I've been seeing my boyfriend for around a year now. In the start things were great but over the past month or so things have took somewhat of a turn. He has recently started a new job which i understand can be quite a stressful change but i feel like our dynamic is starting to become quite unhealthy. He's become quite distant and evasive, he's creating arguments over nothing and getting very nasty in the process and we've barely spoken outside of arranging to meet or arguing. He said a lot of things that in some way has dimmed the way I look at him and myself.
On wednesday, I accidently left my phone at home when I went to work, cue 2 days of being ignored off him, then a message yesterday afternoon asking to meet to talk. I stupidly went and things were fine, ended up staying the night. However, the second we woke up it went back to being ignored again and feeling like i was a bit of a spare part. I started getting ready to leave and he suddenly started showing interest again, insisted he was making us lunch, initiated sex and stuck a film on whilst proceeding to talk about how we wont see or speak to eachother again until saturday when he will take me out for a birthday lunch and I will meet his children.
AIBU to think this is all just some kind of mind game, am I just too needy or is he stressed from the change with working? Any advice would be really appreciated.