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National Service returning to the UK?

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TheQuirkyMaker · 27/11/2025 11:23

Due to the threat of Russian aggression and US indifference, Europe is having to re-arm. France is going to re-introduce national service (compulsory conscription of youngsters into the armed forces for 2 years). Am I right in thinking UK young people won't accept this?

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WalkDontWalk · 27/11/2025 13:31

My Dad, a copper who (like all coppers back then) started on the beat, achieved very high rank by the time he retired. He'd missed compulsory National Service by about a month.

He did however encounter many men who joined the police after their spell in the services. And he had very strong views concerning the benefits accrued by the young men who'd gone through it.

His take was, "The only thing any of them seemed to have learned was how to get away with doing as little as bleedin' possible."

CautiousLurker2 · 27/11/2025 13:44

ILoveHotChocolates · 27/11/2025 11:31

I would leave before serving this country

Am sure Russia would be happy to have you 👍

usedtobeaylis · 27/11/2025 13:46

If it's voluntary it's fine. If it's coerced it's not. If it's not voluntary it'll end up in the courts.

DonicaLewinsky · 27/11/2025 13:47

France aren't doing compulsory national service and nor will the UK. Quite apart from anything else, neither the army nor any other institution or sector that people sometimes suggest has shown any indication of wanting it.

NellieJean · 27/11/2025 13:55

It hasn’t been suggested. It isn’t wanted by the Armed Services. It would be resisted by most young people. It’s not really worth discussing.

Wallywobbles · 27/11/2025 13:58

I’m in France and my peers did national service here. At least they all know how to clean, tidy, socialize with people from any social group, work as a team. They made friends for life. It might not make them independent but it makes them less useless as individuals.

TheQuirkyMaker · 27/11/2025 21:58

NellieJean · 27/11/2025 13:55

It hasn’t been suggested. It isn’t wanted by the Armed Services. It would be resisted by most young people. It’s not really worth discussing.

Maybe not worth discussing here, but war has already come to Europe. We (meaning everyone living in a liberal democracy) are never prepared as we believe it is a return to a brutal past, but the countries on Russia's borders are preparing. With Trump siding with Putin, the drum beat gets louder.

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TofuEater · 27/11/2025 22:05

WalkDontWalk · 27/11/2025 13:31

My Dad, a copper who (like all coppers back then) started on the beat, achieved very high rank by the time he retired. He'd missed compulsory National Service by about a month.

He did however encounter many men who joined the police after their spell in the services. And he had very strong views concerning the benefits accrued by the young men who'd gone through it.

His take was, "The only thing any of them seemed to have learned was how to get away with doing as little as bleedin' possible."

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My father did national service between school and university. He was of exactly the same opinion as your dad

DuchessofStaffordshire · 27/11/2025 22:09

Fat chance. We shall have to admit defeat and welcome our invaders with a nice pot of borscht and a decent bottle of vodka.

Genevieva · 27/11/2025 22:12

France only ended conscription relatively recently. I know when I left school my parents’ son in France had to do it.

ProfessorDrPrunesqualer · 27/11/2025 22:15

My penfriends in France all did national service so not that long ago and they will be the parents of young adults now
We don’t have that memory in the majority of our population and may be harder to accept

Nevertheless if it was introduced it’s not something you can easily get out of. So people would just have to do it and as a parent whose kids had to do ccf it’s not a bad thing
I would imagine parents and children would rather they were Better trained and more prepared

Wildbushlady · 27/11/2025 22:18

After seeing the kind of support available and veneration for veterans in this country... over my cold dead corpse would I allow my son to risk it all for it.

Kuretake · 27/11/2025 22:22

TwoMintsLoose · 27/11/2025 12:40

Considering the issues of male violence, lack of respect etc, I think it could be the making of many young men.

If you think military service stops male violence I politely suggest you go and hang out in (or better, just outside) some squaddie pubs on a Saturday night.

KimuraTan · 27/11/2025 22:23

Voluntary in Germany till June next year and if not enough young people sign up it will be made compulsory. Hope they do. Those who won’t do it should lose their citizenship. Stand up and serve your country. If you can’t find it in you - please leave.

And before anyone starts crying about not wanting to handle arms - you can do your national service in old people’s homes, child care, disabled assisted living etc.

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 27/11/2025 22:23

I don’t want my sons sent into Europe to fight an unwinnable war. Not in my name.

KimuraTan · 27/11/2025 22:23

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 27/11/2025 22:23

I don’t want my sons sent into Europe to fight an unwinnable war. Not in my name.

It’s national service - not conscription FGS

LondonPapa · 27/11/2025 22:27

TheQuirkyMaker · 27/11/2025 11:23

Due to the threat of Russian aggression and US indifference, Europe is having to re-arm. France is going to re-introduce national service (compulsory conscription of youngsters into the armed forces for 2 years). Am I right in thinking UK young people won't accept this?

Regardless of the alleged threat from Russia, national service is a very good way of ensuring our children learn to do the basics for themselves and not rely on mum and dad for everything. I knew kids at uni who’d somehow gotten through life without using a washing machine. Basic life skills are good.

Fernticket · 27/11/2025 22:33

ILoveHotChocolates · 27/11/2025 11:31

I would leave before serving this country

Off you jolly well go then😁😁

Dollymylove · 27/11/2025 22:38

My sons served in the armed forces over the past 20 years. Both deployed to Iraq/Afghan
Left because in their words "its gone all fluffy and woke"

Pleasealexa · 27/11/2025 22:42

Wildbushlady · 27/11/2025 22:18

After seeing the kind of support available and veneration for veterans in this country... over my cold dead corpse would I allow my son to risk it all for it.

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Would you support him fighting if the UK was invaded?

I think very few people would be prepared to defend the UK but what would be the alternative..A life like Russia?

Modern warfare has changed so I'm not sure our island status will help, as it did in WW2. Our defences are very weak and no USA fo back us so if Russia was determined then we could face a threat unlike any other tike in history.

I understand from friends who work in the defence sector a war in Europe is no longer a remote possibility...scary thought

TheQuirkyMaker · 27/11/2025 22:45

LondonPapa · 27/11/2025 22:27

Regardless of the alleged threat from Russia, national service is a very good way of ensuring our children learn to do the basics for themselves and not rely on mum and dad for everything. I knew kids at uni who’d somehow gotten through life without using a washing machine. Basic life skills are good.

I spent 4 years in the TAVR (part time voluntary reserve). I learnt to drive heavy armored vehicles and memorably had a meal in the Black Forest cooked by army chefs consisting of fine steak, braised veg and chips garnished with herbs when our tank broke down and needed repairs.
It was amazing seeing REME lifting the turrets off our tanks and carrying out repairs in a forest miles from civilization!
Like the NHS, the British Army at it's best is superb!

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ProfessorDrPrunesqualer · 27/11/2025 22:47

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 27/11/2025 22:23

I don’t want my sons sent into Europe to fight an unwinnable war. Not in my name.

Why do people keep focusing on sons!

This won’t be just for sons it will be for so sons and daughters.
That’s equality

It’s also worth noting military service isn’t just training to fight abroad it’s also for defence and protection services

CoralPombear · 27/11/2025 22:47

I think it could benefit certain youngsters who aren’t doing very much of anything else. I don’t understand people saying they wouldn’t fight for the country, when it comes down to it you’d have to either fight or be killed surely?

Dollymylove · 27/11/2025 22:48

Wildbushlady · 27/11/2025 22:18

After seeing the kind of support available and veneration for veterans in this country... over my cold dead corpse would I allow my son to risk it all for it.

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Need help after leaving service?
Struggling with PTSD, addiction issues?
Mental health?
Don't bother asking the big armed forces charities .......

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 27/11/2025 22:51

Sunita1234 · 27/11/2025 12:52

UK is not a patriotic country anymore. We don't teach love for your country at school - this is something rather to be ashamed of due to the colonial history. This is in contrast to e.g. Eastern Europe where they really understand and feel the threat and patriotism has been always embedded in the school curriculum. I remember in high school we had a subject called 'Civil Defence' and we learnt how to create an effective resistance movement during an occupation, how to use a gas mask and when we turned 18 we were taken once day to a shooting range in a forest where everybody was given a cadet rifle and practiced shooting. People are also taught to be strong and resilient and always fight an enemy because others' lives might depend on you, so a different mindset totally. That was 20 years ago, state school, post Soviet block. I guess we would have to start from this here before even dreaming about our young people willing to risk their lives for their country.

You can't "teach" love for or, pride in your country. That's indoctrination, popular in places like the USSR, DDR, Nazi Germany etc.

If you feel an affinity with the place you were born/live, good for you, but it's an utterly nonsensical notion in the first place. People don't choose where to be born, it's accident of birth, so being "proud" of it is no less ridiculous than being "proud" of having naturally brown hair, or being "proud" of being 5'2"

"Patriotism" is an illness, not a virtue.