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To think free birthing should be entirely banned

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StandFirm · 22/11/2025 11:13

I have come across this article earlier which made me feel so very angry at the cynical extremists who brainwashed a mum into an entirely avoidable tragedy: https://www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2025/nov/22/free-birth-society-linked-to-babies-deaths-investigation
If I'd listened to similar cretins, I would have died in childbirth aged 19 and none of my three DCs would have been born alive or at the very least without severe disabilities. 'Pearls of wisdom' which gave me the rage include:
-ultrasounds are not safe
-women’s “bodies do not grow babies that we cannot birth”
Such ignorant perfidious lies. I hope the cult leader gets sent down for a very long time. That poor little child was robbed of a healthy body and many more actually died. I really hate the internet's ability to spawn dangerous cults entirely unchecked.

Influencers made millions pushing ‘wild’ births – now the Free Birth Society is linked to baby deaths around the world

A year-long investigation reveals how mothers lost children after being radicalised by uplifting podcast tales of births without midwives or doctors

https://www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2025/nov/22/free-birth-society-linked-to-babies-deaths-investigation

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Clonakilla · 20/06/2026 10:03

I don’t think silencing people helps. It doesn’t work. For many people reactions like that simply add weight to the idea that these idiots are ‘truth tellers’ being hounded by the medical establishment.

People are entitled to be as stupid and gullible as they wish. Once the baby is born, if it survives, there are (some) limits to the extent to what parents can prioritise their own right to be stupid over their child’s safety,

It remains the case that many parents harm their children due to their misguided faith in their own intelligence. I’ll never forget the conversations I’ve had with parents who didn’t vaccinate their child and lived with the consequences forever. I think of one unvaccinated child on ecmo everytime there’s a thread about the flu vaccine. In this, as in antenatal care, punishments and banning just drive unscrupulous non-evidence-based practitioners underground where they gain even more fame to those determined to be fools.

Laurmolonlabe · 20/06/2026 11:21

Mrsnothingthanks · 20/06/2026 09:52

@Laurmolonlabe There are no increased risks for home birth for subsequent, low risk pregnancies.
And many, many advantages.
It's worth looking at the research on this.
As someone who had two hospital births (NHS) and then a homebirth with an IM, I know that my planned home birth was by far the safest.
With NHS maternity services how they are currently, I personally wouldn't want a hospital birth unless of course there was justification as to why e.g. no longer in the low risk category.

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To be honest I'm surprised because home birth is still discouraged and if the extra risks were zero l doubt that would be the case,lack of midwives wanting to work this way could explain it however.

Daisies10 · 20/06/2026 11:28

I think freebirthing is a terrible idea but I don't think it should be illegal because I don't trust the police not to go after some women who freebirthed by accident because they didn't get to hospital in time

Mrsnothingthanks · 20/06/2026 12:57

@Laurmolonlabe Are you UK? Homebirth is absolutely not discouraged, why would it be? No idea where you got that from!
For subsequent low risk pregnancies the risks are no greater than in hospital. That's fact. Also look up the advantages. Do a bit lf looking around on the Internet if you like.

JHound · 22/06/2026 11:42

How would you ban it? You cannot force a woman into hospital to give birth?

LordofMisrule1 · 22/06/2026 11:47

You just can't save some people from themselves. And it's awful an innocent baby gets caught up in it, but while they're still in utero it's the woman's body and choice.

There are endless resources online showing how dangerous freebirthing is, if someone chooses to freebirth then they've either not bothered to research it or think they know better than trained medics. Either way, it's their choice.

It's bonkers to me that someone would happily eschew top notch healthcare they can access free at the point of use in order to roll the dice but people make stupid unwise decisions all the time.

JustLetMeHave · Yesterday 00:29

I would hardly call todays maternity services "top notch healthcare"! There are regular threads on here of women detailing their traumatic experiences of giving birth on the NHS, and then you have the Ockendon review too...

Maray1967 · Yesterday 00:42

LauraNorda · 22/11/2025 11:42

If human birth required medical intervention, humans would have been extinct millions of years ago.

This is probably the most ridiculous thing I have read on here in a long time

Childbirth killed many more women and children centuries ago. Are you not aware of that? Neither of mine would have made it into the world safely without expert medical intervention. You are basically saying that as long as some women manage to give birth with no assistance the rest of us can be sacrificed.

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