Posting mainly because I need some outsider views as i dont know if im being unreasonable/needy here or if im actually being manipulated. I apologise as this may be long.
I've been seeing a guy for around 5 months, things have been great but also slightly rocky at times. We have had the "exclusive chat" but have fell into some kind of relationship dynamic already. On Thursday we had quite a heated argument after I caught him going through my phone. Not an issue as i have nothing to hide but id had some suspicions that he had been doing this for a little while.
The next morning when he was leaving he apologised and, for the first time, said that he loved me. However he never spoke to me at all for the rest of the day, we had already planned to see eachother that might but I had to message him at 7.30pm to ask what was happening which was met with a yeah sure. We met and he was completely disinterested, cold and spoke to me in quite a hostile tone, saying how miserable i always look, he can never win, he shouldn't act like he cares when he gets nothing in return. He also said how someone at work had asked if he was seeing someone and his response was "kind of". I silently got my stuff and left.
Im just really confused what is going on here. Like who says they love someone and resolve an argument then continue it on with so much disinterest afterwards and changing it into something else.