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To think he should leaf blow somewhere else?

109 replies

Imdunfer · 10/11/2025 10:19

I'm sitting in a ten acre park waiting for an exercise class to start while drinking a coffee. I'm the only person sat in this park. There are some other people around but they're all moving through to somewhere else.

Is it unreasonable to think that the guy with the incredibly loud petrol power leaf blower should be blowing the leaves in another area first, rather than right beside my bench?

Leaf blower not lead blood!! Why can't we edit titles?

OP posts:
TheBirches · 10/11/2025 10:35

BillieWiper · 10/11/2025 10:23

I thought you meant 'bleed blood', and someone had a severe trauma injury and you were annoyed their blood has splattered onto you or your clothes?! 🤣

Yes, I thought the OP was being a bit unreasonable in complaining that someone was bleeding in her vicinity when he could have gone somewhere else to deal with his bloody wound.

TheBirches · 10/11/2025 10:35

Imdunfer · 10/11/2025 10:34

I wonder if someone in the Council is on Mumsnet 🤣. He just finished talking a phone call and come over and apologised!

My powers stretch everywhere. Everywhere, I tell you...😀

FenellaFeldman · 10/11/2025 10:37

5128gap · 10/11/2025 10:33

Funny how different people view things. If I was sitting somewhere that someone needed to do some work on, my manners would motivate me to get out of their way. I think it says a lot about a person sense of self importance in relation to service workers if they think the worker should always give way.

Yeah, me too. For some people these are just blokes in high vis, aren't they?

pizzaHeart · 10/11/2025 10:37

its good OP. I think when doing jobs a little obvious consideration and common sense wouldn’t go amiss. It’s not like you wanted him to go away and gone back tomorrow.

FenellaFeldman · 10/11/2025 10:38

TheBirches · 10/11/2025 10:35

Yes, I thought the OP was being a bit unreasonable in complaining that someone was bleeding in her vicinity when he could have gone somewhere else to deal with his bloody wound.

Me too! Imagine my disappointment to find out it was a workman showing a perceived lack of respect! 😂

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 10/11/2025 10:39

Presumably he has a route and he just starts where he starts and works his way around

It's hard to avoid other people in the park when doing it whilst the park is open

But of course, within 10 minutes of this post, he's conveniently come and apologised...

Hoardasurass · 10/11/2025 10:40

@Imdunfer the parks maintenance workers round here are given a set route with strick timescales to do each job in each park, the poor guy probably has no choice or time to do his leaf blowing in a manor that doesn't disturb the public

SummerHouse · 10/11/2025 10:41

I am invested. What did he say? What did you say??

senua · 10/11/2025 10:42

But of course, within 10 minutes of this post, he's conveniently come and apologised...
Hmm
I'm waiting for OP to complain that he hasn't cleared the exercise area yet.Grin

AllPlayedOut · 10/11/2025 10:42

5128gap · 10/11/2025 10:33

Funny how different people view things. If I was sitting somewhere that someone needed to do some work on, my manners would motivate me to get out of their way. I think it says a lot about a person sense of self importance in relation to service workers if they think the worker should always give way.

Likewise.

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 10:45

MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 10/11/2025 10:24

Why don't you move instead of expecting the man working a tedious job to stop what he's doing for your convenience?

And if she moves, the guy will say that ‘she pointedly move away from him when e was just doing his job’ and that ‘she didn’t have to make a point like this that she thought HE was a nuisance’.

HappyGilmorex · 10/11/2025 10:46

He's doing a job, OP. You probably wouldn't appreciate it if random strangers expected you to arrange your work for their convenience rather than just letting you get on with it.

As an aside, the sheer bravery of drinking a coffee before an exercise class is dazzling me 😂

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 10:48

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 10:45

And if she moves, the guy will say that ‘she pointedly move away from him when e was just doing his job’ and that ‘she didn’t have to make a point like this that she thought HE was a nuisance’.

And having read the update re the guy apologising this is exactly how he read it…..

The OP moving was read as a PA way to show her annoyance at the noise etc….

HappyGilmorex · 10/11/2025 10:48

Imdunfer · 10/11/2025 10:34

I wonder if someone in the Council is on Mumsnet 🤣. He just finished talking a phone call and come over and apologised!

Did he, aye.

MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 10/11/2025 10:49

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 10:45

And if she moves, the guy will say that ‘she pointedly move away from him when e was just doing his job’ and that ‘she didn’t have to make a point like this that she thought HE was a nuisance’.

Why are you just making stuff up?

lljkk · 10/11/2025 10:59

I was thinking that if he knows the exercise class will start soon, maybe he starts in that area so that he can't inconvenience the group of exercisers later.

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 11:02

MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 10/11/2025 10:49

Why are you just making stuff up?

im Not. That’s how I’d take such a move.
And that’s exactly how the guy understood it if he then went to apologise to the OP

MD2020and10LambertandButlerPlease · 10/11/2025 11:06

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 11:02

im Not. That’s how I’d take such a move.
And that’s exactly how the guy understood it if he then went to apologise to the OP

And if she moves, the guy will say that ‘she pointedly move away from him when e was just doing his job’ and that ‘she didn’t have to make a point like this that she thought HE was a nuisance’.

Is not the same as him realising he inconvenienced her and apologising.

So yes, you did just make up a whole narrative with no basis whatsoever.

5128gap · 10/11/2025 11:07

MaurineWayBack · 10/11/2025 10:45

And if she moves, the guy will say that ‘she pointedly move away from him when e was just doing his job’ and that ‘she didn’t have to make a point like this that she thought HE was a nuisance’.

I very much doubt it. However she could have minimised this tiny risk with an "I'll get out of your way mate". Amazed at how many people seem to turn the most basic interactions with others into a three act drama.

No5ChalksRoad · 10/11/2025 11:08

Leaf blowers are the spawn of Satan. Loud, polluting and devastating to insect life.

HedwigEliza · 10/11/2025 11:15

He’s working. If you don’t like it, move.

JLou08 · 10/11/2025 11:31

This is up there with one of the most entitled posts I've seen. Why should someone change the way they do their job to accommodate you sitting in a park. Should he do another area every time someone sits down? How do you expect he would finish his job if more people come and sit in the park?

Lastfroginthebox · 10/11/2025 11:39

So he's working and you're just sitting around? Wouldn't it be better if you moved so he could get on with his job without disturbing you?

JamieCannister · 10/11/2025 11:39

Imdunfer · 10/11/2025 10:19

I'm sitting in a ten acre park waiting for an exercise class to start while drinking a coffee. I'm the only person sat in this park. There are some other people around but they're all moving through to somewhere else.

Is it unreasonable to think that the guy with the incredibly loud petrol power leaf blower should be blowing the leaves in another area first, rather than right beside my bench?

Leaf blower not lead blood!! Why can't we edit titles?

I find it hard to imagine a scenario where the leaf blower guy couldn't blow leaves elsewhere first, and only get to the occupied bench(es) if / when necessary.

I suppose there could be some scenario where there is only one sensible route around the park blowing, and that involves starting precisely where you were.

No5ChalksRoad · 10/11/2025 11:46

Lastfroginthebox · 10/11/2025 11:39

So he's working and you're just sitting around? Wouldn't it be better if you moved so he could get on with his job without disturbing you?

It’s hardly life-or-death necessity to blast leaves around.

most leaf blower operators i observe spend far longer than need be, aimlessly wagging those stupid things to and fro.