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'Mansion tax' - what if you just can't pay it?

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shellinthesea · 26/11/2025 14:39

My elderly mum lives in a London house worth about 2million. She's been there for over 50 years, and is physically and mentally fragile. There is no way she would EVER want to move, the house and her neighbours are her whole world. She has no spare money - at all. (Neither do I, before anyone suggests this!) How is she supposed to manage this? It's not exactly her fault that the value of the property increased so much since my parents bought it all that time ago.

I also have a friend, also in London. Both parents sadly died in an accident about 15 years ago, and she used her inheritance to buy a family home which has also increased massively in value. It's probably also worth over 2 million now! She's a single mum on a lower income with 3 kids who very happy at their local school and within their community - what's she supposed to do?

It's just not as simple as 'you live in a high-value house, you can obviously afford to pay several grand a year' as RR seems to think. And for anyone who is about to say 'oh tiny violin, their houses are worth two million' - both of these situations are complicated and quite sad in many ways. Neither my mum nor my friend can simply just sell up and move...anyone have any thoughts on this?

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BadgernTheGarden · 26/11/2025 15:04

Bushmillsbabe · 26/11/2025 14:59

It's scheduled to come in mid 2028. We will have another election by mid 2029 and I doubt at this rate labour will get back in. So might be for a year only, and she has 2 years to prepare for it and figure out a plan.

Once taxes are in they rarely get removed again. It's free money for the new government of whatever colour, something they won't get stick for.

hiintrepidheroes · 26/11/2025 15:05

I logged on to MN to see if there was an ‘oh no I can’t afford increased tax on my mansion’ thread yet and wasn’t disappointed.

We need more investment in infrastructure, schools, NHS etc and the money needs to come from somewhere. I have no sympathy for people in huge homes complaining about higher tax, especially when they were bought at a fraction of the price.

rafeal · 26/11/2025 15:05

hopefully they will allow this to be offset until the current occupier leaves either due to death or sale.

I think overall it’s not a bad tax though. I have plenty to say about the rest of the budget.

woulducouldushouldu · 26/11/2025 15:05

frozendaisy · 26/11/2025 14:49

There you go @shellinthesea nothing for her to worry about, bit of extra paperwork for the solicitor and she can carry on living where she is and bill be settled from her estate eventually.

No one needs to be evicted.

No it’s effectively a surcharge to your existing council tax

itsanothernamechangeone · 26/11/2025 15:05

Yeah agree with others, it’s tough but it has always been the case that if you can’t afford the bills on your home, you have to move, whether you want to or not. Obviously there are some cases like this where that isn’t ideal but with 2 million of equity, she can move somewhere pretty nice

Snowonground · 26/11/2025 15:06

Slinketypokey · 26/11/2025 14:46

It’s hard and I’m sure I’ll get a kicking for saying this but…

we’re skint. As a country we’re skint. The NHS is on its knees. Schools are on their knees. Our armed forces are underfunded and Russia potentially marching in.

The money has to come from somewhere. And everyone agrees we have all these problems to solve but when it comes to them having to pay they don’t like it.

Reality is, if she can’t afford it she’ll either have to move or get a lodger. Both options suck, I agree. But people dying on stretchers outside A&E departments also suck. Violent offenders getting released early from jail because we can’t afford to keep them in sucks. A lot of things suck. And in the scheme of things people being pushed, via taxation, to vacate big properties and free them up for families is one of the things that suck less than other things, though I appreciate massively impactful if you are impacted.

For my part I hope this is the push for my elderly parents to move to a smaller more manageable home rather than rattling around a big house they don’t even go into parts of one year to the next.

I think people might be less angry about it if the Budget was fair to everyone. But it isn't. Benefits are going up, paid to those that dont work by those that do work, often for low pay.

Alpacajigsaw · 26/11/2025 15:06

Sell her house and buy a cheaper one. Plenty of people have to do just that even in older age.

Wompet · 26/11/2025 15:07

Maybe they could just downgrade to a 1 million pound mansion? Poor darlings.

ShesTheAlbatross · 26/11/2025 15:08

BadgernTheGarden · 26/11/2025 15:04

Once taxes are in they rarely get removed again. It's free money for the new government of whatever colour, something they won't get stick for.

Yes, a lot of the time (not always of course) the opposition will rant on about how bad of an idea something is, but when they get in, it mysteriously becomes not a priority to reverse.

blackpooolrock · 26/11/2025 15:08

conquer and divide again.

Lets pitch people against each other over an imaginary amount of money.

Don't you see this is what they do with everything... get rid of these governments is the best way forward.

AutumnLeavesandKnittedJumpers · 26/11/2025 15:09

Snowonground · 26/11/2025 15:06

I think people might be less angry about it if the Budget was fair to everyone. But it isn't. Benefits are going up, paid to those that dont work by those that do work, often for low pay.

The largest benefit is the pension.

Lostlittlegirl · 26/11/2025 15:10

nightswimming1 · 26/11/2025 14:47

she can postpone the payment until the house is eventually sold; this was very clear in the budget.

doesn’t come in until 2028 anyway as will
take years to revalue all the homes….

Labour won't be in government either.

HeadyLamarr · 26/11/2025 15:10

@Slinketypokey is right, we're skint and the previous government asset-stripped the country for all it was worth.

If we want school and hospitals and infrastructure, we have to pay more tax.

blackpooolrock · 26/11/2025 15:11

Slinketypokey · 26/11/2025 14:46

It’s hard and I’m sure I’ll get a kicking for saying this but…

we’re skint. As a country we’re skint. The NHS is on its knees. Schools are on their knees. Our armed forces are underfunded and Russia potentially marching in.

The money has to come from somewhere. And everyone agrees we have all these problems to solve but when it comes to them having to pay they don’t like it.

Reality is, if she can’t afford it she’ll either have to move or get a lodger. Both options suck, I agree. But people dying on stretchers outside A&E departments also suck. Violent offenders getting released early from jail because we can’t afford to keep them in sucks. A lot of things suck. And in the scheme of things people being pushed, via taxation, to vacate big properties and free them up for families is one of the things that suck less than other things, though I appreciate massively impactful if you are impacted.

For my part I hope this is the push for my elderly parents to move to a smaller more manageable home rather than rattling around a big house they don’t even go into parts of one year to the next.

The country is skint because of the mismanagement around the money they collect from us. If they done the right thing and didn't give away or waste £billions then we wouldn't be in this situation.

The reality is that the government can print money when they want to... we aren't skint. The money system is an illusion created to keep normal people poor.

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 15:12

Not sure if this has been said, but there will be an option to defer and pay when you sell. It will be a tiny dent in a £2m house compared to IHT.

pottylolly · 26/11/2025 15:13

Your mum will have 3 years to sell it.

Another76543 · 26/11/2025 15:13

blackpooolrock · 26/11/2025 15:08

conquer and divide again.

Lets pitch people against each other over an imaginary amount of money.

Don't you see this is what they do with everything... get rid of these governments is the best way forward.

Quite. It’s a populist policy. It looks good to say “oh look, we are tax the wealthy, that’ll show ‘em”. In reality it raises very little (if anything). It’s projected to raise £400m per year. It’s a tiny amount in the overall scheme of things. It has nothing to do with raising money and everything to do with trying to win votes.

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 15:14

Lostlittlegirl · 26/11/2025 15:10

Labour won't be in government either.

Labour will be in till 2029 actually.

Minty25 · 26/11/2025 15:14

crystal90210 · 26/11/2025 14:43

Equity release?

Yes I was going to suggest the same. I don't normally think equity release is a good thing to fund holidays and things but if it keeps someone in their home when they wouldn't otherwise be able to stay there I think it's probably a sensible option especially when a property is worth 2 million and there's likely to still be huge amounts of equity when the tile comes to sell.

WaryCrow · 26/11/2025 15:14

I don’t have a lot of sympathy for the older generation “who don’t want to move” to be honest.

I didn’t want to be forced into moving 3 times in 4 years while private renting either (thankfully I’m not in private rentals at the moment). I didn’t want to be given various shit choices of different colours of mould on the walls and different lies from the landlord about what caused it, naturally the tenants not the building and upkeep. I didn’t want to be in a position where working, even having worked up to median wage at one point, did not pay the cost of owning a house of my own and forced me to pay the cost of 3 for an idle rich landlord. I never wanted to be working full time with kids to be honest, much less full time + extra to be able to afford a holiday and extras at Xmas, frantically overpaying a mortgage i should have been able to afford years earlier. Nor move out of my region where I was living and working to a new one myself because it was the only way to get a mortgage at all, losing my career in the process.

Why have the neverending wants and entitlements of that generation always always always been prioritised over the needs of those below? Why have their wants grown as our needs have been ignored?

TallulahBetty · 26/11/2025 15:14

TwinkleTwinkleLittleBatgirl · 26/11/2025 14:49

If ‘just move’ was posted re someone complaining about ‘bedroom tax’ they’d be flamed and reported and probably banned!

Thus is suggested every single day.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 26/11/2025 15:15

latetothefisting · 26/11/2025 14:46

Of course they can just sell up and move! It might not be "simple" but buying/selling houses isn't simple for anyone!

Sorry but millions of people have to move away from their family and friends who are "everything" to them because they simply can't afford to live in their dream area - and they aren't living in 2 million houses while they do so!

Your mum could look into an equity release scheme, sell some stuff to make up the £2500, take in a lodger, you (and any siblings) could pay the money on her behalf given you will presumably inherit millions. If she's so physically and mentally frail that she cannot possibly move house then how much longer will she be able to live there alone anyway?

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Why should they have to do that in order to stay in the family home?

That house has been bought and paid of with money already taxed.

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 26/11/2025 15:15

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 15:12

Not sure if this has been said, but there will be an option to defer and pay when you sell. It will be a tiny dent in a £2m house compared to IHT.

This.

I can't afford to live where I grew up - house prices are too high - that's life.

My own DMum may have to downsize at some point due to logistics and living costs - she doesn't have a two million pound asset to back her up and give her more choices - not even a one million pound house or even close.

There's also time to plan before it comes in - so pleanty of time to make decisions.

Snowonground · 26/11/2025 15:15

AutumnLeavesandKnittedJumpers · 26/11/2025 15:09

The largest benefit is the pension.

Triple lock should have gone. Our kids are being shafted by ever greater debt being piled on. It's extraordinary.

Another76543 · 26/11/2025 15:15

HeadyLamarr · 26/11/2025 15:10

@Slinketypokey is right, we're skint and the previous government asset-stripped the country for all it was worth.

If we want school and hospitals and infrastructure, we have to pay more tax.

“If we want school and hospitals and infrastructure, we have to pay more tax.”

Tinkering around the edges with policies like this never raises enough though. We need a lot more people paying a bit more tax. 1p on basic rate income tax or VAT would have raised billions. Targeting a tiny percentage of the population doesn’t raise enough.

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