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To Spend £1345 on a Set of Earrings ?

626 replies

Moaning5 · 19/11/2025 10:05

My dad has just gifted me £2000 - how nice !

My parents have NEVER gifted me money in this way. He’s done something with his pension and given all of us (4) the same amount.

I have no real savings to speak of other than an emergency fund. I have no mortgage to put it towards. I have grown up children who are independent. I have no debt to clear.
AIBU to pay £1345 for a pair of gold hoop earrings with pear drops as worn by Princess Catherine which I have always loved ?
Or am I being ridiculous and it needs to be be spent more sensibly ? On what though ?

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AliceMaforethought · 19/11/2025 10:37

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Wishimaywishimight · 19/11/2025 10:37

I need to see the earrings 😁

northernballer · 19/11/2025 10:38

I'd whack it in my pension and enjoy watching it grow, but I'm obsessed with retiring early and that could be a month I get to finish work earlier 😀

Lovecatssowonderfullypretty · 19/11/2025 10:39

My luggage got compelling lost travelling to Islamabad in the 90s and travel insurance provided 1500 I think to triple. I bought a cardigan that cost nearly that amount.

If you can afford it and they delight you, do it! YOLO

AliceMaforethought · 19/11/2025 10:42

BaronessBomburst · 19/11/2025 10:31

Which ones?
There must be a cheaper alternative.
Post a picture on the Style and Beauty board.
Then you get both the earrings and to keep the money.

dresslikeaduchess.com/2023/12/21-pairs-of-kate-middletons-favorite-pearl-earrings/

A cheaper alternative is going to look cheap.

mydamnfootstuckinthedoor · 19/11/2025 10:42

a wonderful idea! An unexpected windfall should be spent on something wonderful that you will treasure forever. every time you wear them you will think of your dad's generosity.

Shadowdax16 · 19/11/2025 10:43

I’m in the buy the earrings camp. Yes they’re expensive, but they’ll bring you joy and remind you of your Dad’s gift. Being sensible and saving the money for car repairs, bills etc definitely won’t do that.

Statsquestion1 · 19/11/2025 10:44

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It’s called being realistic…

lazyarse123 · 19/11/2025 10:45

I would. It's money you wouldn't normally have so look on it as a bonus.

MNLurker1345 · 19/11/2025 10:47

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Different perspectives and different purses! To
spend a £2000 gift on fixing a car or replacing a boiler, would make me feel hard done by….unless I really needed to.

Buying a pair of beautiful earrings, is a rare luxury and because of my boiler insurance and annual checks and my reasonably priced car
mechanic, I don’t worry about those things. And so off to the jewellery shop I would go!

helpfulperson · 19/11/2025 10:49

Absolutely buy the earrings. £1345 is not a life chamging amount of money but you will get so much joy from the earrings. Even if you never wear them and just enjoy having them.

RubySquid · 19/11/2025 10:51

If that's what floats your boat. I personally wouldn't as be scared of losing them ( earring disappear from my ears)

Ragamuffin8 · 19/11/2025 10:51

We need to see the earrings!!! Please show us!

calamanka · 19/11/2025 10:52

Not sure, but I would love to see a picture of the earrings...

ManchesterGirl2 · 19/11/2025 10:52

It depends on your financial situation - will you need the savings? If you've got a big enough pension pot that you'll be able cover your living and housing expenses, then enjoy the gift however you like. If not, I'd add it to savings.

SeriaMau · 19/11/2025 10:53

Garamousalata · 19/11/2025 10:11

You should definitely spoil yourself.

On another matter, does your DF know that he can only give £3000 a year away without incurring inheritance tax? That is, if he dies within seven years and has more than £325000 to leave, with an allowance if he leaves the family home in his will.

Not true.
DF can gift as much as he likes every year from excess income. If he has changed his pension to draw down more each year that would be excess income.

miniaturepixieonacid · 19/11/2025 10:56

The other thing in their favour (I think, I might be wrong) is that really valuable jewellery doesn't lose much value once bought, does it? So, if you ever needed or wanted to, you could probably sell them for not much less than you paid?

ttcat37 · 19/11/2025 10:56

YABU when you have no savings.

Lurkingandlearning · 19/11/2025 10:57

Whatever has caused you enough doubt to have posted here is probably the reason you shouldn’t

LovingLimePeer · 19/11/2025 11:00

£2000 would buy a years David lloyd /other 'fancy' gym membership.
I'd either do that or stick it in my SIPP /ISA and invest it.
Both options buy me a healthier/happier retirement. Earrings would not.

No point buying frivolous things until you are on track to have a fully funded pension.

WinoTime · 19/11/2025 11:00

If you have no savings then, no, don't buy them.
Buy something nice for a couple of hundred quid and save the rest for now.

KneelyThere · 19/11/2025 11:02

I’d use it in a way my dad would approve of, so for me that would preclude jewellery!

Gair · 19/11/2025 11:02

You could see it as a generous start to your savings. Put it in an ISA and you can take it out tax free when you really need it.

If you buy the earrings, bear in mind that gold is very expensive atm though, so don't expect to get the money back should you need to sell in future.

If you want to save and have earrings, then spend £50 on a copy (there are plenty out there) and put £1950 into the ISA.

You can see that I bat for Team Sensible (often called Team Boring by the penniless opposition!) 🤣

CowTown · 19/11/2025 11:02
  1. Get quotes on how much the annual insurance on this jewellery will cost.
  2. Are you prepared to pay this amount (plus inflation) each year?
AliceMaforethought · 19/11/2025 11:03

Statsquestion1 · 19/11/2025 10:44

It’s called being realistic…

Not really.