my husband is depressed and wont have sex with me

[DRESSMEUP]

my dh has been diagnosed with depression, he has lost his libido which i find very difficult. am i being unreasonable in getting cross?

[Pitchounette]

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[DRESSMEUP]

have taken all your advice.... now my dh is questioning me as to why i a being so nice to him!!

[lucyellensmum]

That'l be because he is depressed!!! Its a very lonely and self doubting place to be. You are going to have to be patient if you want to love and support him. Bearing in mind he is unwell and not really able to help it to a certain degree.

So, he asks you why you are being so nice? Tell him, because you love him, you are worried about him, that you want to try and support him through a difficult time and that no matter what, you are there for him. Tell him you might have days when you seem to have run out of patience, but that you still love him, anyway.