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Speeding on Motorway

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Somersetmum100 · 30/11/2025 17:52

Anyone able to help. Think I might have been caught speeding. On the motorway this morning, think I got clocked by a police van on the bridge above. I was definitely not doing 80 but was constantly fluctuating 77/78/79. There is often 3mph between my Speedo and Google maps on my phone. No other speeding fines ever but really worried what might happen. Struggle with anxiety and worry about absolutely everything but I can't think straight and can't eat - please help, how much trouble am I likely to be in

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Wolfiefan · 30/11/2025 20:41

Why are you so anxious? You’ve been told what will happen if you’ve been caught. That won’t change if the letter comes tomorrow or in a week.

Somersetmum100 · 30/11/2025 21:05

Wolfiefan · 30/11/2025 20:41

Why are you so anxious? You’ve been told what will happen if you’ve been caught. That won’t change if the letter comes tomorrow or in a week.

It's the uncertainty of points or a course, add to that a personality where is over think everything. It's my fault, I was speeding but it's the bot knowing exactly

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IsFearrCuplaFocalNaCuplaFuckAll · 30/11/2025 21:26

Somersetmum100 · 30/11/2025 20:07

So, after an afternoon of panic thank you all of you who have reassured me (for now) if I am to receive a letter about being caught speeding what is a likely time frame for it to arrive. I have read about it being within the 14 days but is it likely to be before then or last minute before the deadline? I am the registered keeper and have not changed address for a long while

It’s likely to be less than a week. I’ve had two and one I hadn’t yet registered the car to me (I’d not long purchased it and there were problems. The garage allowed me to not change it over in case I didn’t keep it) and even finding me through insurance was less than two weeks. The other was a company car via a lease so had a bit of a merry go round and also quick to arrive.

honestly, there is no problem here that should cause you to worry.

is your licence valid? Not expired?
Even if it is you can just get it sent off and replaced in the timeframe required.

absolutely worst case is £100 and 3 points. Your insurance may go up a smidge at 3 points but it’s so common and mine didn’t. Even at 6, I think it was £100 more. Or you’ll have to do a speed awareness course and pay that fine - is it £100? Other option is absolutely nothing will happen as you were going faster than the speed limit but not fast enough to get a ticket.

I spend a lot of time worrying about the what ifs but please be assured that there’s nothing here that is out of the ordinary or will cause this small thing to turn into a catastrophic event.

Wolfiefan · 30/11/2025 21:35

It doesn’t sound like a normal level of anxiety though. I would be looking for ways to deal with that going forward. Points or a course won’t derail your life.

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Tippexy · 30/11/2025 21:46

The google map app is the correct reading; were you going 78 on there or on your speedo?

brunettemic · 30/11/2025 22:43

NotForTheMoneyandNotForTheApplause · 30/11/2025 19:12

Are you saying that because you've never been caught speeding no one else will be?

You don't really believe that do you?

Sometimes I make a journey that involves going on a motorway that has automatic speed cameras set at 70 and I regularly see them going off. How do you explain that?

No I can’t explain why a speed camera would go off when someone is driving at a legal speed of 70.

Motomum23 · 30/11/2025 22:47

My husband has been caught speeding twice (55 in a 50 on a motorway reduction) and 70 on a dual carriageway in a white van (he thought 70 was the limit as it was the same van as our 9 seater but apparently a lack of passengers takes that down to a 60)... both times he got 3 points and a £100 fine and no offers of speed awareness courses.

fluffiphlox · 30/11/2025 22:49

If they offer it, go in the course. It’s actually pretty interesting.

CherrieTomaties · 30/11/2025 22:50

Ok you need to breathe.

The worst thing to happen is you’re going to be out of pocket. Thats it. Thousands of people get caught speeding on our roads every single day.

You’ll either:

  • Pay a fine and get points on your licence.
  • Pay and attend a speed awareness course. (When I did a course, I did it in person. But I’ve know people who have recently done it online via Zoom etc.)

It really is nothing to worry or panic about. Please see your GP for help with anxiety.

And to avoid this in future, please ensure you never go over the speed limit. But don’t beat yourself up, it happens.

YowieeF · 30/11/2025 22:52

Likelihood is 3 points and a fine. If you have no points currently you may be offered and awareness course without points.

Lamentingalways · 30/11/2025 22:59

Somersetmum100 · 30/11/2025 18:05

Might seem over the top to others but things like this get to me - sorry, I just catastrophise

You don’t need to apologise to anyone. You’re perfectly entitled to post here at any time for any reason and no one gets to police that!

You’ll be fine, you might not even hear anything, my OH constantly thinks he been caught doing that sort of speed and we’ve yet to get anything. If you did a 1st offence is no big deal. I have been pulled over twice for driving too slowly 😂

redange · 30/11/2025 23:09

I thought the rule of thumb on a 70 MPH section of the Motorway was 10% plus 2 so 79 MPH is the 'unofficial' speed limit and Speedometers by law read 'fast'. Thus if the speedometer says 80 in reality you are doing between 77-78 MPH . I think below 85 MPH you are likely if first offence likely to get an offer of a Speed Awareness Course . They can be a bit 'boring' but better than 3 points.

redange · 30/11/2025 23:13

If you have gone though a camera on a Smart Motorway with Variable speed limits different rules may apply, it can be quite easy to be caught as I was on the M6 Coming on out of Birmingham..

SeaAndStars · 01/12/2025 10:02

brunettemic · 30/11/2025 18:35

I regularly have my cruise control on 77 (because it looks nice on the dashboard, I’m aware it’s a stupid reason) and it’s never happened.

Christ almighty.

Sailininthechoppa · 01/12/2025 10:07

Why are you worried about getting caught when you are knowingly doing something illegal?

Don't do the thing that's illegal in the first place then you won't get that anxiety.

IwishIcouldconfess · 01/12/2025 10:07

Somersetmum100 · 30/11/2025 18:05

Might seem over the top to others but things like this get to me - sorry, I just catastrophise

Are you getting help for this??

Avie29 · 01/12/2025 10:51

They have to send you the speeding notice within 14 days- if you don’t get one in 2 weeks then you won’t have been caugh xx

NigelForage · 01/12/2025 14:27

The ten per cent thing is a myth

Ariela · 01/12/2025 15:36

Given the accuracy of car speedometers is random but usually less than showing plus there's often a bit of leeway, and you've not had a speeding fine in the past 3 years I would imagine you're going to be within 10% of the speed limit, in which case you'll be offered 3 points and £100 fine OR the opportunity to do a speed awareness course.
Make sure you take the course option, usually online I believe these days, as not only will you gain tips and insight on how and why you should stick to travelling at no more than the speed limit, but also you do not have to declare this to your insurers meaning your insurance cost is not hiked.

GasPanic · 01/12/2025 15:43

MyThreeWords · 30/11/2025 18:31

I completely get your anxiety @Somersetmum100 . I was caught speeding on the motorway about 5 years ago. I hadn't realised, until I got the letter through the post, and then I got so insane with anxiety I couldn't even read the letter properly. I managed to misread it in a way that made everything seem even worse.

Less anxious people would just shrug, take the points or do the little speed awareness course and move on. But it killed me.

The reality is that even if you do meet the threshold for action, NOTHING terrible has happened. No one is judging you. An automated system has just kicked in to give you points or an invitation to a course.

If you get points, it isn't a big deal because you will clearly be committed to driving legally in future, and the points only become a problem if they mount up due to future lapses

If you attend a course (either virtually or, less likely(??) in person) it will likely match my experience: a friendly guy just giving you useful strategies to help you make sure you don't speed again in future. I thought I would be made to feel small, wicked, etc. But it was all just practical: How to be a better driver. And we could ALL do with that.
xxx

"No one is judging you."

They literally are judging you and prosecuting you for doing something unlawful.

My take on it, lots of people get tickets. That doesn't mean it is OK to get one but it is relatively normalised in society (whether it shoudl be or not is another issue).

At the end of the day you can't control whether you get a ticket or not for this incident. It is done and dusted. You will either get one or not and then have to deal with it. So no point worrying about it and deal with it if it happens.

The tickets you might get in the future, that is something you can deal with by driving more carefully and adhering to the limit if you don't want to risk getting a ticket.

Wolfiefan · 01/12/2025 15:43

@redange that’s not true.

Wolfiefan · 01/12/2025 22:44

@redange bad advice.

Speeding on Motorway
Doris86 · 02/12/2025 12:28

Google maps will be correct. Car speedos always over read slightly. So if your speedo said 78/79 you were probably really doing 75. Speed cameras also usually have a tolerance of 10% + 2mph. So it sounds like you’re easily within the getting away with it tolerance.