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'Mansion tax' - what if you just can't pay it?

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shellinthesea · 26/11/2025 14:39

My elderly mum lives in a London house worth about 2million. She's been there for over 50 years, and is physically and mentally fragile. There is no way she would EVER want to move, the house and her neighbours are her whole world. She has no spare money - at all. (Neither do I, before anyone suggests this!) How is she supposed to manage this? It's not exactly her fault that the value of the property increased so much since my parents bought it all that time ago.

I also have a friend, also in London. Both parents sadly died in an accident about 15 years ago, and she used her inheritance to buy a family home which has also increased massively in value. It's probably also worth over 2 million now! She's a single mum on a lower income with 3 kids who very happy at their local school and within their community - what's she supposed to do?

It's just not as simple as 'you live in a high-value house, you can obviously afford to pay several grand a year' as RR seems to think. And for anyone who is about to say 'oh tiny violin, their houses are worth two million' - both of these situations are complicated and quite sad in many ways. Neither my mum nor my friend can simply just sell up and move...anyone have any thoughts on this?

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Bunnycat101 · 26/11/2025 16:55

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 16:45

Pensioners should be protected after working hard and paying in their whole lives. Your kids have a lifetime ahead of them to make a success of their themselves without robbing granny.

I really disagree with this. I think it was wrong to raise the pension when everyone else is having tax thresholds frozen and most likely restricted wage growth. There is now way I’m getting a 4.8% pay rise next year. I’ll be lucky to get 2%.

I also don’t think you can play out a narrative of all pensioners having worked hard all their life. I just don’t think that’s true. My own mother worked for a maximum of 6-7 years before having children and never went back to work. I’ve worked much harder than she ever did.

Jeschara · 26/11/2025 16:55

Slinkyminky22 · 26/11/2025 14:41

Why can they not just sell up and move?

Why, because it is her home, she has support, she has friends. She is frail. Shut up with your why can't she move. It's a idiotic thing to say.

the80sweregreat · 26/11/2025 16:56

A lot of ex council homes where I was brought up are going for 500 k plus , they are nothing special tbh.
All this was mooted in the 1980s with the great council home sell off, but people just saw ££ and many moved away and made a mint. Not everyone ( my parents and in-laws didn’t ) but it’s all added to the rising costs of home ownership for people from more modest backgrounds etc. A double edged sword.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 26/11/2025 16:56

DorisTheFinkasaurus · 26/11/2025 14:51

I think it’s so unfair. Your mum didn’t purchase a £2million house. And yes, it makes such sense to sell and downsize but the emotional damage and stress is real. She shouldn’t be coerced by a system into doing this. It should be her choice.
I sold my £1.4 million house (I didn’t buy a £1.4 million house but mine became that over the years). It’s not all about making money and sitting on profits. Your parents bought a family home, a forever home, not an asset. People in my former neck of West London did nothing but talk about their home as an asset, endlessly doing up their homes, raising their kids on a building site then not having play dates because they don’t want to mess up the palace. Inflated property prices have people feeling resentful towards people like your mum and there will be plenty who will delight in taxing the ‘wealthy’, only they’re actually asset rich and through no doing of their own. Your mum shouldn’t be forced out of her home because of a shortsighted policy. I’m not in agreement with this whatsoever because there are so many people like your mum out there who will be shoehorned into living situations they don’t want.

This sort of thing makes me impatient. You didn't buy your house for £1.4m but you presumably got a very large sum when you sold it, even if you had to pay off what was left on the mortgage and/or use a fair chunk to buy another home. You can surely see that having that amount of money is an amazing asset, which most people won't have. It's a windfall. You did absolutely nothing to earn it. Why shouldn't a small part of it be used to benefit other people through the tax system?

shellinthesea · 26/11/2025 16:56

@GasPanic - what are you on about?! I don't know anyone whose salary has increased that much in a decade!

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Bunnycat101 · 26/11/2025 16:56

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 16:45

Pensioners should be protected after working hard and paying in their whole lives. Your kids have a lifetime ahead of them to make a success of their themselves without robbing granny.

I really disagree with this. I think it was wrong to raise the pension when everyone else is having tax thresholds frozen and most likely restricted wage growth. There is now way I’m getting a 4.8% pay rise next year. I’ll be lucky to get 2%.

I also don’t think you can play out a narrative of all pensioners having worked hard all their life. I just don’t think that’s true. My own mother worked for a maximum of 6-7 years before having children and never went back to work. I’ve worked much harder than she ever did.

Happyjoe · 26/11/2025 16:58

DorisTheFinkasaurus · 26/11/2025 14:51

I think it’s so unfair. Your mum didn’t purchase a £2million house. And yes, it makes such sense to sell and downsize but the emotional damage and stress is real. She shouldn’t be coerced by a system into doing this. It should be her choice.
I sold my £1.4 million house (I didn’t buy a £1.4 million house but mine became that over the years). It’s not all about making money and sitting on profits. Your parents bought a family home, a forever home, not an asset. People in my former neck of West London did nothing but talk about their home as an asset, endlessly doing up their homes, raising their kids on a building site then not having play dates because they don’t want to mess up the palace. Inflated property prices have people feeling resentful towards people like your mum and there will be plenty who will delight in taxing the ‘wealthy’, only they’re actually asset rich and through no doing of their own. Your mum shouldn’t be forced out of her home because of a shortsighted policy. I’m not in agreement with this whatsoever because there are so many people like your mum out there who will be shoehorned into living situations they don’t want.

She doesn't have to move. It can be paid later, whenever the house is sold. Plus, not coming in for a few years. So no need to pack her bags, just yet.

Loloj · 26/11/2025 16:59

She won’t need to sell up. If she can’t afford it, any accrued payments will be taken from her estate when she dies.

GasPanic · 26/11/2025 16:59

shellinthesea · 26/11/2025 16:56

@GasPanic - what are you on about?! I don't know anyone whose salary has increased that much in a decade!

Strange, because that's approx. the amount of salary you would need to get a £2mill house at 4x income.

Comtesse · 26/11/2025 17:00

I don’t think it’s an unreasonable step to introduce this. Lots of countries tax assets in this way. There will time to figure out a solution before it is implemented.

cupfinalchaos · 26/11/2025 17:00

AutumnLeavesandKnittedJumpers · 26/11/2025 14:48

Tough. Sell up.

Almost as though you wish it on those awful hard workers who’ve done well.

Another76543 · 26/11/2025 17:00

Snowonground · 26/11/2025 16:04

Do you think there is a bank account or fund containing everyone's NI payments which build up and correspond to the pension they are eventually paid? Bad luck if so.

The state pension can be changed or abolished by the government if needed. (Unlike public sector pensions which are contractual...lucky public sector workers...).

No I don’t. I was responding to a poster who said it isn’t a contributory based system. It is.

fruitbrewhaha · 26/11/2025 17:01

Monster6 · 26/11/2025 14:42

I feel the budget is very short sighted. This is a good example. I also feel for graduates who will not have a 4% rise in their meagre salaries. No point in uni debt for 2/3 thousand more per yr than a minimum wage job. Very shortsighted and a bit…dim

What salary is that?

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 26/11/2025 17:02

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/11/2025 15:56

@ChardonnaysBeastlyCat I'll save my shame for families living in mouldy one bed flats or people living on the streets in London TBH

Is shame a finite resource? Is empathy? Maybe you can spare some for the ones who will be hit by today's budget.

the80sweregreat · 26/11/2025 17:04

I wish that any government ( it won’t be this one) does something really radical about home prices.
Im definitely not holding my breath and I’m really not jealous at all, but if someone could make it a more level playing field , wouldn’t that be a great thing ? Not sure how it could happen, but it wouldn’t be popular with many I’m sure, but just make things a bit fairer all round maybe ?

WestwardHo1 · 26/11/2025 17:05

ChristieMcVie · 26/11/2025 16:43

The very rich who can afford the mansion tax (or pass to on to tenants) and who will swoop in to bag a bargain. Pushing out the aspirational middle class who want to upgrade to a nicer area or a bigger property in exchange for their time and efforts in the workforce, but can't stretch to an additional penalty every year for doing so.

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But given the proliferation of 2 million pound houses in London and the south East, and the fact that the "very rich" are going to be penalised for living in one, will there be enough of these very rich to go round?

Thechaseison71 · 26/11/2025 17:07

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/11/2025 16:46

@Thechaseison71 FFS it is not about "mansions" it is about value. Yes £2M gets you less space on Holborn than the outer Hebrides, so what? It is still a property worth £2M.

Then the " mansion" tax is a misnomer

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/11/2025 17:09

Yes. Yes it is.

WeirdChicken · 26/11/2025 17:10

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion, but if the mansion tax leads to a general downturn in property prices in london/ SE surely that’s no bad thing?

Unaffordable housing benefits barely anyone in the long term, except a few landlords, professional investors and inheritors.

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/11/2025 17:10

Bless you - did you think it was a tax based on having a large house, regardless of value 😆

AutumnLeavesandKnittedJumpers · 26/11/2025 17:10

WestwardHo1 · 26/11/2025 17:05

But given the proliferation of 2 million pound houses in London and the south East, and the fact that the "very rich" are going to be penalised for living in one, will there be enough of these very rich to go round?

Oh no

property prices might fall. What a shame

Thechaseison71 · 26/11/2025 17:10

Thankyourose · 26/11/2025 16:53

OP how big is this house? How’s your DM looking after it?
I don’t think anyone on here believes that someone living in a house worth that amount, and coping with the cleaning, repairs etc somehow will be unable to afford a property tax on it.

But it could be small. Where did the OP say it was a big house

Wickedlittledancer · 26/11/2025 17:11

The posters relishing this are really dismaying, it really is the politics of envy.

crossstitchingnana · 26/11/2025 17:14

Move. Christ if I was on my arse then I would have to down-size. Why do people in mansions need special treatment??

Bikergran · 26/11/2025 17:14

Slinkyminky22 · 26/11/2025 14:41

Why can they not just sell up and move?

For the reasons given in the original post!

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