AIBU:
You are being unreasonable - you should stay put until you find another part-time job
You are NOT being unreasonable - agree that it’s time to leave the job you dislike
I currently work two part-time jobs, doing essentially same role for two different employers but on different days. I started job 2 about two years ago, and worked very hard to prove myself in first year. It was more ‘prestigious’ employer, but salary almost 35% lower than job 1. I took the role because I thought it would be straightforward to do alongside job 1 but actually it has become increasingly demanding and more difficult to juggle both. I worked extremely hard and over-performed in first year of job 2, had lots of positive feedback, but was recently passed over for the promotion (that would have brought my salary in line with job 1). I’m growing resentful, feeling taken for granted, and distrusting of the employer. Also feeling a bit humiliated professionally tbh. I’m increasingly desperate to resign and am dreading going back after Christmas.
On the other hand, I don’t have another role to go to. Job 1 is unfortunately unlikely to increase my hours. Would it be better to ‘quiet quit’ and keep a low profile in Job 2 for as long as possible whilst taking home my mediocre salary?
There is also the factor that things at home have ramped up due to an upcoming house move, my husband having a very pressurised (though high paying) job, and a son with additional needs. I often think about the benefit to the family if I could put more of my time into supporting them and managing household things.
Has anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice for me?
thanks x