Hello,
so me and my partner have been together for nearly 3 years, never had any issues with family etc until now. So we’ve been quite close with his brother this last year and it’s been nice, however, I was at the football 2 weeks ago and I was sat next to his brother and my partner on the other side. Partners brother pulled out his phone and I just glanced over because I saw him move in the corner of my eye, I usually would look away however I saw my name in a message with his new girlfriend who doesn’t know me and curiosity got the best of me lol, he was saying things to her which made me seem to be a weirdo like “ has asked me to do DIY” which, I didn’t, I made a joke about getting him to do some but he left out context, and then another message off him said “ touched my leg” I didn’t touch it like to touch it I slapped his knee as part of a joke, so both were left out of context and her replies were like “maybe she wants to watch you do DIY” and “fuck* why?????” And asked if the knee touching was a regular occurrence or a one off, and then said it’s weird she’s asked you to do it and not (boyfriend), there was so much context left out of what he said, baring in mind his girlfriend has never met me so she probably already thinks I’m a weirdo. So anyway I didn’t say anything because I thought well whilst I haven’t done anything wrong I shouldn’t have read the messages lol but I saw my name so how can I not!!?? I spoke to my bf about it and he pulled him up on it a week or so later when I wasn’t there and he said he was saying things about me to his new girlfriend who’s only been with him for like 2 weeks because I annoyed him, he was annoyed with something I’d told my partner which had nothing to do with him he’d just overheard the conversation, the messages never indicated being annoyed but in my eyes as if he was disgusted and couldn’t understand why I was there. So anyway hes asked for the last 2/3 matches if his girlfriend could have the ticket I have been using for a year. So I feel like maybe he’s attempting to push me out so his new girlfriend can have the ticket and go instead of me, am I wrong for feeling like this? I thought we had a good relationship but he’s just made me out to be a weirdo and I just don’t get it