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To hate it when people CC managers into emails for no reason?

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CCMeNot · 10/11/2025 16:30

I find it so passive-aggressive when someone copies a manager into an email thread when it’s completely unnecessary. If we’re having a straightforward discussion or resolving a minor issue, why escalate it by looping in management?

It feels like a power play - a way of signalling something without saying it outright or trying to cover themselves unnecessarily. To me, it undermines trust and open communication.

AIBU to think this kind of behaviour is petty and unprofessional or is it just standard office politics I need to get over?

OP posts:
Loopylalalou · 11/11/2025 09:34

So many victims on here. Perhaps stop and think whether you LM needs to know of the issue - reading a brief email will waste less time than you saving it up for a briefing. And it may be for mentoring, developing the cc’ing person. Let then deal with those doing it too ardently. And if you do your job, in a timely fashion, communicating as need be, why gripe?

daffodilandtulip · 11/11/2025 09:42

I'm a sole trader but have contracts with the council. The finance woman messes up alllllll the damn time. The only time she copies her manager in is when she's beaten a deadline, like she wants a medal for doing it right once. I've started copying them in everytime I tell her she's messed up now.

Ihatetomatoes · 11/11/2025 09:51

LeaderBee · 10/11/2025 16:31

Fucking hated it, used to work with some bitch that had it out for me and literally everything would be CC'd to the manager.

I had a similar experience.

Emails very negative/moaning and misinterpreting things, and then copying in various managers. So I replied factually and concisely, to each point she made, and copied in all the managers that she had done (previously I would just reply to her). She never did it again.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2025 10:05

Strikeback · 11/11/2025 06:29

But if you never answer your email, how am I meant to resolve it? As pp have said, I cc when people have repeatedly failed to get back to me. Not because I'm manipulative. Not because I'm power-hungry. Because I have a task to complete, you are preventing me from doing it, and you are going to be the one to moan when things go wrong (I organise a lot if meetings & events).

Then you have tried to resolve the issue with 'me'. That's OK if you've genuinely emailed a few times and presumably tried to call. Going to the manager should be last resort.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2025 10:06

Tryingatleast · 11/11/2025 06:48

We used to be told to cc managers sometimes, at morning meetings they’d finish with ‘cc me on that’ - some managers want to have access to everything

Some people micromanage and some can't delegate. Obviously, I can't know in your situation if the boss is controlling or not.

Also, the OP's issue isn't about managers who ask to be cc'ed, but people who do it unprompted when emailing her.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2025 10:07

Loopylalalou · 11/11/2025 09:34

So many victims on here. Perhaps stop and think whether you LM needs to know of the issue - reading a brief email will waste less time than you saving it up for a briefing. And it may be for mentoring, developing the cc’ing person. Let then deal with those doing it too ardently. And if you do your job, in a timely fashion, communicating as need be, why gripe?

The managers aren't even reading the emails because they know they're not relevant.

ShaneWalshgirlfriend · 11/11/2025 10:11

Don't think I've ever done it for no reason.

I've done it when

  • She needs to know what is going on in terms of tasks and dates
  • Stuff not impacting her now but potentially important down the road
  • I trust the correspondent less than I could throw them.
LeaderBee · 11/11/2025 10:26

ShaneWalshgirlfriend · 11/11/2025 10:11

Don't think I've ever done it for no reason.

I've done it when

  • She needs to know what is going on in terms of tasks and dates
  • Stuff not impacting her now but potentially important down the road
  • I trust the correspondent less than I could throw them.

Mine would copy in the manager for stuff like:

"Please can you do xyz"
"Have you seen XYZ persons file?"
"I'm doing this thing that you once used to do, please can you tell me how to do it? and/or can you send me the guide for doing the thing"

Like, jesus woman, WTF is your problem trying to get me to look bad at any chance you can.

TheAlertLimeSnail · 11/11/2025 10:41

lighteningthequeen · 11/11/2025 09:05

This thread is eye opening. It’s very standard practice in my org, and in fact there might be 5+ managers on the CC sometimes! It’s not viewed as micromanaging or a passive aggressive move, just a way to keep people in the loop in a fast paced environment.

I agree with this.

I've worked in two very large, fast paced organisations and this is fairly standard practise to ensure people are kept in the loop.

As a manger myself, I would rather be cc'd into email conversations so I can keep track of what's going on and how things are progressing than having endless meetings to be updated on something that I could have read in 5 minutes.

StrongLikeMamma · 11/11/2025 11:00

LeaderBee · 11/11/2025 10:26

Mine would copy in the manager for stuff like:

"Please can you do xyz"
"Have you seen XYZ persons file?"
"I'm doing this thing that you once used to do, please can you tell me how to do it? and/or can you send me the guide for doing the thing"

Like, jesus woman, WTF is your problem trying to get me to look bad at any chance you can.

She’s making herself look bad then, not you. Just ignore and only hit reply to her.

fatcat2007 · 11/11/2025 11:23

My whole organisation does it as standard. We all work on different projects all the time. Some people work part time. People go on annual leave or off sick. People leave from time to time. Having others copied into emails means we have an easy record of what was done when and it makes it a whole lot easier to find documents and pick up work. It’s very rarely to do with individuals.

Chiseltip · 11/11/2025 12:04

thetruthshallsetyoufreebutfirstitwillpissyouoff · 11/11/2025 08:35

I don't have access to my reports emails and my manager doesn't have access to mine - I guess in a disciplinary/pip scenario access could be granted but I imagine it would need a lot of jumping through hoops.

So who manages their inbox when they're on leave?

ShortColdandGrey · 11/11/2025 12:28

I cc a person's line manager for the ones that usually ignore my emails. I then a an email chain to show when they haven't done their work, and their manager knows they have been asked on more than one occasion.

OooPourUsACupLove · 11/11/2025 13:09

Chiseltip · 11/11/2025 12:04

So who manages their inbox when they're on leave?

Can't speak for that PP, but in my place:

  • If it's a BAU team who deal with repeating time critical tasks there will be a team DL as well
  • For anything not BAU that needs to keep moving, the employee will most likely have been cc-ing appropriate people in anyway, but if not they'll send a handover update and cc them in. As a project/strategy person most of my work falls into this bucket
  • The OOO message will give a default contact for anything else that can't wait

Above a certain level, people usually check their emails on leave anyway. (I don't like that, I think people who are covering need to know they are empowered to cover, not be waiting just in case somene on leave pops up with a reply. I tell my team to assume I won't be checking. If there is a genuine Ooo really needs to be involved emergency my immediate team know they can call me ).

topcat2014 · 11/11/2025 14:49

Chiseltip · 11/11/2025 12:04

So who manages their inbox when they're on leave?

My work waits for me to come back, like a gift

Loopylalalou · 11/11/2025 15:11

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2025 10:07

The managers aren't even reading the emails because they know they're not relevant.

Not in my experience. I would do it all time as my staff with me. Perhaps you’re working for crap managers who can’t manage their own workload?

thetruthshallsetyoufreebutfirstitwillpissyouoff · 11/11/2025 16:08

Chiseltip · 11/11/2025 12:04

So who manages their inbox when they're on leave?

They put an out of office on saying they're in leave and when they're back and giving my email address as an alternative contact if it needs dealing with before then... if someone ignores that then that's their problem.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 11/11/2025 17:03

RainySundayAfternoon · 11/11/2025 08:52

I very much dislike people who copy in about 16 people who have nothing to do with the matter in the email, random department heads, head of organisation, they’d probably copy in my mum if they could. And it’s never because I actually did something wrong, it’s because they either didn’t get the answer they wanted or not within the 15 minutes or so they were prepared to wait.
Stop doing that!!

This.
It just shows that they're a bit of a trouble maker, escalate if you haven't had a response within 24 hours, otherwise don't be a dick unless it is company practice.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2025 19:11

Loopylalalou · 11/11/2025 15:11

Not in my experience. I would do it all time as my staff with me. Perhaps you’re working for crap managers who can’t manage their own workload?

It's pretty common for managers to have a high workload and to receive a lot of irrelevant emails. It doesn't make them crap.

notquiteruralbliss · 11/11/2025 19:55

I CC my manager because we work on the same projects and cover for each other. He CCs me. I don't CC other people's managers unless its to their advantage / to give the work they are doing for us visability.

chlamp · 11/11/2025 20:44

I had this with a coworker who’d copy in our project lead (same seniority as me) completely unnecessarily. No incompetence by my team. It was a way to say I want this done now so I’ll copy in as many people as I can, to get what I want now (not in line with project timelines). Demanding bullshit. I finally had enough and replied ‘is this an action/note for me or project lead? Wouldn’t want to duplicate work’ Project Lead replied ‘Unclear Chlamp, it sits with your team so not sure why I’m copied?’ (No cahoots at all). Annoying co-worker stopped doing it after that.

Don’t be the demanding passive aggressive coworker.

WolfFoxHare · 12/11/2025 08:02

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2025 10:06

Some people micromanage and some can't delegate. Obviously, I can't know in your situation if the boss is controlling or not.

Also, the OP's issue isn't about managers who ask to be cc'ed, but people who do it unprompted when emailing her.

Sometimes my team will tell me in a catch-up about a work-related issue they’re having with a client or a colleague where they’re struggling to get buy-in for a policy or are being stonewalled. I’ll suggest a course of action and say ‘feel free to cc me when you email them next time’ so they know I’ll step in if the client gets nasty/colleague refuses to do the necessary. It’s not micromanaging or failure to delegate, it’s providing back-up in tricky situations.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 27/02/2026 13:34

It's because so many people are not in to receive their delivery

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