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AIBU to claim UC with a 'high' income

444 replies

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 19:15

I am very conflicted about lifting the two-child cap. I know many would benefit from it but it would lead us back to more abuse of the system. I, however, have three children myself. I have gratefully received UC in the past but as my income has grown I am currently no longer eligible.

With the addition of my youngest child, I will now be eligible for approximately £200 per month. I an a higher rate tax payer abd Icurrently pay over £1200 in income tax alone per month. I have to repay the majority of the child benefit I receive.

AIBU to claim what I am entitled to?

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Bellsbeachwaves · 28/11/2025 22:01

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 21:59

That's not far fetched if the 4 year old is in nursery and the older 2 go to before/after school care

Four year old at school, no?

THisbackwithavengeance · 28/11/2025 22:03

Jesus. I’m going to put in a claim tomorrow.

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:04

Bellsbeachwaves · 28/11/2025 22:01

Four year old at school, no?

Not everyone lives in England. Most children in Scotland are in nursery until 5 or almost 5.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 28/11/2025 22:05

Mrsblobby88 · 28/11/2025 21:59

You should do it

Technically might be classed as deprivation of capital if you are doing it to be entitled to UC.

Bellsbeachwaves · 28/11/2025 22:05

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:04

Not everyone lives in England. Most children in Scotland are in nursery until 5 or almost 5.

Fair enough.

numbandexhausted · 28/11/2025 22:10

Nah do it. If you’re entitled take it it benefits your family.

BurritoTamer · 28/11/2025 22:11

Empar · 28/11/2025 21:32

Anyone else wonder about all this universal credit paid to landlords through rent? It must be a HUGE amount. Lots of private equity and banks are becoming mega landlords, so we're effectively transferring huge amounts of taxpayer cash to billionaires. I'm actually more concerned about my tax going offshore to billionaires, than to disabled or hungry kids...

This is crazy I agree. I think most voters whether right or left would agree this needs sorting. A huge amount of benefits spend going straight to landlords. Bad enough when it’s some local guy, but this is quickly changing now Lloyds bank and others have created Private Rental Companies (Sitra). So now the taxpayer is funnelling money to banks via benefits, which benefit no actual person as that person never sees the money.

Can anyone answer me this, if someone say, has a wealthy landlord mother or father, and their own children under 3, can they move to their mother or father’s rental house and claim UC for the rent? This is obviously immoral but is it illegal, does it count as benefit fraud? As that individual would essentially get the equity paid through UC via their inheritance? This seems like an obvious loophole to me, how removed do you have to be from a landlord to claim housing element?

(No personal skin in the game btw! Not my situation at all)

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:13

Bellsbeachwaves · 28/11/2025 22:05

Fair enough.

But looking at the screenshot provided by the OP previously and assuming the calculations were based on 2 children because I don't think the calculators are there yet for when the 2 child cap is lifted, it shows £1550 for children which includes childcare costs. The current amount for child element for 2 is £585 which means childcare is £965. And the deduction for salary is £1633 which means the earned income is either less than the estimated £68k or there are substantial pension contributions because UC use net income not gross. I could do the calculation again but I'm tired 😂

bizkittt · 28/11/2025 22:14

MrsChrimbo · 28/11/2025 21:43

After reading this I have reached peak-benefit and I am done with peoples noses in the trough when they should be working or living within their means or just having one or two DC like the prudent rest of us.

Of course, go ahead and claim what you are entitled to.

Since you and others are getting money for free, you can pick up the slack for donations to the food banks, toy donations and for the homeless from now.

Honestly I don’t bother donating stuff as most of the people taking are better off than me

Bellsbeachwaves · 28/11/2025 22:15

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:13

But looking at the screenshot provided by the OP previously and assuming the calculations were based on 2 children because I don't think the calculators are there yet for when the 2 child cap is lifted, it shows £1550 for children which includes childcare costs. The current amount for child element for 2 is £585 which means childcare is £965. And the deduction for salary is £1633 which means the earned income is either less than the estimated £68k or there are substantial pension contributions because UC use net income not gross. I could do the calculation again but I'm tired 😂

🤣it's too mind boggling

CloudSky · 28/11/2025 22:16

On what planet should a higher rate taxpayer be entitled to UC?? And they wonder why the public are incensed!! 😡

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:16

BurritoTamer · 28/11/2025 22:11

This is crazy I agree. I think most voters whether right or left would agree this needs sorting. A huge amount of benefits spend going straight to landlords. Bad enough when it’s some local guy, but this is quickly changing now Lloyds bank and others have created Private Rental Companies (Sitra). So now the taxpayer is funnelling money to banks via benefits, which benefit no actual person as that person never sees the money.

Can anyone answer me this, if someone say, has a wealthy landlord mother or father, and their own children under 3, can they move to their mother or father’s rental house and claim UC for the rent? This is obviously immoral but is it illegal, does it count as benefit fraud? As that individual would essentially get the equity paid through UC via their inheritance? This seems like an obvious loophole to me, how removed do you have to be from a landlord to claim housing element?

(No personal skin in the game btw! Not my situation at all)

You actually can as long as you don't live with them and there's an actual proper legal tenancy agreement with the rent being paid just as it would be to any other landlord. They would most likely do a lot of checks on a situation like this.

nightmarepickle2025 · 28/11/2025 22:17

If benefits are so high, why are 31% of kids in the UK living in poverty?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/11/2025 22:18

nightmarepickle2025 · 28/11/2025 22:17

If benefits are so high, why are 31% of kids in the UK living in poverty?

How are they measuring poverty?

alldaybrunch · 28/11/2025 22:18

NotrialNodeal · 28/11/2025 19:27

How? Genuinely don't understand?! How would you be eligible? How much do you get? TIA!

not sure if the poster lives in london but it’s very easy to become eligible on higher income if you live in london because the rent (even the capped LA amount) and the childcare very quickly outweigh the 72k

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 22:19

BurritoTamer · 28/11/2025 22:11

This is crazy I agree. I think most voters whether right or left would agree this needs sorting. A huge amount of benefits spend going straight to landlords. Bad enough when it’s some local guy, but this is quickly changing now Lloyds bank and others have created Private Rental Companies (Sitra). So now the taxpayer is funnelling money to banks via benefits, which benefit no actual person as that person never sees the money.

Can anyone answer me this, if someone say, has a wealthy landlord mother or father, and their own children under 3, can they move to their mother or father’s rental house and claim UC for the rent? This is obviously immoral but is it illegal, does it count as benefit fraud? As that individual would essentially get the equity paid through UC via their inheritance? This seems like an obvious loophole to me, how removed do you have to be from a landlord to claim housing element?

(No personal skin in the game btw! Not my situation at all)

As long as they can prove the rental wasn’t purchased just to rent to them, yes. You can rent off a family member and claim UC.

So mum inherited grandads house, has one tenant in before you. They will pay.

BurritoTamer · 28/11/2025 22:19

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:16

You actually can as long as you don't live with them and there's an actual proper legal tenancy agreement with the rent being paid just as it would be to any other landlord. They would most likely do a lot of checks on a situation like this.

Thank you for clarifying. That’s mad, so no housing element for your own mortgage but yes for your family’s mortgage.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 28/11/2025 22:19

2x4greenbrick · 28/11/2025 21:23

For many, DLA/PIP alone does not cover the cost of disability related expenses. According to Scope’s latest disability price tag research, disabled households need an extra £1,095 each month on average to have the same standard of living as non-disabled households.

But what does the same standard of living mean? If I am working and take my DC on holiday, great, but that is not an expense that should be funded by the tax payers for those that can't afford it. Do dig in deep to the detail.

maddiemookins16mum · 28/11/2025 22:21

And yet most of MN don’t believe it when posters say ‘I know someone on (enter huge income amount here) who gets UC).

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 22:22

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:13

But looking at the screenshot provided by the OP previously and assuming the calculations were based on 2 children because I don't think the calculators are there yet for when the 2 child cap is lifted, it shows £1550 for children which includes childcare costs. The current amount for child element for 2 is £585 which means childcare is £965. And the deduction for salary is £1633 which means the earned income is either less than the estimated £68k or there are substantial pension contributions because UC use net income not gross. I could do the calculation again but I'm tired 😂

I aged up my youngest so it would calculate the amount for him. As per the deduction for earnings that not quite. I only contribute 5% to my pension.
Monthly gross is 3937
3937-648 =3289
3289x0.55=1806

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Rewis · 28/11/2025 22:22

You should claim what you're entitled to. As long a you dont lie in the application or game the system (claim to live alone, fake divorce etc.), you should claim whatever you can.

BananaramaDefence · 28/11/2025 22:29

2x4greenbrick · 28/11/2025 21:23

For many, DLA/PIP alone does not cover the cost of disability related expenses. According to Scope’s latest disability price tag research, disabled households need an extra £1,095 each month on average to have the same standard of living as non-disabled households.

Not quite seeing your point here, as in that case working might not cover the extra cost of disability either?

littleorangefox · 28/11/2025 22:30

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 22:22

I aged up my youngest so it would calculate the amount for him. As per the deduction for earnings that not quite. I only contribute 5% to my pension.
Monthly gross is 3937
3937-648 =3289
3289x0.55=1806

Oh ok! Makes sense.

Either way, crack on. If you're entitled then you're doing nothing wrong.

Bellsbeachwaves · 28/11/2025 22:32

I guess in this case it's like a childcare cost help. Which is no bad thing.

PeonyPatch · 28/11/2025 22:33

Benefits Britain