grant because they registered her to live at her dad’s address. Her dad is on one income which is still quite significant in my opinion. Approximately 70k! Because of this she gets a part of the grant, not the full grant!. The rest of her university has funded through her mother. AIBU to think that this is very unfair? And a bit of an abuse of their system?