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'Mansion tax' - what if you just can't pay it?

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shellinthesea · 26/11/2025 14:39

My elderly mum lives in a London house worth about 2million. She's been there for over 50 years, and is physically and mentally fragile. There is no way she would EVER want to move, the house and her neighbours are her whole world. She has no spare money - at all. (Neither do I, before anyone suggests this!) How is she supposed to manage this? It's not exactly her fault that the value of the property increased so much since my parents bought it all that time ago.

I also have a friend, also in London. Both parents sadly died in an accident about 15 years ago, and she used her inheritance to buy a family home which has also increased massively in value. It's probably also worth over 2 million now! She's a single mum on a lower income with 3 kids who very happy at their local school and within their community - what's she supposed to do?

It's just not as simple as 'you live in a high-value house, you can obviously afford to pay several grand a year' as RR seems to think. And for anyone who is about to say 'oh tiny violin, their houses are worth two million' - both of these situations are complicated and quite sad in many ways. Neither my mum nor my friend can simply just sell up and move...anyone have any thoughts on this?

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JennyWrenSeven · 27/11/2025 06:21

CombatBarbie · 26/11/2025 14:44

I find it all odd and clearly targeting London and home counties. I pay 3.5k a year council tax for a £180,000 house.

Really? I live in Cheshire and house prices in some parts will most definitely fall into this bracket! So it’s not just a Southern’ third world problem! 🙄

messybutfun · 27/11/2025 06:29

ProcrastinatorsAnonymous · 27/11/2025 01:23

I’m sorry, but this thread is driving me bonkers. Post after post points out that she can presumably release equity so she can stay there, but those arguing against the tax just don’t seem to acknowledge that bit?

It makes me wonder if the real issue is people who have waited all their lives for an inheritance feeling butt-hurt that when it finally comes, it might be a bit smaller.

The debt will reduce the size of the estate but also inheritance tax, so effectively deferring means you will only pay 60% of the mansion tax.

In fact, the saving is likely to be substantially more because you start losing the residential nil rate band from £2m and the debt may just give some of it back.

JustMyView13 · 27/11/2025 06:30

user1492757084 · 27/11/2025 04:04

Equity release to pay a new tax is unfair if that tax paid is not then deducted from the Capital Gains Tax owed when the house is sold.

A person should be able to leave their legally paid for house to their family. An additional tax could increase so much as to erode the value of the house until it leaves Op's mother giving most of her home, by default, to people on Social Security or to migrant housing.

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CGT is not payable on your main residence though, so in this scenario it’s not an issue.

VaccineSticker · 27/11/2025 06:46

MollyScout · 26/11/2025 20:05

This 👆

no. We are skint as a country because the gov has squandered the money and mismanaged it.
The rich pay already pay too much tax, and they are already leaving the country.
the rich pay more tax more than I’ll ever earn.

If they want to create wealth in this country, then they need to attract, help and encourage businesses into and within the Uk.

You don’t create wealth by taxing people. This is just recycling money that’s already in the system. Stop parrot repeating labour’s one tricky pony argument.

Sexentric · 27/11/2025 06:51

GaIadriel · 27/11/2025 02:03

I'd not be too keen on selling my house to pay increased taxes which are in part due to a situation caused by lazy fuckers that don't want to work and people that have more kids than they can afford and expect others to pick up the tab.

I could save thousands a year by taking cash payments and not declaring all my earnings as could loads of people in trades/self employment. I choose to pay my share out of principle but my goodwill towards this government is fading fast.

Suck it up and pay you say? No thanks. Get a job or retrain in something that pays better and pay for yourself because I won't be.

People keep quoting this nonsense but the biggest expense is pensions and healthcare for an aging population. Not people having too many kids!

PersephoneParlormaid · 27/11/2025 06:56

There’s a large house in our village, think Lord of the Manor style, and it’s falling down. The owner (never married, loner) won’t sell as it’s his ‘ancestral home’ but he’s so short of money that he shoplifts in the village. It’s a sad situation really.

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 06:57

@VaccineSticker how did the previous government encourage wealth & growth? wage stagnation & lack of investment hasn’t made us or the country richer.

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 06:58

People keep quoting this nonsense but the biggest expense is pensions and healthcare for an aging population. Not people having too many kids!

Why is there such a reluctance to acknowledge this?

SALaw · 27/11/2025 07:01

How does she pay for the upkeep of an aging £2m home if she has zero spare cash? It surely costs and so she must have some money?

harrietm87 · 27/11/2025 07:02

Citygrl7 · 27/11/2025 01:56

I think the issue many who are commenting on that ‘it’s sad but she will have to move and get £2m’ is: who is going to buy this property for £2m? Has anyone seen what is happening to the property market in this country let alone, London? She will not be able to sell. It’s not that simple. This is a chain reaction that fundamentally makes all worse off in the long run. Short term, helps the poorest, long term (not so long term): even those sort of ok but not really that wealthy won’t be ok and the ones who, like OP’s mother are kind of asset rich but cash poor, won’t even be able to take out what they should have earned through a life time of home investment to pass to their children - what is the actual impact then on the poorest in society longterm if there’s no wealth being put in? Not great. And that’s nothing to say of the emotional stress of moving out of your home after so many years. No matter how much it’s worth, home is home. We are living on streets in London with so much crime, no postcode is safe. Just look at rightmove: properties are staying stagnant for months. It’s not good guys …

So many wrong assumptions here - a lifetime of home investment - no, she had a house to live in through her entire life, where she was happy and comfortable. Its increase in value had nothing to do with her “investment” but simply a product of government mismanagement. Even if its value dropped by 50% she’d be passing on huge wealth to her children.

It’s been said so many times that the tax can be deferred until her death or the house is sold, so it won’t affect OP’s mother at all. OP’s huge windfall will be reduced by a tiny amount.

As for the impact on the poorest in society, they would absolutely benefit from cheaper house prices.

MontyDonsBlueScarf · 27/11/2025 07:03

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 06:58

People keep quoting this nonsense but the biggest expense is pensions and healthcare for an aging population. Not people having too many kids!

Why is there such a reluctance to acknowledge this?

Perhaps because it's completely irrelevant to the question the thread opened with?

opencecilgee · 27/11/2025 07:07

get a lodger . Even in London, £2m is not a small
house

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 07:08

@MontyDonsBlueScarf how is it irrelevant when we are discussing the budget & tax risss?

opencecilgee · 27/11/2025 07:09

I don’t believe this thread is true

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 07:11

@MontyDonsBlueScarf did you also miss where posters are arguing that the OPs mum will be funding the “feckless” to have more dc? How is that more relevant then the ageing population?

opencecilgee · 27/11/2025 07:11

If someone poor owns a £2m house, they can sell
up and go somewhere cheaper/

London is hugely diverse. You get £2m houses and cheaper houses in the same catchment areas. So no need up root, change schools

opencecilgee · 27/11/2025 07:15

Your friend gas owned her house for 15 years. It’s worth over £2m

so she bought it in 2015. What did she pay? £1.5mil?

mellongoose · 27/11/2025 07:16

I’d much rather they’d started on the massive public sector pension pot rather than pick people like your lovely mum, OP. So short sited.

Southernecho · 27/11/2025 07:16

opencecilgee · 27/11/2025 07:09

I don’t believe this thread is true

Yep, people are just making stuff up, next will be "i can't afford to use my Tesla and will starve because of new EV mileage tax"

DoBestIKnow · 27/11/2025 07:20

shellinthesea · 26/11/2025 23:20

There’s so many spiteful attitudes on this thread. My mother will only be ‘living beyond her means’ because her house increased to such a crazy value - and now this government have decided that, despite her paying tax when she bought it, paying tax over her whole working life (not to mention the tax that will be paid when she eventually dies), that’s not enough.

Yes, I know she HAS a home and many don’t. I know that there are people living in poverty and it seems appalling that anyone with such an asset could struggle. But no, she can’t magic up more money to pay it (some people don’t seem to understand that), and yes - the move in itself (if it comes to that - hopefully not if one can indeed defer) would be massively, massively detrimental to her.

In her eyes, she’s not ‘sitting on 2 million’. She’s sitting in the only place she feels safe as she approaches the end of her life. It would be much better if the house were worth far, far less and she could remain there.

I understand her position is quite unique - but it sickens me how this government seem unwilling to levy taxes on the super rich (‘because they don’t want them to leave’) but will introduce policies like this one.

When you get to that age, you can’t just go and get a better paid job or promotion. Like I will have to, she’ll have to pay it from her pension. Sorry about being old.

Southernecho · 27/11/2025 07:21

mellongoose · 27/11/2025 07:16

I’d much rather they’d started on the massive public sector pension pot rather than pick people like your lovely mum, OP. So short sited.

The LGPS is self funding and actually makes money for the Govt.

A Band 5 healthcare worker earns £7000 less than the UKs average wage, even with 4 years experience, still £4000 below - but you want to cut the only so called benefit they get?

Christmascarrotjumper · 27/11/2025 07:21

PersephoneParlormaid · 27/11/2025 06:56

There’s a large house in our village, think Lord of the Manor style, and it’s falling down. The owner (never married, loner) won’t sell as it’s his ‘ancestral home’ but he’s so short of money that he shoplifts in the village. It’s a sad situation really.

That's not sad. It's pig headed and irresponsible.

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 07:23

@mellongoose so what would you do to public sector pensions? The really good schemes have been closed to new entrants for years, it’s today’s pensioners that have got those.

mellongoose · 27/11/2025 07:24

ledmeup · 27/11/2025 07:23

@mellongoose so what would you do to public sector pensions? The really good schemes have been closed to new entrants for years, it’s today’s pensioners that have got those.

I’m not sure but given how socialism is about redistribution, it seems strange that these remain untouched by the Chancellor.

HPFA · 27/11/2025 07:24

opencecilgee · 27/11/2025 07:09

I don’t believe this thread is true

I'm having my doubts as well.

When I checked Rightmove for my own town (which is an expensive one) I couldn't even find any listings for houses over £2 million.

I just don't believe there are all these modest little houses that originally cost peanuts.

And the anguish displayed for people who might have to downsize to a million pound house is in sickening contrast to the indifference shown towards younger people who cant afford a homr in the first place.

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