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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask if you’ve ever blagged your way into a job you technically weren’t qualified for and smashed it anyway?

13 replies

CompetentChaos · 09/11/2025 21:48

You know those moments where you think “I had no business getting into this role” but somehow you rose to the occasion and actually did great? I feel like more people have done this than admit it. Fake it til you make it really does work sometimes.

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Kleptronic · 09/11/2025 21:50

Ok so where are you now in this fake it til you make it scenario

Kleptronic · 09/11/2025 21:50

And what is your AIBU :)

BarbarasRhabarberba · 09/11/2025 21:51

Pretty much my whole career because I dropped out of my degree but went on to have the resulting career anyway.

Mumofteenandtween · 09/11/2025 21:52

God no. The opposite. I have terrible imposter syndrome.

CompetentChaos · 09/11/2025 21:54

Kleptronic · 09/11/2025 21:50

Ok so where are you now in this fake it til you make it scenario

Not in a faking it phase anymore thankfully, just thinking about how common it is!

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CompetentChaos · 09/11/2025 21:54

Kleptronic · 09/11/2025 21:50

And what is your AIBU :)

And the AIBU is whether it’s actually a bad thing to blag your way in sometimes, since it often ends up working out.

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RuncibleSpoons · 09/11/2025 21:57

God yes. My entire career. I’m really good at bullshit and everyone I have ever worked with thinks I am an expert in my field. I’m blagging it all the way.

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2025 21:57

No. I seem to blag my way into shit jobs though

worcesterpear · 09/11/2025 21:58

I don't know, I have never done it but I know people who have. Are you going to give examples of what qualifications you pretended to have and job you got? As it is hard to judge whether it is a bad thing or not without further context.

PermanentTemporary · 09/11/2025 22:01

Depends on the job and the person imo. My boss took on someone from an agency who was supposed to be about at her level of experience - usually takes anywhere from 4 to 10 years to get there. He turned out to be a brand new graduate who’d never had a qualified job before and it was a total shitshow. I’m a believer in people knowing what they’re doing. But if the job is mostly about soft skills I guess people can develop those outside their industry.

AmberLime · 09/11/2025 22:03

I blagged my way from £22k a year job to £44k job - by describing what I did, and not disclosing salery. Once in the job, I was further prompted up to £63k within thr first year. The thing was, I knew I could do it. Just needed someone to trust me.

CompetentChaos · 09/11/2025 22:04

worcesterpear · 09/11/2025 21:58

I don't know, I have never done it but I know people who have. Are you going to give examples of what qualifications you pretended to have and job you got? As it is hard to judge whether it is a bad thing or not without further context.

Oh nothing mad like faking qualifications, more that I’ve gone for roles where I didn’t tick every box but learned fast on the job. I think a lot of people underestimate how much you can pick up once you’re in the role.

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worcesterpear · 09/11/2025 22:08

That's fair enough then, I have heard that a lot of men do that all the time and that's partly why they can be more successful than women (in general).

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