And then older people dont seem to acknowledge the unfairness in a lot of cases, and you often hear people suggesting that if young people just worked a bit harder or didn't take a holiday/ buy coffees they'd be able to afford a house. When its clearly due to the fact that property prices have risen out of all proportion to wages.
Yes and no to this. I know this is not going to be popular, but I think there is a grain of truth in this.
They key to buying a house is getting a decent deposit and there is no doubt that young families now spend a heck of a lot more on what my generation (50+) would class as unnecessary.
I'm not talking about the odd cup of coffee or the famous avocado, but day-in, day-out spending that past generations just didn't do. Off the top of my head, eating out, takeaways, 'experiences', activities, dressing-up, new toys, more exotic food, newer cars (I walked past a nursery recently in a pretty rundown part of town, and I couldn't believe the size of the cars parked outside, all max 2 years old), home furnishings, soft play, using heating more (I didn't even know heating overnight was a thing until the energy crisis), holidays, short breaks, days out .... the list goes on. All of which - if MN is to be believed anyway - are considered pretty much standard lifestyle now.
So while I would never say that ditching takeaway coffee is the simple route to saving thousands, the cost of lifestyle creep does add up.
Now I know I will get some flack for this, but I do think expectations are so much higher now and, while all of these things were available 20-30 years ago, they were not as commonplace or expected as they are now.
And to be fair, taking holidays and then moaning because you can't afford to save up to buy a house is a bit rich!