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To miss the simple tasty Christmas food of my childhood.

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NotSoGloriousFood · 24/11/2025 21:02

I'm old enough to remember Christmas family gatherings when mum didn't have the option of going to Iceland or M&S and everyone pitched in.
Simple but tasty spreads of homecooked meats, cheese, uncle Kens legendary pickled onions, Aunty's Gloria's beetroot chutney, Mary's green tomato chutney and pickled red cabbage, cheese (usually cheddar and Caerfilly) and homemade pasties and sausage rolls. Crisps were ready salted.
It was tasty, wholesome and real.
Desserts were all homemade. chocolate cakes, mince pies, trifle, Christmas cake.
Simple food shared together......no-one could forsee then what food would become.........ultra processed with long lists of ingredients.
I watch some of the Christmas food adverts with a heavy heart and wonder what we have done to food.

OP posts:
Kirbert2 · 25/11/2025 22:26

BlueEyedBogWitch · 25/11/2025 22:09

I’m lucky, I do have a fair bit of time. I did the cakes this Sunday just gone, which took all afternoon. The mincemeat only takes a couple of hours, though.

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and that will be a big difference for some people, they don't have a whole afternoon spare just to make cakes or a few hours just for mincemeat.

You are lucky that you have all of that time and of course, the family who can enjoy it too.

TrishM80 · 25/11/2025 22:53

When you think about it, most traditional Christmas food is rotten. That's why people only ever eat it at Christmas!

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 25/11/2025 23:31

Well, I married into a close-knit extended family, with lots of women and men who enjoy cooking and all pitch in, and the food is mostly home made because we like it that way. But that's what works for us. I can't imagine that most shove in the oven Christmas mains and sides are tremendously more processed or less healthy than the home-made equivalent - it's the crisps and chocolates you need to watch for UPF if you ask me - and I would be tremendously grateful for any meal that was prepared for me as a guest on Christmas Day anyway.

MasterBeth · 25/11/2025 23:32

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 25/11/2025 21:45

Weird comment stating the obvious. But recently I have lost family and several friends and it makes me sad.

I am very sorry for your loss.

I expect that that is more relevant to your sadness than the rise of ultra-processed foods.

GarlicHound · 26/11/2025 00:18

Oh, I long for the traditional Christmas! Start the day with meat pies, bought fresh and steaming from the pie man as he makes his early rounds with seasonal cheer! A penny a pie, or tuppence for prime beef with porter gravy.

We had figs and pomegranates from the Christmas Eve market, picked up by the children on their way home from the factory. I always told them to look for the stallholders packing up early at six of the evening, so they'd get a good price, and to give a farthing to a beggar for good will through the festivities.

There were mince pies after the church service, made by spinsters of the parish in their almshouse. Walking back home in our starched finery, our boots polished like mirrors, the scent of roasted chestnuts mingled in the crisp air with tantalising aromas of roast capons, onion stuffing, golden roast potatoes and parsnips. We filled our basket, most years, for less than half a crown and what a feast we did enjoy!

The big spiced pudding I'd bought earlier in the week would be simmering in the pot on the fire, filling the house with fragrances of India and Ceylon. We fired it with a spoon of rum and served it with clotted cream, squeezing our stomachs full until all was eaten bar the capon's bones and the chestnut skins.

On Boxing Day I simmered those bones with the skins for our penance soup, though I will confess to adding a ha'penny's worth of ham shavings and some bread crusts to give it body.

What's a UPF? And why do you cook for yourselves? If you have a kitchen, surely you also have a cook or at least a maid?

Fends · 26/11/2025 01:01

BlueEyedBogWitch · 25/11/2025 22:09

I’m lucky, I do have a fair bit of time. I did the cakes this Sunday just gone, which took all afternoon. The mincemeat only takes a couple of hours, though.

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Oof you’ve left that late!

Green tomato chutney sounds rank OP. I can’t believe anyone is diving in for that first

nomas · 26/11/2025 01:29

Fends · 26/11/2025 01:01

Oof you’ve left that late!

Green tomato chutney sounds rank OP. I can’t believe anyone is diving in for that first

Sounds nice to me, tangy.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 26/11/2025 04:23

Fends · 26/11/2025 01:01

Oof you’ve left that late!

Green tomato chutney sounds rank OP. I can’t believe anyone is diving in for that first

What can I say, I live life on the edge 😂

BlueEyedBogWitch · 26/11/2025 04:28

Kirbert2 · 25/11/2025 22:26

and that will be a big difference for some people, they don't have a whole afternoon spare just to make cakes or a few hours just for mincemeat.

You are lucky that you have all of that time and of course, the family who can enjoy it too.

I’m very lucky in that way, not so lucky in others.

I absolutely don’t judge anyone, by the way. I only do Christmas this way out of preference and a bit of nostalgia. I make things my mum made (who had zero time, but somehow managed).

And you will find a festive tube of Pringles or three for the sons, and a tub of Celebrations. Gotta be done!.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 26/11/2025 04:33

I realise I sound insufferably smug. I’m not, usually. I think Christmas brings out the twat in me 😂

Ralphiethedog · 26/11/2025 04:42

LOVING the hallmark card style poems!!!

Lobelia123 · 26/11/2025 05:30

So smug and judgy!! Let people celebrate as they see fit

GreyCarpet · 26/11/2025 07:38

These threads are popping up all the time now.

Just because shops sell stuff, you don't need to buy it.

I've always made my own chutneys etc Christmas dinner done from scratch etc. I've never bought preprepared veg or frozen roast potatoes even when I was a full time working single parent with zero family support.

If you want a simple, homemade Christmas dinner- have one!

TheRealMagic · 26/11/2025 09:41

I make my own Christmas cake every year, which I love doing and for me is an essential part of Christmas. It is very much a luxury, though. It doesn't take that long of actual labour, but it costs an absolute fortune between ingredients and energy costs for the long bake in the oven. Also, I think a homemade Christmas cake tastes great, but I'm not sure how much health benefit I get from avoiding the UPFs in a bought one - it's still not exactly a healthy option to eat a cake full of sugar and booze! Lots of fibre from the dried fruit, though...

Lobelia123 · 26/11/2025 10:41

I would just add . .. these things are nostalgic and can often be special and delicious and show individuality and skill ....but I also have a back shelf in my pantry filled with artisan jams and chutneys from food hampers and markets that are never used because theyre just too arty and niche....the flavour combinations whil einventive and different, are just too wacky for my rather conservative tastes...

Wickedlittledancer · 26/11/2025 11:58

I’m really bemused by threads like this, where you miss something you can easily have.

it’s like posting, oh I really miss walking round my garden
mumsnet, oh have you moved house or something up with the garden?
op, no no it’s all as it was.
mn, do you have mobility issues.
op, oh no I can walk l just fine. I just miss walking round my garden,
mn, then why don’t you.
op, well I can’t be arsed really.

Catsbreakfast · 26/11/2025 11:58

Bland, tasteless food is available for you if you want it. No ones forcing you.

magicalmadmadamim · 27/11/2025 10:40

BatchCookBabe · 24/11/2025 22:46

Oh dear @NotSoGloriousFood 😆You started this thread in the hope it would go down memory lane with a few splashes of nostalgia, and a few heartwarming tales from the past from people. All you've got is snide and sarcastic remarks, like 'wot's stopping you having fresh food, and pickles and the like NOW?' And 'yes I really want crappy meat in a tin that's full of jelly and shit, from some random country! NOT!' And 'we never had cornish pasties at Christmas, what the hell are you on about?!' Confused

This would have been better put on the Christmas board.

I get where you're coming from though. Flowers

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This mad me laugh!
People are so bitter.

Somethingneedstochange78 · 15/12/2025 00:08

I have bought mine pre prepared since 2020. 2019 DD ended up being rushed to hospital when she had her first seizure. Most of our half cooked Christmas dinner ended up in the bin. Last year DS had a seizure while we were half way through our Christmas dinner so what was left of his ended up on the floor. It doesn’t always go to plan but we have to try and make the best of it. He ended up having some toast later on when he was up to it. Didn’t even want any dessert. But he did make up for it the next day. Judge me all you want I don’t give a shit. Convenience food is great when you don’t want their routines disrupted too much.

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