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Shop won't refund or exchange faulty toaster!

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AcorgicalledTiffany · 26/11/2025 22:15

So about six weeks ago I went to DC's school as they were holding an autumn fair. I bought a book of raffle tickets, £5 in total, and later found out I had won a prize. All prizes had been donated by local businesses for free advertising I suppose, not sure how they got involved but there we are.

I won a brand new four slice toaster, it said on the label it was "worth" £49 and had been donated by a local hardware shop. All was ok until last week when one side of the toaster stopped holding the bread down. So I took it back to the shop where it had originally come from. Man in the shop said there was absolutely nothing he could do as it was a gift to the school, which I really wasn't happy about. He said I could try contacting the manufacturers, so I went home and called them and they said no way could they do anything as this toaster had been out of production for almost FIVE years!!!

So back I went to the hardware shop and told this to the man, I was really cross by now as it was obviously some old stock he'd given away which he admitted it was, he said it was something he'd had in the stockroom for sometime and that he hadn't had such expensive toasters for sale for a while as nobody seemed to buy them, all of this of course is not my problem. The only thing he said he would be prepared to do for me would be to order me a new toaster and sell it to me at the cost price, he showed me the suppliers catalogue and the cheapest one he could get that is anything like this was over £30, so obviously I told him no.

I am really peed off about this as he got free advertising for his shop only its backfired now! As I will be telling people to avoid the place. But why should I lose out?

OP posts:
Patchedupsocks · 27/11/2025 15:24

IsThisTheWaytoSlamMyPillow · 27/11/2025 13:52

I feel your pain @AcorgicalledTiffanyOP - my DP won a haircut at our school fete for a newly opened barber’s shop. It was so humiliating - he’s been bald for years. The barber refused to swap it for a cash equivalent - he said “it’s the luck of the draw mate”. Honestly, the cheek of it! So many people laughed as DP went up to collect the ‘prize’. We were both devastated and left shaking and sobbing.

The Head ignored my repeated complaint calls, as did the Chair of the PTA. The whole school What’s App message I sent was met with abuse. People just don’t care although one very kind parent offered to give me the £1 back, which I gratefully accepted, but I had to take all the children over an hour on 3 buses to go and collect it because she wouldn’t deliver it to me - not very kind.

We were so disgusted by this whole debacle that we withdrew our children immediately and now home educate. You should do the same, it’s so unacceptable.

Great piss 😄 As a matter of interest - asking for a friend -does anyone actually shake and sob on MN anymore?

Hankunamatata · 27/11/2025 15:25

Anyone else thinking no good deed goes unpunished.

Bet business owner wont be donating to the school again.

Patchedupsocks · 27/11/2025 15:25

Great piss take ffs🙄

jumpingthehighjump · 27/11/2025 15:30

Patchedupsocks · 27/11/2025 15:24

Great piss 😄 As a matter of interest - asking for a friend -does anyone actually shake and sob on MN anymore?

I don't think they dare!

Dogmum1983 · 27/11/2025 15:33

Patchedupsocks · 27/11/2025 15:24

Great piss 😄 As a matter of interest - asking for a friend -does anyone actually shake and sob on MN anymore?

Imagine being such a wet lettuce you’re devestated and left sobbing and shaking coz you couldn’t use something you’ve won !

I’ve read it all on here now between these 2 posters!!! Talk about tight as a ducks arse …

Meanwhile in the REAL WORLD there’s kids going without Christmas presents scrap that there’s kids spending Xmas without their families … let that sink in when you’re being self obsessed about a bloody toaster and a haircut …

Social media atm makes me hate being a human coz of the selfishness of other people .

Blarn · 27/11/2025 15:35

If you had gone into the shop with a big smile, explained the situation and then said, "I don't suppose you know anyone who could fix it do you?" you may have gotten somewhere. He could have said that he'd take a look, or a mate of his might be able to or maybe he would have said oh dear, well as you are so polite and pleasant to speak to let me exchange it for something else, not as expensive but you still have you £1 raffle prize toaster and you both would have had a nice social interaction.

Instead you have come across like a tit.

surreygirly · 27/11/2025 15:48

Member869894 · 26/11/2025 23:20

Frankly, you sound like a loon.

Edited

hahahhahahaha
A Major Loon
hahahaha

Patchedupsocks · 27/11/2025 16:08

I hoping Isthisthewaytoslammypillow is going to tell us something else funny.

ThejoyofNC · 27/11/2025 16:48

Dogmum1983 · 27/11/2025 15:33

Imagine being such a wet lettuce you’re devestated and left sobbing and shaking coz you couldn’t use something you’ve won !

I’ve read it all on here now between these 2 posters!!! Talk about tight as a ducks arse …

Meanwhile in the REAL WORLD there’s kids going without Christmas presents scrap that there’s kids spending Xmas without their families … let that sink in when you’re being self obsessed about a bloody toaster and a haircut …

Social media atm makes me hate being a human coz of the selfishness of other people .

I'm pretty sure that poster was being sarcastic. Well, I hope so.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 27/11/2025 17:10

Surely shaking and sobbing is for wimps. Being refused a refund for a raffle prize, should make you snap and fart.

RedFlagsAllOver · 27/11/2025 17:20

For a fiver I would probably be a bit miffed but would let it go.
Reminds me of my sons school summer fete where he came out with a bit of paper advertising some local electrician and it said he would kindly be donating ice-cream to all the children.
I asked my son the following day and he didn't know anything about free ice-cream.

Snakebite61 · 27/11/2025 18:28

AcorgicalledTiffany · 26/11/2025 22:15

So about six weeks ago I went to DC's school as they were holding an autumn fair. I bought a book of raffle tickets, £5 in total, and later found out I had won a prize. All prizes had been donated by local businesses for free advertising I suppose, not sure how they got involved but there we are.

I won a brand new four slice toaster, it said on the label it was "worth" £49 and had been donated by a local hardware shop. All was ok until last week when one side of the toaster stopped holding the bread down. So I took it back to the shop where it had originally come from. Man in the shop said there was absolutely nothing he could do as it was a gift to the school, which I really wasn't happy about. He said I could try contacting the manufacturers, so I went home and called them and they said no way could they do anything as this toaster had been out of production for almost FIVE years!!!

So back I went to the hardware shop and told this to the man, I was really cross by now as it was obviously some old stock he'd given away which he admitted it was, he said it was something he'd had in the stockroom for sometime and that he hadn't had such expensive toasters for sale for a while as nobody seemed to buy them, all of this of course is not my problem. The only thing he said he would be prepared to do for me would be to order me a new toaster and sell it to me at the cost price, he showed me the suppliers catalogue and the cheapest one he could get that is anything like this was over £30, so obviously I told him no.

I am really peed off about this as he got free advertising for his shop only its backfired now! As I will be telling people to avoid the place. But why should I lose out?

People moaning at you but maybe he gave a dodgy toaster in the first place.

Rosesanddaffs · 27/11/2025 18:49

IsThisTheWaytoSlamMyPillow · 27/11/2025 13:52

I feel your pain @AcorgicalledTiffanyOP - my DP won a haircut at our school fete for a newly opened barber’s shop. It was so humiliating - he’s been bald for years. The barber refused to swap it for a cash equivalent - he said “it’s the luck of the draw mate”. Honestly, the cheek of it! So many people laughed as DP went up to collect the ‘prize’. We were both devastated and left shaking and sobbing.

The Head ignored my repeated complaint calls, as did the Chair of the PTA. The whole school What’s App message I sent was met with abuse. People just don’t care although one very kind parent offered to give me the £1 back, which I gratefully accepted, but I had to take all the children over an hour on 3 buses to go and collect it because she wouldn’t deliver it to me - not very kind.

We were so disgusted by this whole debacle that we withdrew our children immediately and now home educate. You should do the same, it’s so unacceptable.

This is hilarious 😂 I can’t stop laughing 🤣

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 20:45

Rosesanddaffs · 27/11/2025 18:49

This is hilarious 😂 I can’t stop laughing 🤣

I don't understand why they didn't just send the money back by bank transfer rather than making her collect it. That's just petty.

OP posts:
HamptonPlace · 27/11/2025 20:58

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 20:45

I don't understand why they didn't just send the money back by bank transfer rather than making her collect it. That's just petty.

Thank you OP for a thread that has provided a wonderful lively diversion for many people 🍿

iliketobereasonable · 27/11/2025 21:14

At the bottle tombola at the school fair, every year without fail, we win something that is undrinkable - think a 15 year old screw top white wine or a can of lager that went out of date two years ago. Should I be demanding my pound back? 🤷‍♀️ We think the dodgy prizes are all part of the fun, pour them down the sink and get on with our day, and drink any decent stuff we happen to win!
What a fuss about nothing.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 27/11/2025 21:44

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 27/11/2025 09:17

Indeed. I haven't seen them for a few years, but some local fetes used to have stalls whereby you could win a car - an actual brand new car - if you threw 6 sixes in one throw.

Obviously it drew an enormous amount of interest and huge publicity for the local dealership that supplied the car. In reality, the odds of winning were infinitesimally tiny - and the garage would usually buy insurance against somebody winning it - but if you did beat the odds, you would indeed become the owner of that brand new car.

As you say, if luck was on your side - and they then brought out a beaten up ancient jalopy as your 'prize' instead of the shiny new car they had displayed and offered - I can't see many of the people on this thread just accepting it nonchalantly.

Edited

Talk about a false equivalency

OP wasn't shown a toaster as a prize and then didn't win that. She won the item as advertised

You've drawn some absolutely bonkers conclusions including that the shop had been given the toaster back as a return from an arsey customer and he'd then decided to offload this used toaster to the raffle....

AcademyFootball · 27/11/2025 21:48

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 00:05

It was older than that. The manufacturer said it was out of production almost five years, so goodness only knows how long he'd had it for.

What are you looking for here OP. A free toaster from today of equivalent standard!
The maximum loss you can say you’ve incurred is the price of the raffle ticket.

JudgeJ · 27/11/2025 21:52

Bungle2168 · 26/11/2025 22:25

Yes. Demand that five pounds back! You go, girl!

The £5 was probably for 5 strips of 5 tickets so the toaster only cost her 1 of these 25 tickets, 20p, shall we start a Go Fund me page?
Running raffles and so on is a thankless nightmare and I speak from experience, on the Tombola stall, 5 goes for £1 people argue that they don't want that prize, they want this, I've had to stop people swapping tickets stuck on the prizes! Roll on December 7th when it'll be over.

JudgeJ · 27/11/2025 21:55

iliketobereasonable · 27/11/2025 21:14

At the bottle tombola at the school fair, every year without fail, we win something that is undrinkable - think a 15 year old screw top white wine or a can of lager that went out of date two years ago. Should I be demanding my pound back? 🤷‍♀️ We think the dodgy prizes are all part of the fun, pour them down the sink and get on with our day, and drink any decent stuff we happen to win!
What a fuss about nothing.

Please come to my stall on December 6th! Our raffle has a hideous thing I won about 4 years ago, it gets won and then donated to the next raffle. No doubt it will appear next Saturday.

bignewprinz · 27/11/2025 21:57

Any mumsnetters about with a dream of opening and running a little shop? Hygge Tygge.
Bookmark this thread.
Who'd want to deal with the fucking public!

Pricelessadvice · 27/11/2025 21:59

This has got to be a wind up… or is that a pop up

ItsABarbecueShowdown · 27/11/2025 22:05

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 20:45

I don't understand why they didn't just send the money back by bank transfer rather than making her collect it. That's just petty.

🤯

Tourmalines · 27/11/2025 22:10

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 27/11/2025 21:44

Talk about a false equivalency

OP wasn't shown a toaster as a prize and then didn't win that. She won the item as advertised

You've drawn some absolutely bonkers conclusions including that the shop had been given the toaster back as a return from an arsey customer and he'd then decided to offload this used toaster to the raffle....

I know . Talk about reaching !

Isittimeformynapyet · 28/11/2025 00:23

AcorgicalledTiffany · 27/11/2025 20:45

I don't understand why they didn't just send the money back by bank transfer rather than making her collect it. That's just petty.

Bless your heart OP. That poster was joking 💐