Should i be suspicious

[Itsmehixo]

Background, married for 12 months together 6 years, some suspicious behaviour on his part at the start all good now. However, hes in nashville on a stag do and messaged me at 3am (very odd never texts when he's out) so just out of a strange instinct checked his findmyiphone to make sure he actually got home 🤣 anyway had a shock that he was way over the other side of town(from where he was staying) in a hotel, could see he left that hotel at around 5.30am and all of a sudden was texting me non stop being very lovey (very odd barely have any chat while he's away!) i did some incognito digging and he basically said oh wasnt a late night & reckons the boys were staying in 3 different places hmmm, do we believe this should i ask face to face ? I just have a very uneasy feeling

If you don't trust him then leave.

If you do trust him then don't track him

The issue isn’t his behaviour but the fact you don’t trust him. That’s what you need to look at and work out whether the lack of trust is founded or not.

Your need for surveillance isnt a good sign.

Given the percentage of guys supposedly in committed relationships who cheat on these stag does - including the groom- I would think your suspicious are well founded.
If you chose to be in a relationship with a guy who sees these stag does as a normal part of his life then you can look forward to a life of mistrust and worry.

This.

Makemeanonymous

Given the percentage of guys supposedly in committed relationships who cheat on these stag does - including the groom- I would think your suspicious are well founded.
If you chose to be in a relationship with a guy who sees these stag does as a normal part of his life then you can look forward to a life of mistrust and worry.

Well that’s a leap! Men are invited to stay does, you’re saying if they go they’ll probably cheat?! Seems ott!!

First of all, I'm not surprised you're suspicious. It does seem odd. Also nothing weird about checking his location. My partner and I track each other's phones on Google - it doesn't mean we don't trust each other! Quite the opposite - neither of us had anything to hide. I find it super useful and reassuring to know he could find me - or at least start to have an idea where I went missing - if anything ever happened to me!

Personally I'd try and do a bit more digging to see if you can set your mind at rest and if not you probably need to talk to him about it (you should probably do that anyway actually). Good luck

Your gut is suspicious with good reason.

Your gut isn't always right. This sort of comment is not helpful and just feeding op's feeling of unease

Of course there's going to be cases where it was, but that's just confirmation bias, there will be plenty of times someone's gut said something is wrong but nothing was