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To take son to GP for this?

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WorriedMum777 · 01/11/2025 19:04

I can't work out if I'm being ridiculous but over the last week I have noticed my 4yo has started with a sort of eye tic.

The reason I am concerned is whether this could actually be some sort of focal seizure.

Basically over the last week or so whenever he has been feeling a particularly high emotion (often excitement or anger), his right eye and eyebrow (always the right) will sort of roll upwards and for a few seconds twitch like a spasm. It literally lasts for a matter of seconds, a sort of blink and you'd miss it thing and he seems completely fine in himself.

I am questioning myself as to whether he is just doing it deliberately to show his excitement or whether it's involuntary. Particularly as I clocked him doing it when he was angry too so it's not solely an excitement response, more just any strong emotion.

It seems to have developed just in the last week.

Would this concern you? He doesn't seem to be aware he's doing it as when I've asked what he did with his eye he just says what?

I've tried doing it myself and it's actually quite difficult to do just on one side!

DH thinks I'm overthinking.

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WorriedMum777 · 01/11/2025 19:09

I've resorted to videoing me telling him "exciting" things to try and catch it on video but no luck so far.

Last night's trigger was me saying it was time to go trick or treating but I annoyingly wasn't filming.

It's concerned me even more seeing him do it in response to being angry as well (at his dad telling him off over something).

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Owly11 · 01/11/2025 19:11

Yes GP and optician. Don't delay and ignore your idiotic husband (sorry but someone had to say it)

NormasArse · 01/11/2025 19:12

Eyes can tell us about other health conditions. Definitely take him.

WorriedMum777 · 01/11/2025 19:14

Ok thank you! It's over so quick it's easy to dismiss it and think I'm being silly but it's definitely concerning me the longer it's going on for.

I will book him in Monday morning.

I had naively assumed with a seizure you'd be unwell / it would be obvious/ last for longer than a matter of seconds but it seems from googling not always the case.

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Exactfare · 01/11/2025 19:25

Well a year or so ago I thought my son's eye was rolling in a bit (also blink or you miss it) and now he's waiting on surgery 🤷‍♀️ so id go with your gut (although my son's eye condition became much more obvious before it Reached this point(

WorriedMum777 · 02/11/2025 15:34

Exactfare · 01/11/2025 19:25

Well a year or so ago I thought my son's eye was rolling in a bit (also blink or you miss it) and now he's waiting on surgery 🤷‍♀️ so id go with your gut (although my son's eye condition became much more obvious before it Reached this point(

Thank you! I hope your son is ok.

The more I'm thinking about it I feel like he has always had a few episodes of spacing out as well. Just for a few seconds.

I'm going to submit a triage first thing in the morning anyway.

He hasn't done it today yet so I'm questioning myself again but will definitely still book him in.

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