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Disposing of sanitary products when staying at someone else's home.

208 replies

Motheroffive999 · 24/11/2025 20:10

Twice this has happened now.
Heavy period whilst staying with friends and relatives.
Tampons don't suit me so I use towels and for the first 24 hours my period is heavy.
Where are you supposed to dispose of them , the two families only have a kitchen bin , no other bins in the house.
Also they have a white sofa and the other has a light pink one , so I was concerned about leaking on the sofa.
I have had a scan , hysterscopy and they were not concerned about my periods, I don't have to change them every hour liked the doctor mentioned.
It's just awkward

OP posts:
MeridaBrave · 24/11/2025 20:59

I’d put them in a plastic bag in my room and put them in the outside wheelie bin each time I left the house.

re: bins in bathroom - we’ve tried that but guests have left unwrapped pads. Which is gross. And often means need to remember to empty bins, if all house residents use moon cups or similar it’s not second nature to even check the bins.

MeridaBrave · 24/11/2025 21:00

InfoSecInTheCity · 24/11/2025 20:52

I have bins next to the toilets and it wouldnt even cross my mind to look at the contents, I just take the bag out when it’s full and put it in the outside bin. Why is everyone so bothered about putting sanitary towels in bins, surely that’s exactly where they should be put and no one would have an issue with the bin being used the way a bin is supposed to be used.

Imagine opening bin and there is an unwrapped pad, not even rolled up. Yuck.

Nannyfannybanny · 24/11/2025 21:04

You can get bio degradable doggy bags..

Hellohelga · 24/11/2025 21:04

Dog poo bag knotted, then in kitchen bin. Or if you’re self conscious ab kitchen bin collect in another plastic bag and take away with you.

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 24/11/2025 21:12

I think for me it would depend on the people I was with. Assuming there’s a female there I’d probably ask them. If I felt less comfortable I’d bag them in nappy sacks and carrier bag. I’d worry they’d smell though.

it’s a shame we have deal with all this!!

id not use a bathroom bin though - that’s smaller and people emptying would come closer to it?! So if there’s an option then kitchen or wheelie

caringcarer · 24/11/2025 21:14

VainAbigail · 24/11/2025 20:14

In a nappy bag (or similar) and straight in their wheelie bin.

This and wear secur period pants too.

pizzaHeart · 24/11/2025 21:15

Bigearringsbigsmile · 24/11/2025 20:14

I wear towels plus period pants, sleep on a bed mat that I take with me and either take disposal bags, tie them up tight and take them home with me to put in my own bin or take them to the outside bin- also tied up in disposal bags.

That’s me too^

Stillpoor · 24/11/2025 21:17

I always have nappie bags in my bag.
I dont have a bathroom bin either, i cant deal with emptying it with other peoples used pads or tampons, its normal but not something i dont want to do.

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:18

Don't put them in an inside bin in someone else's house. Put them in a bag and walk all the way to the outside bin. If it's night secure bag till morning and then outside bin.

Notmymarmosets · 24/11/2025 21:19

I would never be happy to leave bodily fluids for someone else to dispose of. I get rid of period products in exactly the same way as a bloody dressing, an incontinence pad, or a used condom. By bagging them securely and taking them home with me.

wnyaadbify · 24/11/2025 21:21

I wrap them up in the wrapping they come in and then they go in a ziploc bag and I take them home with me.
A bigger problem for me is worrying about leaking on sheets etc so I sleep on my own towel.

Letthemeatgateau · 24/11/2025 21:21

Sunshinesmon · 24/11/2025 20:48

But do guests ever use it for that purpose?

I'm sure you are happy to empty it, but are your guests happy to let you?

Of course, that's what I said in my post.

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:21

Pepperedpickles · 24/11/2025 20:32

I really don’t see why people make such an issue out of this. Just wrap them up well and put them in the kitchen bin, surely?! We don’t have bathroom bins because it’s just more bins for me to empty. We have a bin in the kitchen and that’s it. It’s a large ish 30 litre proper bin, no one is going to see anything intimate wrapped and popped in there.

How far away is your wheelie bin? Would it really be that difficult for people to put them in the wheelie bin? Same with nappies, my own kids nappies went outside don't know why I'd want someone else in my kitchen

Ivesaidenough · 24/11/2025 21:28

Erm. Not everyone has an "outside" bin. We don't.

TimeForATerf · 24/11/2025 21:28

Thank god I am post menopause. I would have never left used sanitary protection in someone’s bathroom bin and always bagged them and taken them home or disposed of in the outside bin if well hidden. Nor would I want a bin for this purpose in my bathroom. I don’t have any bathroom rubbish other than dental floss and toilet roll tubes which I put in the kitchen bin, after use.

each to their own, but used pads left the bathroom is pretty yuk to me.

Makingsenseofitall · 24/11/2025 21:28

If people put things in my outside bin that are not in a bin liner the dustbin collectors don’t take them. So I end up having to fish them out and put them into a black bin liner myself. I’d soooo much rather people just put them well wrapped up (probably in a nappy bag type thing) in my own kitchen bin. I second use of period pants as a back up device and something to sleep on (even an old towel will do).

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:30

Ivesaidenough · 24/11/2025 21:28

Erm. Not everyone has an "outside" bin. We don't.

So do the dustmen come in collect your rubbish?

Eggsbaconsausage · 24/11/2025 21:30

So if you use period pants what do you do about the sodden pants when staying somewhere. Would you bag them up and take them home to wash at home 4-5 days later? Would they not stink?

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:31

TimeForATerf · 24/11/2025 21:28

Thank god I am post menopause. I would have never left used sanitary protection in someone’s bathroom bin and always bagged them and taken them home or disposed of in the outside bin if well hidden. Nor would I want a bin for this purpose in my bathroom. I don’t have any bathroom rubbish other than dental floss and toilet roll tubes which I put in the kitchen bin, after use.

each to their own, but used pads left the bathroom is pretty yuk to me.

Yes yuk and double yuk to have them in your kitchen.

ThePoshUns · 24/11/2025 21:31

Like others I would wrap up and take home . I don’t have periods anymore but use pee pads. I take those home as wouldn’t dream of leaving in someone else’s inside bin to empty, even if wrapped .

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:32

Eggsbaconsausage · 24/11/2025 21:30

So if you use period pants what do you do about the sodden pants when staying somewhere. Would you bag them up and take them home to wash at home 4-5 days later? Would they not stink?

I'd wash them in the bathroom, squeeze them out and put them in a waterproof bag. If id got the car with me they'd go in the boot.

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 24/11/2025 21:32

Ivesaidenough · 24/11/2025 21:28

Erm. Not everyone has an "outside" bin. We don't.

what do the refuse collectors collect??

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 24/11/2025 21:33

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:31

Yes yuk and double yuk to have them in your kitchen.

You know periods are natural right?!

might not be ideal but there’s not much of an alternative. Taking them home maybe but more than two nights they’d start to smell.

InfoSecInTheCity · 24/11/2025 21:35

MeridaBrave · 24/11/2025 21:00

Imagine opening bin and there is an unwrapped pad, not even rolled up. Yuck.

I don’t get why it would be an issue. It’s exactly where it’s supposed to be and there is no need to touch it so there’s no yuck factor.

TheignT · 24/11/2025 21:35

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 24/11/2025 21:33

You know periods are natural right?!

might not be ideal but there’s not much of an alternative. Taking them home maybe but more than two nights they’d start to smell.

Shit and vomit are also natural but I don't want them in my kitchen. Outside in the bin.

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