Brief background, my ex and I divorced 15/16 years ago after a long relationship 6/7 years) but comparatively short marriage of 18 months or so. My decision to end the marriage hit him hard and he told me when it was finalised that he never wants to hear from me again, no matter how well or how badly my life is going. I have respected that and never tried to engage but I happen to know through mutual people that he is married and has children with his new wife which I really wish him well with in particular as we couldn’t seem to conceive. I remarried and am divorced (again 🙈) after finding myself in a terrible coercive marriage which MN held my hand through some 7 years ago (and then some as it took me some time to realise what was happening to me).
Anyway, I have noticed that he keeps looking at my LinkedIn profile. I don’t mean once or twice, it’s more like five times now and I don’t mind per se, but I do find it a bit odd. I’ve rebuilt my life from ground zero after the second divorce and re-qualified in a professional sector and am doing my best to make something of my life. It’s going pretty well but heck it’s exhausting.
AIBU to think it’s a bit weird? Or just think thanks for the interest and crack in with life. I have no inclination to contact him….