Partner but his ex partner since 2 months ago.
we have a 10 month old together.
(Don’t live together) was sorting that out but no way now.
i had to leave him as he has become very very abusive to me particularly verbally. Name calling. Threats etc.
if I showed you his messages and things he says and does to me you’d say he’s mentally ill 100%.
I never retaliate.
anyway…. I’ve had to stop him seeing our son which I don’t like to do. He’s not seen baby for 2 months because he was shouting down the phone he wants me to die and I need to drop dead. He’s said some awful stuff.
he says strange things like he makes up stories that never happened and bileaves it. I find him dangerous it’s like he’s not all there. I’m so worried and scared
example he messaged me saying can you remember when you told your mum to hang herself if a bridge?
and I know I’ve never and would never say that and I even told my mum and she was shocked. It’s stories in his head.
example - 7am in the morning he messages me telling me I’ve not recovered from my mental break down.
what mental break down? And good morning to you too.
last night he rang my phone at 9pm asking to speak to our 10 month old that can talk and who was obviously in bed. he was sluring his words a bit too. Like he sounds not all there.
last week he rang social services on me and told them I’m mentally ill with post natal depression ?? They rang me and said it sounded like a malicious call and closed it down.
this is just a few scenarios. May I also add when I met him he’d stopped smoking weed and he’s recently gone back on that to help him sleep apparently. I don’t like it but each to their own and I made it clear baby won’t be around him stoned etc or even smelling of it. It’s a no from me. And I’ve also witnessed him being in magic mushrooms which he says is for depression. Yeah right ok.
is he in a drug induced psychotic phase. Is he mentally not ok in general. What the hell do I do seriously.
he’s absolutely horrible. Calls me fat and ugly messages me all the time calling me a shit mum. Me stopping him seeing our son has made him even more angry but I’m NOT handing my baby over with his head and anger where it is. Just no no no.
I just don’t understand how he’s projecting onto me what he’s actually doing ? It doesn’t make any sense.
honestly when u was 9 months pregnant we was driving to a restaurant in the car and I had a really funny turn. I went really hot and sick and just horrible. I opened my window and told him how I felt and he flipped because he could feel cold air on his neck? Honestly just very weird weird behaviour.
he’s extremely paranoid and it’s like he’s out to make me look mad and crazy to the world. To my family but Ive actually backed away to protect me and my baby from his toxic ways.
we use to have to sleep in the dark in pure silence and I know this is normal but even if his cat licked himself or meowed he’d go mad at a slight noise and get agitated and therefore didn’t spend any nights with him either s baby crying u didn’t feel comfortable or safe
what do I do. Honestly when I met him he was amazing. We’ve had good times. We’ve laughed we’ve been to nice places. We’ve been in love. I just don’t know who he is anymore. It’s draining the life out of me.