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Our school has banned the word Christmas?

939 replies

Fayethefair · 09/11/2025 09:30

I’ve heard from a friend on my DD’s school’s ptfa that our Cambridgeshire school has banned the word Christmas to make the school events feel more inclusive. So now it’s Festive Party, Festive Fayre etc. I’m happy to let mumsnet know the name of the school if they don’t feel this post is genuine so they can check this themselves but I won’t put names on here as this is my child’s school, I just don’t think this right and want to see what others think.

My daughter attended a Diwali lunch put on by the school recently and I genuinely thought this was lovely. I feel everything should be represented equally, I don’t understand or agree that the head should be picking and choosing what’s allowed and what isn’t. Surely this isn’t right?

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user5687921 · 09/11/2025 14:32

Mumofoneandone · 09/11/2025 14:29

Can't believe you actually have to ask that question?! Our major Christian festival is allowed to be renamed without a complaint, but any other faith can keep there name for a major festival. It's completely wrong.

You consider a Cambridgeshire primary school's winter fair your major Christian festival? Because as far as I can see, that's all that's been renamed.

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 09/11/2025 14:33

GehenSieweiter · 09/11/2025 14:09

Is this irony?

What do you think Gehen? 😅🫣

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 09/11/2025 14:34

People are getting trigger happy with the report button now 🤣

Megifer · 09/11/2025 14:37

DC primary school did this and did say it was because " Christmas" could be offensive 🙄

Parents went nuts but I imagine there were some constructive discussions had as the school ended up changing all their comms to "Christmas and Winterval Festivities" and sent out an apology for the error in comms 😬

So i can believe this op!

Allswellthatendswelll · 09/11/2025 14:37

Leopardspota · 09/11/2025 10:00

Are you very religious? What dos your priest say about this?

There is no need for it to be a ‘Christmas fayre’ it’s not a religious event. It’s fine for it to be ‘Christmas’ but if it puts people off who enjoy the ‘festivities’ of the time of year then changing the name makes little difference. You can informally call it the Christmas fayre anyway.

Exactly. I am a Christian and I'd be happy to just call actual religious bits like the carol service "Christmas" and everything else "winter or festive". There are loads of festivals in midwinter of all sorts of religions going back to pagan times.

MoFadaCromulent · 09/11/2025 14:37

An incredible amount of effort to repeatedly let people know you don't understand the meaning of the word banned

Theyreeatingthedogs · 09/11/2025 14:38

OP, you said you would name the school. I asked you hours ago to do so. You have not. You have continued to post. This is a RIGHT WING RUMOUR. You have no credibility.

JustSawJohnny · 09/11/2025 14:38

I call bullshit.

Nice attempt at rage baiting, tho.

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:39

MoFadaCromulent · 09/11/2025 14:37

An incredible amount of effort to repeatedly let people know you don't understand the meaning of the word banned

Surely it means a group of people gathered together to sing the same song ?

Oh, no. That's band.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 09/11/2025 14:41

The problem is the celebration for Diwali was only special lunch, it sounds like for Christmas they have a fayre and a big party. That’s hardly the same! If they’re not having a big party and a fayre etc for any other religious festival and if these events coincide with what would normally be end of term parties it doesn’t seem unreasonable to change the name to make them more inclusive. It doesn’t sound like there is anything to suggest the word Christmas is ‘banned’ entirely and the school may well still have a Christmas dinner similar to the Diwali lunch, it sounds like it’s just changing the name of two big, main school events to be more inclusive and not putting all the focus for the two big events on a religious holiday.

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:42

dynamiccactus · 09/11/2025 12:17

Good point above about the Puritans trying to ban Christmas!

Generally, in history, after the Romans got bored, the most persecution of Christians has been at the hands of other Christians (to the bafflement of Jews and Muslims everywhere).

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 09/11/2025 14:43

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:39

Surely it means a group of people gathered together to sing the same song ?

Oh, no. That's band.

Edited

No, no, you're thinking of a type of product manufactured by a particular company under a particular name.

The word is brand.

Muffsies · 09/11/2025 14:43

The British have a long history of banning Christmas, Oliver Cromwell would approve 🤣

InsectsMatter · 09/11/2025 14:44

B1anche · 09/11/2025 09:48

It's not been banned has it? They are just not using the word for their winter event.

So you support the banning of the word Christmas?
people like you are part of the problem.
our culture is being erased and you think it is some kind of joke.

Bagsintheboot · 09/11/2025 14:45

Ok one thing I would like to see banned is that fucking awful psuedo-word "fayre".

If you mean food, it's 'fare'. If you mean an event with stalls and rides, it's 'fair'.

"Fayre" can get in the bin and I would gladly see it banned.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 09/11/2025 14:46

InsectsMatter · 09/11/2025 14:44

So you support the banning of the word Christmas?
people like you are part of the problem.
our culture is being erased and you think it is some kind of joke.

So right it's akshuly discustin 😡

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:46

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 09/11/2025 14:43

No, no, you're thinking of a type of product manufactured by a particular company under a particular name.

The word is brand.

Little bit of a woosh there, I'm afraid.

Bagsintheboot · 09/11/2025 14:47

InsectsMatter · 09/11/2025 14:44

So you support the banning of the word Christmas?
people like you are part of the problem.
our culture is being erased and you think it is some kind of joke.

"Our culture is being erased" - don't be so daft. Watch TV for five minutes or visit your local supermarket, you won't be able to escape Christmas.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 09/11/2025 14:47

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:46

Little bit of a woosh there, I'm afraid.

I just spent too much time on Tumblr in the early 10s 😔

OneBookTooMany · 09/11/2025 14:50

Allergictoironing · 09/11/2025 14:13

Apart from the fact that you are showing racism by talking about "joining" this country (British born & bred here, with generational proof going back centuries and NOT a Christian), children don't "Join" school by choice, education is mandatory and not everyone has the time or ability to home school. I don't HAVE to join a knitting circle, but we do have to school our kids.

😂😂

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:50

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 09/11/2025 14:47

I just spent too much time on Tumblr in the early 10s 😔

Well someone had to. Just glad it wasn't me ...

GehenSieweiter · 09/11/2025 14:50

Mumofoneandone · 09/11/2025 14:29

Can't believe you actually have to ask that question?! Our major Christian festival is allowed to be renamed without a complaint, but any other faith can keep there name for a major festival. It's completely wrong.

You actually think there wasn't an existing midwinter celebration or two?

GehenSieweiter · 09/11/2025 14:51

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 09/11/2025 14:33

What do you think Gehen? 😅🫣

I was hoping so.

suburburban · 09/11/2025 14:53

Dollymylove · 09/11/2025 14:28

Is anyone stopping them holding markets?
Maybe they just dont want to bothered with ripping people off charging ridiculous prices and calling it a Christmas, or Eid, or Diwali Market 😅

Rip off Fayre? perhaps

SerendipityJane · 09/11/2025 14:55

I don't HAVE to join a knitting circle

Well, no. But there is the germ of a Netflix smash hit there somewhere.

"Bitch'n'Stich" is a bit too obvious. But remember Mia Wallace ...

Our school has banned the word Christmas?