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Grumpy hubby

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Preggers101 · 01/11/2025 14:49

Hello. Anyone else out there with a grumpy hubby? How do you cope? Mine will go days without speaking to me because I did the slightest thing wrong. Thanks in advance. X

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Hernameisdeborah · 01/11/2025 14:51

Giving you the silent treatment for a perceived slight is abusive. That’s not merely being grumpy. Unless he quickly changes his ways for good and grows up, you leave him.

Phoenix1Arisen · 01/11/2025 14:55

That's not grumpy. The proper name for that is cruel.

Overdonecabbage · 01/11/2025 14:58

This is a touch more than grumpy OP

Any children involved?

AutumnalCrows · 01/11/2025 15:01

Are you pregnant, @Preggers101?

He sounds like a right arsehole. Sympathies Flowers

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 01/11/2025 15:10

That’s horrible, and as others have said, it’s abusive.

Breadcat24 · 01/11/2025 15:12

I would be grumpy if you called me Hubby Yack
Does he call you wifey?

Have an adult conversation without these nauseating pronouns and see how it goes

FreyjaOfTheNorth · 01/11/2025 15:14

Previously you said these episodes are ADHD shutdowns and he’s not in control of them. So what’s changed? www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5121423-adhd-husbands-shutdowns?reply=136870245

Endofyear · 01/11/2025 18:35

Why are you calling him grumpy hubby? He's not a child. If he's giving you the silent treatment on a regular basis, I think that's abusive. If he can't discuss problems in a calm and reasonable way, like an adult, do you really want to spend the rest of your life with him?

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