I agree that young girls are becoming far more interested in skin care etc now. I think that’s an internet thing and it’s hard to escape that, despite restricting kids access, they talk to each other. I think I’m lucky that neither DD or her friends have much interest it that yet so I haven’t had to navigate it but cheer wouldn’t be the catalyst as far as I can foresee. There isn’t the encouragement from that side, I think her school friends would be more of an influence on her.
DD is honestly not a ‘girly girl’ though, she dresses like me, baggy jeans, jumpers and trainers mostly. Won’t wear a dress ever, hates tights. Training is spent in shorts and a tshirt with hair scraped back, like the other girls. The only time she wears her uniform is at a competition and she loves it, she’s dressed like her friends and they’re a team, she’s really proud of it. She had to wear full makeup for her first comp and she hated it. Happily now it’s optional, sometimes there’s a bit of lipstick but it’s the minority. No jewellery or fake nails or you can’t compete.