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For not being able to let it go?

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Lollipop20 · 06/11/2025 12:39

me and my husband have been together 10 years, married 5- got a 6 year old, now last year we were going through quite a traumatic time with his dad being diagnosed with terminal cancer and we were quite involved with care, decisions etc so I understand his behaviour would have naturally been different to usual it was extremely stressful however somebody new at work started and he wanted to go out a lot more, wasn’t very pleasant to me, very snappy etc he was staying over a bit later at work (only an hour or so) and I know that he got a taxi back home and shared it with this woman the once (it was on the way back to ours and he said he didn’t want her to get it back by herself in the early hours of the morning) , he is adamant nothing has happened and in fact she is now going out with one of our mutual friends but I just can’t shake this feeling that something did. I have no proof whatsoever and since his mum passed we are better and I’m not suspecting anything etc but that could also be to do with her finding someone else maybe? I don’t know my question is I can’t shake the feeling but it’s done with now and I have no proof and had none either so what can I do with this feeling? Lol

OP posts:
coldiris · 06/11/2025 12:44

Did you ask him if anything happened or did he volunteer that information?

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