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Cancer - hand hold

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Mamabear0202 · 21/11/2025 10:55

Breathe Chill Out GIF by CSDRMS

It’s more of a hand hold than an AIBU but when I posted in the cancer group a few weeks ago I didn’t get many responses. So apologies, I know I’m being naughty posting here.

i just want a hand hold. Early 30’s, a 1&2 YO, cancer diagnosis with hopeful treatment to cure.

starting my chemo today, now, it’s a long old day of sitting in a chair. Just want a chit chat, a hand hold. What is everyone doing today?

trying my best to stay zen. Anything good to watch on iPlayer or Netflix?

OP posts:
Supporterofwomensrights · 21/11/2025 20:30

Based on the 'numbers viewing' information they've added to some threads, it might just be that there aren't that many of us on here.

I'm truly sorry that you're in this situation. And I'm sorry I don't know what else to say. I really hope your treatment goes well.

poetryandwine · 21/11/2025 20:30

Mamabear0202 · 21/11/2025 20:12

Hi, thanks for checking in. Feel fine, absolutely fine.

I’ve heard and read that usually the more doses you have the more your body is like wtaf and can get more symptoms. But I feel fine at the moment; it’s strange; I feel like like an unknown ticking time bomb!

Glad you are doing well, OP!

I remember DH saying similar. He did get more fatigued as treatment progressed but it was never terrible. Nor were his other side effects. I know he was very lucky that way and I hope you will be, too.

BTW that was eight years ago and he’s been fine so far. My fingers will always be crossed but I know of a number of (other) success stories. I am glad you have your young family - they are probably tiring but I am sure they are sustaining ❤️

mechanicalpencil · 21/11/2025 20:43

Sending you strength OP 💜

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